I recieved an email today from an ad I have in my local Backpage.  The email is from a female asking if I'd be interested in a gig in a town three hrs from me.   I'm not against a little travel if I'm compensated for gas.  I tell her to please give me more information before I can give her an answer.

In her reply email. She tells me she has a client who wants a spanking from a BBW and no one in their local area will take him seriously.

I ask her who she is and why her client isn't emailing me directly.  Her response is he wants to be discreet and not have his business all over the internet.  (no response telling me who she is).

My response to her is that since I don't know her, I would rather discuss this with the gentleman she is telling me wants this service.

Her last response is "Sorry I won't bother you anymore.  The gig paid $500 btw and all he wanted was a spanking.".

Does this sound like she was a legit provider trying to help her client out?  I'm just wondering why she couldn't find someone to spank him alot closer to home for that amount of money.

anyway since its the first time I've had a provider contact me about another client, I'm just curious to everyone's thoughts on this.

never travel anywhere without telling someone who and where your going. That might be tough for you if you are new. Women get hurt all the time so don't let it happen to you.

I would never drive 3 hours to see someone I have never met before with no info. Most providers ask for references but since I know little to nothing about you I would be afraid to give out info to you.

Remember you will be driving 3 hours each way . That's 6 hours of your time and then the time spent with the gentleman.

Stay safe and don't let a few dollar signs rule your head

Kisses Haley

for someone else?  I could buy it if it was a provider you knew and the guy wanted a FMF duo; assuming you were comfortable with that.

go from there.

But the 3hr drive, only for a larger concideration would I do that, an over night a tour where I will stay a few days and see other clients and make the trip worth it to me in a big way. Schedule a tour around it, or maybe just a trip and then its paid for and you get your mini vaca. all depends what you want.

I went to SC in November to see friends for a few days posted an ad and saw 6 clients while I was there and made a nice chunk of change on my vacation so the 3hr deal is a no go in my book if its JUST to see this one client.

And first off and for most go No where w/out verification of her as well as hoim. Yo need to put you and your rules and concerns first Always.

Stay safe

I would never go on a date without screening the gentleman myself unless I personally knew and trusted the provider referring the gentleman to me.  But, even then, I would still want to at least talk to him or correspond with him in some way before the date.  And, if this provider does not understand this, then, something is not right with her.

Plus, as Haley has already pointed out, there is 6 hours of driving involved.  When you figure in getting ready for the date, the drive there and back and the date itself, you are basically spending one entire day on this guy.  He may only want a spanking, but he is compensating you for your time not services rendered.  $500 is not enough, IMHO.

Stay safe!
Belinda

For one, I fucking hate Backpage!!!

Not for something that happened to me, but someone else.

It makes my fucking skin crawl when a legitimate provider has to resort to using that fucking venue!

If it was up to me, I'd make as many dates as possible to make sure she wouldn't have to resort to that fucking site.

So many goddam predators and pieces-of-shit inhabit that fucking site.

No fucking reviews, or legit references.

Leaving a lady to second guess her better judgement and end up in a fucked-up situation.

Oh yeah. I can hear it now. Guys saying they're cool with Backpage. You know what? Fuck you!!!!

Take my post down. I don't give a fuck. As long as one lady saw it, and she thought about posting on Backpage and it changed her mind, that's all that matters.

Fucking peace!

and frankly I would say don't do it. She should have the client contact you not to mention there have been many times whereas a female was used to snare another female victim into sinister things. Paul Bernardo has his wife lure two young girls to their deaths, Cameron Hooker (yes that's his real last name) had his wife help him keep a sex slave for over 7 years and the most recent case of Jaycee Dugard. I have heard from a few providers that they have also received this call. I have no idea what it's about but it's highly suspicious that the guy can't speak with the provider. It's like that in all of the cases. $500 is not a price you should put on your well being or your life.

Neona, if this situation motivated you to post the question on the gd board, then you already know the answer. The whole things sounds fishy.

This is the classic B&S tactic and is TGTBT.

Similar to posting the super hottie photos (not real) on CL with a super low rate. Guy shows up, plunks down cash, and she says "I don't do anything illegal, what  do you want to do?"

This is too much money for too little. There are folks that do this but the unknown here is too risky.

