I met my wife in college just before her 18th birthday. A few months before, her beloved older cousin, got kocked up and had a shot gun wedding. She was very effected by this. Our first date was a hand job, our second, a blow job where I warned her I was cumming, so she could pull off. The next morning, I asked myself why I didn't try to CIM, so I tried the next time and she let me. It took me another year to get her cherry, as she was so paranoid about getting pregnant. Fucking is fun, but to this day we do oral about 90% of the time to the 10% fucking. We both like just laying back, and getting taken care of. Until recently, our 28th year togeather, she had provided sex on demand. Probaly 6 times a week. She will probaly want me to "do her" 2 to 3 times a week. This is the area in my life where I have probably won the jack pot, as she is extremely beautiful and very fit. An ass you want to crawl up and die in. My self, a little over weight, significant hair loss, but the life of the party, and have been told extrmely charismatic. I never understood the not getting sex, not getting BJ's, others complain about. Why would you marry a women, who would disrespect you in this way? I never had a problem getting oral sex from casual dates, so why would one take a wife that would not produce in this manner. Myself I have found the fairer sex, to be oh so much fairer, but oh so much work and maintenance. "Take care of me", "make my life perfect", that kind of thing. As a man I expect to take care of a women, the ones I adore are soft, and feminine and should not be expected to bust balls in the real world. I do however expect a women to bring the sexual compnent to the tabel, and if they do not, not only is it frustrating, but the whole relationship becomes one sided. By the way, I have always been taken care of orally during periods. My wife has found that i am much easier to get along with when I am sexually satisfied, so I guess it works to both our benefits.
Wanderer
My wife is beautiful and sexy (a solid 8 by any of you reviewers, I'm confident) and we have decent to great sex, when we have it despite the lack of oral. Why no oral? Actually, she provided oral before we were married. While it wasn't the best I'd had, it was good enough and I certainly made her feel as though she was excellent at giving it and that it was the greatest sensation ever. My last BJ from my wife? On our honeymoon 14 years ago. She says she has problems with them, that she hates giving them and that it's wrong for me to TRY and make her feel guilty about not providing this. She has no guilt. Only anger when the subject comes up. In this area, she is the consumate BITCH. One that I'd like to spit on and divorce. But this is the only area. I know she is out of my league, and she is the mother of my children and the love of my life who I still love. Divorce? Not an option. Hobbying to get the great BJ's and a little extra variety? The perfect solution! So I ask again, "why the hell are you here again?" Pal, you did win the jackpot as MOST WIVES are not inclined like yours!
Basically, your wife ran a con on you to get the ring on her finger. Obviously, she does think you are in her league. Had she done that to me I would have slapped her with annulment papers, and told her when people ask why, I will tell them. This is brutal, but not as bad as the con she pulled on you! Believe me there are plenty of women out there that give head, just don't waste your time with the women that are not!
Honestly, she didn't "run a con on me to get a ring on her finger" although it would seem so to you (based on my earlier description) and perhaps others. And legally I wouldn't have had grounds for an annulment. I know there are plenty of women out there that give head, and I hope you are able to continue living out your credo of not wasting time with the ones who don't. However, the fact remains that you've offered nothing but your judgement of my situation without answering the question asked of you. I'm a big boy so I'm not crying over it, but next time be sure to answer the question instead of (or at the very least before) posting your judgemental opinions.
