I Prefer to be over because I find it uncomfortable otherwise and if the woman is a bit on the voluptuous side, I end up being smothered.  (I hear that some guys like that?)

On the other hand, I've heard that some women prefer to sit up on top so they can manipulate the position of things to achieve an orgasm more readily.

Is this accurate in your case?

I used to be an over guy but now I vary as the mood strikes.  Under does carry some smother risk but (a) as you get more experienced, you learn ways to breathe (LOL), and (b) there are few things more interesting than a woman out of control and "nutting" on your face.  A variation on the theme BTW is doing under on one girl while another rides you cowgirl and the two girls DFK while using you two ways.  As a matter of fact, I just did that!

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I prefer to be under, I find it more erotic, but as you mentioned with a bigger girl, it does pose a slightly akward position.

Damnit, I feel like such a noob.  I haven't done it yet but want to be under her. I just love having a woman dominate me and make me her pleasure toy.  

I've heard that being over can lead to disaster if she bucks violently during orgasm and rams her pelvic bone right into your fucking teeth.  Some lady here suggested keeping your hand on her pelvis and her palm on your forehead so you both can be ready for sudden rodeo action.

I prefer over because I love it when a women puts her hands on my head and pushes my face in as she orgasms.  If she wants to be on top, who am I to stop her! (lol)

Lovely!

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Switch girls on second round?

I am on somewhat of a 69 binge with smaller women with great asses, me on bottom pillow under my head... makes me pop like a hot champagne bottle so I guess that makes me an under.  I have recently done two duos:

a) #1 BBBJ, #2 CG on my face - great view for me! - but not much interaction between the ladies

b) #1 CG on my cock, #2 RCG on my face, girls DFKing - felt/smelt/tasted/sounded great! - but I couldn't see much and I do like to watch when a woman rides me

Variety... oh yeah, that is why I do this!

Over.  Definitely over.  If you want to get me totally out of the mood, then get my head into a position where there's something up against me on both sides, and something pressing down on my face.  Not only will it keep me from enjoying anything that's going on, it's likely to get me freaked out enough that I'll push her off me, and I'll be more concerned about "fast" than "gentle".

It's never been an issue, although I did once have to say to a lady, "No, we're going to go with another position, and that's not negotiable."  She looked at me with a quizzical look, and when I said "I'm very claustrophobic", she instantly backed off and things went smoothly from there.

-  My neck will sometimes get stiff (there's a joke in there somewhere?) when engaging in a lenghty 'over' session.  So I like to kneel on the floor, slide her to the edge of the bed and voila!...enjoy.  It's no longer an 'over' as much as it is being right in there.
- One provider once strapped inversion braces on her ankles and suspended herself upside down on a bar that could be lowered or rasied to any height.  I stood up straight and tall and enjoyed vertical DATY and for quite some time.  
- And one of my all time favs:  Sit upright on a couch cushion (or something about that height from the floor)with your legs straight out.  Your partner lies on her back on the floor and slides her ass up as far as she can to the edge of the cushion.  Then you sloutch down to let her put her legs around your shoulders.  Grab her and hold her by her ass and sit back up straight.  She will be laying on her back with her torso somewhat suspended in air and her pussy will be presented right in front of your face while you hold her by her hips. It probably sounds complicated but it is really simple to do and the access to heaven is incredible.  And when she lets go with an intense O then just hold on for a thrilling, thrashing ride.  I'm rather fond of this although the lady probably needs to be free from back problems.                        

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position with one gal who I had to do DATY on for upwards of 30 minutes to get her off.

Without it I as pinching a nerve in my neck that needed medical treatment after a while.

Be sure to put a pillow under your knees.

Under just isn't that comfortable, but I may change my mind.

I keep getting distracted by the bj to give proper attention to the daty. And, if I am doing my job, I am sure the lady finds the same problem.  Depending on my mood, I have tried and liked all positions I can remember...LOL and 69 is fine with me if the lady insists.

I too prefer 1 at a time.  No multi-tasking here for me.

Over under sideways down,
Backwards forwards square and round.
When will it end? when will it end?

... pretty much sums up this debate!

Sometimes fun yet awkward, yet one-on-one time is much better and more relaxing. When I'm on top of someone doing me too, I don't pay attention to what he's doing to me.

Hugs,
Ciara

They are both great, but I like under.  When she gets hot and presses down on my face I almost pop with out her touching my cock.