I would only proceed if you can establish her as a good and verifiable provider you can trust, and him as a client. Just as you would any client. Then bring backup.

with saying what is on your mind.

FUCK YOU!!!

It was half a bottle of Seagrams and about a 12 pack.

I had to get up and look.....

Yeah, I know. BTW, shouldn't you be getting ready for a date about now?

It IS Saturday, and I know you have better things to do than babysit my ass and such a fine day!

The MP67 that I know would drink that for breakfast. lmao

Speaking of which, I am at the Veneto Casino in Panama City, Panama, and it's way past happy hour for me. Don't bother checking time zones, it's 11:30 AM, way past happy hour. rofl

Get your damn passport MP, or I will be forced to fuck all the chicas for you. lol

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Get your Goddamned Passport!!!

I am bown here in Panama AGAIN without your sorry ass, WTF???

I guess I should have better things to do than post on the board today as well. lol

I guess it's time to start drinking. lol

BTW I had this beautiful Colombiana from Medellin last night. It must suck to be stuck at home on the weekend. roflmfao

both need to be verified, no different from any other date.

Just like the advice to hobbyists "think with the big head" the same advice applies. Don't think with your wallet, think with your brain.

You make your 3 hr drive.  It takes you to a dumpy, rundown neighborhood that LE won't even visit. But hey, $500 for a spanking, why not?  You go in and the door locks behind you and two large bull dikes greet you with ropes, and a blindfold. They take you out, to a different house, blocks away, and leave your car where it is.  Wow, kinky stuff, and you get $500!
They drag you down the stairs and lift the blindfold so you can see the dungeon.  Now they take you to the really nice, comfy accommodations they have arranged for you.  Turns out the spanking wasn't for him.  You are put in those comfy accommodations, and the fun begins...their fun.  The $500 is in front of you right out of reach, byt you'll get it, and it will come in handy.  So the play begins, and goes on, and on, for hours.  As soon as one quits, the next one starts.  This no longer seems like fun.  OOOOPs after a 15 minute rest, here comes the gang to start all over for another few hours.  It's been 3 days now, you get maybe 15 minutes before a new group comes to play.  Oh, and that $500..think of it as a kind of salad as it's the only thing they are going to feed you.  During week two of this you begin to wonder if this was a good idea, and you wonder if you should have listened to that lady who emailed you, or the goofballs on the TER GD board who said "as long as you are careful"
Well, you've been there almost 3 weeks, and just ate the last of the $500.  They are bored now, and decide to leave, but....NOT take you.  You are in your comfy accomodations, in the dark, miles from your car, and hours from home.
How was that $500????
You got any more questions about whether or not this is a good idea????
OH, BTW....check out the comfy accomodations we talked about.  Nice huh?

And I might as well look into getting a passport while I'm there.

Yeah, I did get off of work late yesterday so I didn't put as much energy into my dubious habit as I usually do. I apologize if I let you down. lol!

I need to go down south and meet some of your wonderful friends there, Gambler

You think I want to sit here and read how you're down there fucking all these beautiful little senoritas while I nurse a hangover?!

Suck my ass, mother-fucker!!!

I fucking told you! I'm going to go get a green dot card and at the same time see about getting a passport, you cum guzzling gutter-slut!

BTW, just popped open the first.

Fucking cheers!!!

You of course know the best cure for a hangover, and I have already started my cure. lol

BTW I only guzzle "pussy juice" and I try to stay out of the gutter, aside from that your post is pretty accurate. lol

The next chicas that I fuck, in about 3-4 hours, I will dedicate to you.lmao

And if you tell her to call you 'Mike' while you're pounding away on her I'll be so totally pissed!

I'll be back in a while, I have some serious drinking and fucking to do. See ya!!!

Do some people really do that? YUCK

With the right girl

I had already turned her down before I posted this but was just wondering if she even was making a legit offer to me.  Without knowing her or getting any information about who she is or hearing directly from the client himself,  I wasn't even considering accepting anything.

Dying to know if you and a lovely lady partaked in any of the 'stuff'!

I would think twice before driving 6 hours to see a client that I didnt know well enough. Your travel time should be compensated as well.

Take care,
Ariana

The response to your posting has been vocal and unanimous.  But one thing hasn't come up:  "Provider to Provider", "an email from a FEMALE"?  Yeah, sure.