Just wants to see the horror explode on the board. I mean Caroline seems game, with no ice pack or a two hour break or sutures. This is getting really funny.

Hi All. I take some meds for blood pressure, and as a result, it takes me a while to get to my final destination. Meaning, like 3-4 hours. I'm also a bit larger than normal (not too long but very thick). Anyway, my SO loves when I give her oral, but can't take being fucked for more than 30 min, and for the past few months, she hasn't wanted to have sex at all. Which is what brings me to this site, and I am eternally grateful to the ladies I have met, who have been more than accommodating.  However, even some of them are unfortunately not willing to see me again, I guess (they say they will give a good reference but aren't available, or we're not compatible, or no longer do greek). One told me to look into finding a submissive. I'm not interested in that at all. My questions are, 1) Am I being unreasonable in what I ask? 2) How can I make the experience better for ladies given my preferences and condition and 3) How can I find providers who will be happy to have sex for 3-4 hours (with breaks for oral, I'm not a total tyrant). Thanks!

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There is no way in hell I would see anyone who takes that long, or anyone above even six inches, so good luck with that. I am not dogging you, but get real here. For maybe 5k I would take the risk of an ER visit, but my regular rate...foget about it! If your SO had a vagina that can handle you for even 30 min. I say stick with her, because most hookers even, will not do it. At the very least, they will charge you more for a pse. We are not all built like the grand canyon despite those rumors you boys heard in high school about the sluts being loose. I don't even offer more than 2 hours of action period, much less what you are asking, but that's just me. I am sure there are quite a few providers who can handle you, so just read reviews for "can take a horse d*ck" and you will be fine.

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Unless you can tell a prospective choice exactly what you have told us, I think by the results you have so far, it is just too much....3 to 4 hours even with breaks and you being thick is a tall order. I do wish you luck though.

I love to fuck!

That would put some of us out of commission for over a week. You got to feel bad for this guy though. Let's hope he tells the lady upfront, discreetly of course, BEFORE the meeting.

He might have just found his dream date. You are way more women than I ever want to be...go get em girl!!!!!!

Yes, I do feel bad for him, which is why I did not go off blasting like always. Still, even some hookers don't have a vagina that can take a coke can. But, bravo to whoever can do it. I did have a guy back in 09 who literally put me in the ER because he was thick. When other girls saw him, they were like, "Oh, he was not that big LR..what's wrong with you?" Um, not a damn thing obviously!

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your so full of shit........LMFAO.
Love the handle though. ( bloopy, omg that's funny )
"not to long, but very thick"...sounds like your at the meat market ordering bologne...your a friggen hoot!!!

You let it go on that long to put you in the ER? Jesus, you are even more women than I. I stop that shit. My hourly rate does not include pussy incapacitation or an ER visit. I bow to you...

....bump that noise I need a few good breaks (not 5mins to catch breath breaks) and not just breaks for oral.

Must have sucked because he was hot and you could not deal. Oh well, there are many more hotties that will come your way and NOT put you in the ER. Play well and play safe.

Well, for those of us that are not, "Thick" or thin......we appreciate kitties like LR's.
Either i'm not looking or her kitty size is extremely rare, but, IMHO, what more could a normal size guy ask for?? ( especially us older gents that need it tighter for sensitivity ).....That pussy is like gold....lol.

Yup. I would be up for that challenge!!! Sometimes a nice thick one giving a snug fit isn't always a bad thing... Bring a series of butt plugs and the back door could be worked out accordingly... Throw in the guy that talks dirty to cheer me up at intermission and it sounds like a HOT time!!!

HOWEVER, I am figuring your special package now, standard rates may not apply. LOL!

Communication is always the key and it maybe some time before you can find that right lady to be what you need. Thank goodness for the hobby and keep on truckin' big boy! I think you'll be ok. You don't have a real problem going on I don't think.

I was just wondering what are the active ingredients or agents within your medication that would attribute to your prolonged arousal? Also do you tend to have an erection that would boarder on a priapism usually after ingesting the low blood pressure medication frequently?  Finally for the woman heightening of arousal, how much foreplay would there be to enable her vaginal muscles to be more pliable during intercourse?

6 inches? WTF. Google says the average is 6. You must love indian/pakistani clients. : )

Am I correct in saying that maybe a pocket pussy for the breaks, and perhaps a male vibrator may help him to reduce the time???

I think everyone is just focused on the fact that this guy is 3 ticks on the clock and shape like a toilet paper tube...I think what he needs is advice to get off faster.

think lol. Most guys who say they are six are not even 5. Most guys saying they are above average, are fkin huge!

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your provider friend was correct to suggest a submissive. as a submissive provider myself, i have those few clients who require extreme endurance, while maintaining passion throughout, and for them i am happy to provide it. so i wonder why you are opposed to the idea...submissive does not mean BDSM, or kinky activities, in general it can simply mean a woman who is wired to please and serve, and won't simply be just tolerating you.

anywho, to answer your question, yes what you require is unreasonable for the vast majority of women...provider or not.

It's the same as when guys brag about the size fish they caught....it was this big!!!!......lol.

I just read in a Cosmo recently that the average size is equatable to a sharpie marker(in length)... so guys no longer need to pull out a ruler... just a sharpie. If you are the same as the sharpie, you are "average".. if you are longer than the sharpie, then you are "larger than average", & if you fall short of the length of the sharpie, well.. you know

If someone told you "look into finding a submissive" that is a huge indicator in how you may be handling women.

Some men are not self-aware in terms of their performance.  Maybe you should make sure you're not being too rough.  I don't mind work - and I mean curls sweated out of hair, makeup gone, muscular soreness work - but I cannot endure pain and I've met a number of men who mistake mishandling my orifices (lol) with vigorous athletic fucking because they're simply unaware of how they handle themselves or what truly feels good to a woman.

