I'm not sure it matters what line or work or what the situation is. Setting the example of paying it forward seems to require the opportunity to help someone else out for no good reason at all and then when they (assuming they will) have the manners to thank you tell them to pass that act along.
How those opportunities present themselves during a session is a bit difficult to imagine but I suppose could/does occur. Still, it's a rather controlled situation and everyone keeps their personal lives and situations well hidden in most cases I suspect. Still, great thought!
Pay it forward? What would make you leave after a session and do something nice for someone else? Doesn't have to be a provider or a person or a fellow hobbyist just anyone. What would make an impact during a session for you to say "wow I want to go out and do something awesome for someone?"
Okay wiseguys Cumming really hard or anything of a sexual nature doesn't count. Of course releasing feels good duh but seriously, what would leave you stunned to the point of you going out and paying for someone's coffee, giving a coat to a homeless person, feeding a stray or making a donation to a good cause?
But I think "paying it forward" should be an "all the time" thing not only after a great session.
So many ways to pay it forward here:
-Take a newb under your wing and show him/her the ropes.
-If you have a skill set that can help someone's biz model, do so while expecting nothing in return.
-Call out db's that threaten and stalk women on these boards.
I have had the opportunity to mentor a number of people here on a number of issues, as MANY people here have as well, and it can be quite rewarding and I love doing it.
If they are newer, which they sometimes are. Most are very happy with the news I share. I will also "TIP!!" which I think they like even better than my advice, lol!!
how to sew, we made products that I sold on Etsy and they kept the profits. It is definitely something I want to start up again. I am still in contact with many of the ladies that were in my class.
...bang me like a screen door in a hurricane then reach into that little white envelope and hand me 1/2 the cash back and I'd be in a hell of a good mood.
You're still getting something and you'd be paying it forward for sure then I'd have a pretty hard time not doing the same. (I don't think could be an asshole under these circumstances).
The flip side is what do you do to pay it forward when a client gives you an unexpected tip?
…is there really such a thing as paying it forward AFTER having visited a provider???
IMHO, I think the SIMPLEST thing to do is just tip her…both ways, of course
But seriously, there are those few and rare providers that you seem to start a "relationship" with. You know, those that see you as a person and not as an assembly line type of person…if that makes any sense. I don't feel like elaborating much but with simple common sense and a decent IQ, most would understand what I mean.
Pay it forward? What would make you leave after a session and do something nice for someone else? Doesn't have to be a provider or a person or a fellow hobbyist just anyone. What would make an impact during a session for you to say "wow I want to go out and do something awesome for someone?"
Okay wiseguys Cumming really hard or anything of a sexual nature doesn't count. Of course releasing feels good duh but seriously, what would leave you stunned to the point of you going out and paying for someone's coffee, giving a coat to a homeless person, feeding a stray or making a donation to a good cause?
that I give others the right of way and let people cut in front of me, etc.
I figure that alone is enough reason that the hobby should be legal.
On a more substantive note, one gal I know volunteers for Toys for Tots each Christmastime so I go out and buy a bunch of toys for her to donate each year
A provider I used to see said she donated 10% of her donation to Wounded Warriors. I believe her brother was a vet. Maybe you could do the same, or donate to ASPCA since you're all about animals.
Personally, for me, I need to lose weight, and I saw in another thread that you've lost 55 lbs in a year, so if you wanted to pay it forward, you could give me diet/exercise tips and encouragement.
I'm not sure it matters what line or work or what the situation is. Setting the example of paying it forward seems to require the opportunity to help someone else out for no good reason at all and then when they (assuming they will) have the manners to thank you tell them to pass that act along.
How those opportunities present themselves during a session is a bit difficult to imagine but I suppose could/does occur. Still, it's a rather controlled situation and everyone keeps their personal lives and situations well hidden in most cases I suspect. Still, great thought!
In everyday living, I donate food and clothing goods to shelters in my area. I always donate to school fund raisers, whether it be monetary or volunteering. I have bought a soldiers breakfast or lunch. I am a caretaker at heart.
As a provider, my paying it forward is making memories and an experience that will last for more than an hour at a time. I want to keep those memories fresh so we can relive them and and make new ones. another way to pay it forward is to give good references and P411 O.K.'s.
$50 discount in the weeks leading up to Christmas IF the hobbyist would donate a significant article of clothing like a winter coat to the charity of the provider's choice.
An awful session with a self-centered provider who used old, inaccurate pics, who didn't give a crap about me, and who did far less for me than others who reviewed her previously, would make me rethink participating in the hobby and if that happened there would be a lot more of me and my money to spread around to others who could use it.
Fortunately, I have not yet met that provider so I am happily entrenched in the hobby.
And actually, the more I think about it, being in a bad marriage with a self centered person who didn't give crap about me etc. etc. lol is what got me to pay it forward and appreciate my time and the money I've spent with the providers I've seen.
So I will happily give a $50 discount to any guy who can show me a valid Armed Forces ID. It's actually kind of what's known as "enlightened self interest" cuz most guys in the service are young and well built. So I still get a nice rate and get to fuck a pretty hot dude. Love those shaved heads.
Before Thanksgiving I ran into Walmart for something quick and I happened to see a mom shopping with 4 kids. I overheard her talking about buying a coat and someone had to wait to get one. I walked up to her and asked her if she would let me pay it forward and buy all of her kids coats. I explained to her what I meant. I gave her 2 crisp hundred dollar bills, and she asked for my number. She has sent me thanks and holiday wishes. I hope to get together with her and the kids and have lunch one day. Her kids faces were full of surprise, I know that we all believed in goodness.
doing so many outcalls when i lived in las vegas it was super easy. nothing made me want to start doing it besides realizing that many people would put it to great use.
i still collect them, save them up and take them to a womans shelter. i also love to coupon and i will get essentials and fun things like nail polish and etc. i know the second part isn't really what your question asked, but its another simple and fun way to add to the first thing.
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