Honestly? Relax. And I don’t mean pretend to relax, actually slow it down a bit.
Most first-timers overthink everything. The message, the timing, what to say, what not to say. In reality, being polite, clear, and normal already puts you ahead of the curve. You don’t need a perfect script or some secret formula.
Go in with realistic expectations, respect boundaries, and remember there’s another human involved. When you treat it like a natural interaction instead of a high-pressure performance, everything tends to flow better.
That’s my take, but I’m curious what others would say.
If you had to give just one piece of advice to a new client, what would it be?
I don't often disagree with the OP but there is no "normal" when you are starting out. While everyone can agree the provider must be treated with respect, many of the other things he mentions only come from experience. . Case in point, having “realistic expectations” isn’t an innate trait, as it’s a learned mindset developed only through experience, often over many dates with different women. . Relying on provider reviews as newbies are taught to do here can sometimes create unrealistic expectations, and that’s something only time and real, in-person meet ups can truly correct. . Excellent post!
If she says she wants to be contacted by text, DON'T call her. If she says she needs a deposit, don't try and talk her out of it. If she says she needs X, Y and Z for verification, don't just send X and Y. . Don't like how she runs her business and what she needs to see you? Easy. Just go to another girl on your list.
That sort of inquiry will always get a response and will always get top priority from me. Someone who sends a nice intro like that, I’ll go out of my way to book them.
I totally agree with this statement. I don't answer the one word .... ''hey, hi, whats up'' I need a little more than that to go on. But I most definitely go out of my way to respond in a quick time frame and always thank them for sharing info with me and tell they are appreciated.
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