Activity for 3-4 hours is nothing really to a good provider who comes to do her job - and I mean really do her job.  True, many of us are spoiled and "work" for a fraction of the time we're contracted for (I had a three hour appointment today that was probably forty-five minutes of play, the rest of the date social at the clients instruction)- but that doesn't mean that we don't come ready to please you, whatever your needs are.

But if its 3-4 hours of demanding that you be permitted to saw away or tinker at a woman's body you have to look to your own performance and make sure that you are ensuring that you're not hurting her physically so that she is happy and willing to go along for the ride.

I'd suggest that you'd double back to the one who told you to find a submissive or another who has declined seeing you again and ask them to honestly evaluate their experience with you. You may be surprised at what you hear.  Everyone thinks they're an amazing lover but a licking tongue can even feel like sandpaper if it goes on too long.
Then you'll be able to pinpoint what the issue is and how to find providers to better suit your needs.

I'd also suggest that you get a little bag of goodies or suggest a few things to your potential mates after being verified- SUPER premium lubricants, female condoms etc. to reduce friction and soreness.  Make sure you have a good physical/mental warm up before marathon play and a sensual cool down (mutual body rubs/massages are fun and really complete everything).

Good luck!

Maybe another hooker's job, but not mine. Then again, what I do is flat out stated over and over, and I don't con a guy into paying me when I know my limits. Some women must have a cast iron vagina. "Insert anything here for as long as you like."

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We all love u...

I could only suggest finding some other way to get off. And, if you do choose to go to a provider, warn her in your initial email. I don't think you understand that having that much friction can not only cause tears in the membrane of the vagina, but is incredibly exhausting. You'd also better give her a hell of a tip!

My advice would be to find a pornstar, who can take a pounding.

they don't realize that there are some things which simply are not tolerable, no matter how fat they stuff that envelope.

now of course there is someone for everyone, and i do mean everyone, but the OP is clearly looking in all the wrong places and not willing to explore any of the alternatives.

i do have one longtime friend who subjects me to anywhere from 2 to 5 hours of straight fucking each time we see each other sexually (we also have many nonsexual dates in between). he has never even allowed me to suck him...he just wants the pussy. however unlike the OP he has no health or ED issues, he is freakishly fit and athletic, the type who runs marathons for fun. he can cum whenever he wants...in 2 minutes or two hours, but that is irrelevant to his cock being hard and his desire to fuck. he will cum and pause only long enough for me to take off the condom and slip on another, and keep right on going for an hour or more, again change condoms, and that can go on for the course of an afternoon or all night. long ago i established a system where we take regular breaks of 15 mins at a time every couple of hours, OR when i just feel like it's too much. and i'm afraid i don't have a cast iron pussy...there is a point where even if i'm very aroused initially it just hurts like $^&#$%#%$@^!!. still i take it as long as nothing is literally tearing apart because i love to please. especially because this particular friend's wife will not tolerate more than 30 minutes of sex, 3 days a week, and never two days in a row. yes, she stated that explicitly, lol. what man is going to be aroused by a setting of terms over his sex life?? so i feel for him, and am happy to give him something he will NEVER, EVER EEEEEEVER find anyplace else, lol.

and he tells me all the time, "I am soooo glad I found you!!" damn straight! my Husband isn't too crazy about those dates because he knows i will not be touchable for the rest of the week, fortunately for me he loves my throat!

i have met many LARGE guys who think they are "just average." most men have no idea what average is, nor any idea how long an inch actually is, lol. i have one client who thinks of himself as "short but thick," but in reality he is about 7" and as big around as a soda can...that is no exaggeration, i have actually held a can up to his pelvis so he could see what i have to deal with, lol. his extreme thickness somehow makes his cock appear shorter to him so he still thinks of himself as average in length.

if men didn't watch so much porn their perceptions of themselves wouldn't be quite so skewed.

Yes, I know what you mean! Absolutely the OP needs a submissive to express and act on his needs with a lady that is willing. Damn my submissive tendencies and your story was really HOT!!! Reminds me of someone I know...

....how much porn do you watch...seriously
That's crazy...your poor wife...dayum

Thank you. I can get hard but have trouble staying hard. I always enjoyed vanilla-type activities (with a little greek and actually I never had trouble with that). A nice simple GFE is all I really want. I don't want to cause anybody pain or discomfort just for my selfishness. So this thread hasn't clarified anything but it put a voice to things that my partners probably weren't able to say to my face So I will be much more mindful from now on. Hadn't wanted to admit to myself that what the ladies said on this thread was what was going through their heads.

Lilli, I found your comments extremely interesting and had meant no disrespect to submissives (I'm not into BDSM at all and had never thought of submission in the terms you described). The only thing is, I guess I just want to turn back the clock and have the same sex I did a few years ago. I don't necessarily know I'd feel comfortable being worshipped. But I will think things over. I hope there are more like you out there.

As for your questions:

1.  Most girls can't fuck for hours on end.  It's a bit unreasonable.

2.  Spend more time on oral and other things that are less wear and tear than intercourse.  When you factor in condoms, that tends to dry out a woman, and if she is a working girl, she is already using that more than a civilian, most likely.  So spend more time on oral or foreplay.

3.  As I said, pay for three or four hours, and outline your expectations upfront.

I think you are absolutely right!!!   a pocket pussy and and a second provider would do it!  


Laura

Have you ever tried a threesome???    
Also, still keeping yourself in the vanilla side there are other types of stimulation that might help you reach your goal a bit faster...  


Laura