Of course I have had those experiences, as has probably every man of color here. I've had a few turn me away from their door because they didn't know I was black until I showed up.  The K-girl bookers stop responding when I tell them I'm black. And more than a couple of providers say "No AA" right on their sites or explicitly ask for my race/ethnicity during the text exchange,  at which point the exchange ends.

My point is simply that it means nothing to me when there remain dozens if not hundreds of women who will see me as long as my money is green. Let me be graphic in service of being clear: When I'm buried to the hilt in a beautiful girl while another hottie is sitting on her face and we're all making high-pitched squeals, I'm not lamenting the fact that some girl last week declined to see me.  It's safe to say that my mind is otherwise occupied (or emptied) at that moment.

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