I recently had a 2 hour session with a regular.
At about the one hour mark it was very apparent that..  Things weren't going to work.  
Meaning, he was simply exhausted (2 12 hr work shifts in 2 days & 3 hours sleep on his part) and his equipment was simply... Uncooperative.  

And as we're all aware, some providers just don't have any business sense or are in it only for a quick buck.

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The hustle & scams are too common.  Perhaps it is rare but it should not be.  It really does not make sense to work for 2 hours...  possibly to the point of exhaustion...  & not get there.  

the success she is.

It should never be expected, but I would be shock if that ever happen to me. That is what a bottle of wine and conversation is for.

I commend you on doing the right thing, however I don't see the need to gloat over it.  

You obviously have empathy, good sense for maintaining ongoing friendly arrangements, and a sincere regular.  But, if you look at the 'Blow-and-go' and Negotiation threads floating around there are lots of guys out there just angling for a discount of any kind.  Was told a story recently about a client who tried to retrieve part of his donation because he 'could tell how hard he made her cum.'

I've had one lady give me a large refund and another a free session due to their flaky behavior. The free session I paid just under half her normal fee (but she didn't even hint of wanting anything).

I feel as you do.  Some circumstances warrant a change in the agreement.  I believe time with a provider should be wonderful and fulfilling, not frustrating and unproductive, to be time well spent.  My feelings and ethics might be a result of my work life experiences and as a lover, but it only seems fair.  Karma has rewarded me for these kinds of actions so I'll keep at'em.  It helps offset my bird shooting in traffic.

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Also your pictures are very sexy.
So I may have to make my way down to NC in the future! LOL

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o if an escort does something good, don't talk about it, ask questions, or else it's gloating? Gotttccchhhaaaaa. Riiiggghhht.  
   
I'm gonna refrain from all the glib jabs I could make, suffice to say, duly noted and taking with a grain of salt.
You're a FINE ONE to be giving advice.  

...even though some guys are the just like to lay there types which I understand too lol but what she did was pretty nice still. And I've also done what you mentioned before about letting the gent come back another day for his unused time. I haven't been in too many situations where I've needed to give any of the donation back but depending on circumstances it's not a hard no for me or anything.

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Again, it all depends on the provider and client and what they're into, but, rather than offering to terminate the appointment (as a 2nd option), the provider could gently suggest they do other things for the remaining hour. I can think of any number of pleasurable activities for that other hour... a relaxing massage, kissing and caressing each other all over (maybe the provider does most of it if the client is too tired), taking a bath together (with kissing etc.), and many more.

Don't take my advice and see where it gets you.

Why's he booking a date when he's so exhausted? I probably wouldn't give back part of the donation. I'd do like another poster suggested...massage, take a bath together, cuddling/kissing and periodically trying to get it up for him.  

Sometimes we just have bad days.  That would definitely bring me back to your door.  Is it about business?, of course but sometimes just being a human being is much more rewarding.  Very cool move on your part Roxy, and even though I dont know you from a hole in the ground, you definitely earned some respect points from me.  Bravo.  

I had a guy show up and not feel well. I sat him down, made him some tea, chatted with him till he felt better and then told him to go home. No fee. He stayed just over an hour and we had a nice chat. He is now a reg who I adore!

What you did was very nice, and like some others have said, I'm sure you gained a repeat client (if he wasn't already).
Is this common? Not so much. Did you owe him a partial refund? Definitely not. His performance or exhaustion is on him and not you. If you were unable to perform that would be a different story. Also, all the ladies say we pay for their time, not specific activities. If he had his full time, you didn't owe him anything. What you did was a nice gesture and probably good business.  

If he's a regular, the fully magnanimous thing to do is give him that hour another time.