Let me start by stating, that I'm not looking for a girlfriend.  I don't have room in my life for any kind of emotional relationship.  And certainly, don't have the time or the resources to manage multiple women (I've tried it before, with calamitous results).  That said, I tend to prefer seeing the same girl consistently, to help build mutual comfort and to better attend to one another's proclivities.

Further, all of my sexual encounters outside of the hobby, have been with women with whom I've had a deep emotional connection.  As such, a big part of my sexual comfort involves flirting, kissing, petting and mutual foreplay.  And, I like it that way.

My regret though, is that even when seeing a regular girl, I don't feel comfortable sending even the most intermittent, casual, playful emails or texts.  I well understand that when we're together, I'm paying for that time (rightfully so).  Certainly, there is no obligation on her part to spend time reading/responding to un-elicited communications from every Tom or Harry, Dick.  Or, maybe worse for my ego, I send an email and receive no response (because of the, you know, no money thing).  Which brings me to the subject of this post...

Has anyone ever paid a provider to exchange between session emails/texts/etc?

I don't pay to watch her eat or sleep either. So I'll just add this to the list. I do enjoy having a meal with a girl and also have exchanged emails and texts with many. I just don't pay for it and never would.

She has an established sexting service.  I only do so as a matter of mental foreplay a few days prior to the date.  Standard logistical conversation are via normal, non cost, texting.  

I would never do so across the spectrum of providers out there.

Unless its a hooker who is my real life girlfriend, I confine my  communications to setting up and confirming appointments.  Beyond that, if its someone I have been seeing for years, I will text a happy birthday three or four times a year.  (Just kidding).  Lol

 
I know too many guys who get blacklisted for too much OTC communication.  Many girls will tolerate a little bit as the cost of keeping regulars, but every girl has a tipping point where it becomes an unprofitable time-suck and you are no longer worth the maintenance costs in the time requirements to keep you jacked up to see her.  If you cross whatever point is her "line in the sand", you will be ghosted, as you have already experienced.  

 
There are many providers who, because of Covid, are now offering "virtual packages" with zoom, sexting and email contact.  Check your local boards.  Some of the ladies have been posting about it lately.  

girls would rather get paid to e-mail, text, chat... than we putting our dirty hands on them but that's their job.  
Some do but to a bunch of guys at the same time like when they do on cam, that's more profitable.  
Probably they would charge more for wasting time on one guy. But how long does it take to read and answer an e-mail?  
How long an e-mail, how often? There is also a bunch of old, crazy, lonely, in jail and all types of people who would like to communicate with others. Do you need to know or see the person answering back? It could be anybody pretending to be a beautiful girl, that's the internet anyways.  
I don't feel the need for this. But you can befriend her outside the hobby and use social media (which I hate), pay her to answer back or whatever.  
Hope that helps, I'm not very helpful here,
but I try.

I just got paid for a week of texting, sending photos & videos everyday. I am a single Mom & appreciate any gift, unconditional tribute for my time. The pandemic has changed life. I am changing with the times we are currently in & it is very nice when a gentlemen appreciates my time.

my hands before touching a naked woman, don't you?  Lol

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