I recently had a nice repeat I wanted to share.  This was our third date and I decided to ask for a dinner date & sleep over.  She replied back that she was game and made it VERY affordable.

First off, I would only recommend it for providers you have clicked with on previous dates.  Having said that, I've got to tell you, it was a blast!

Dinner then back to the hotel to simply hang out together without once looking at the clock - what a great way to go!  It changed the whole experience, we both we're relaxed, she had an entire night of playtime planned - I was road hard and put up wet.

After a couple of hours of sleep we greeted the sunrise in eachother's arms - how cool is that?  Yes, I cuddled! (grin)

I know everyone is different, has different circumstances, etc.. but I could see cutting down on the total number of dates in order to afford to have more all night'ers!  It was sweet!

Now the question, do many of you schedule sleep overs and how do the providers feel about them?

Fitguy

The short dates certainly have their place, but I just love all night dates!  I Prefer several hour GFE non-clockwatching "wear ya out dates" with my most compatible friends.  I've always felt like more of an energizer bunny type and a morning girl in any case. Once I'm turned on it's a shame to walk away!!
This way I can also show my silly side and do my casper the friendly ghost impression (my only impression) first thing in the AM.
*smoooch*
Elise

Yes overnighters are the best. The personality of the provider
and the client have to be right so they click with each other.
It is also very nice if the provider does not snore all night
long.

Yes it is very refreshing to wake up early in the morning lets
say 4-5 am and go for another round. You get to the point where
you can't wait to be back with the provider again. Of course if you
are on a business trip you have to limit your activity and get some
sleep. Vacation is the the best, that way you can wake up late. I
like the cuddling part to deep sleep. The other nice thing is that
you can your time and enjoy each other.

Some providers will really charge alot for this because they want
to get the biggest bang for the buck. Others will reduce there price
accordingly for the longer hours, since they won't be wearing
themselves out so much with the short appointments. Alot of this
comes with experience. As you get more experience with the hobby
both sides find that spending more time is a better option.
Both parties don't feel like they are being taken advantage off.
The provider feels that won't be worn out and the client feels like
they are getting a nice deal.

Don't forget to schedule things in advance. Providers have personal
lives also. I have found that I usually have to schedule an
all nighter at least 2-4 weeks in advance.


I suggest that a client do a business trip with at least 2 days.
You will need the 2nd night to sleep by yourself to re-generate
and wipe the smile off your face. I can remember times where I
stayed up to late and then go to sleep from 2pm-6pm the next day
to get my energy back.

My other suggestion is to be in the best physical condition that
you can be in. Get your rest and eat properly. Make sure you eat a
good breakfast in morning with protein. Also take your Zinc pills.
Take a deep breath and relax. Take your time and enjoy. This is
your time to try various positions. Make sure your room has a
mirror in it, so you can see the provider face in certain
positions. Take the time to enjoy the provider hair and sniff
her hair with the clean nice fresh smell.

In my personal experience providers really appriecate all nighters
and they will go out of there way to accomidate you.

Allnighters and weekenders are incredible.  Especially if you meet up somewhere where neither lives.  Then you're both vistors - together on an adventure as a couple.  Problem is letting go at the end...

I love Sleepovers...
But who gets any sleep??
WinK Wink...

Nic I love sleep overs too. What I have found interesting is the percentage of gents who have sleep apnea. The first time I saw one of those breathing machines I was a bit taken aback, but now it doesnt even faze me. I just give them big kisses before I roll over to my side of the bed.

I love to have a night where we can just go with the flow. Dinner and a show or even just ordering in room service and playing as we see fit.

Its nice to just chuck the time clock and just relax and enjoy one anothers comapny. I have only had 1 overnight with a gent I hadnt gotten to know first and I so lucked out. It was incredible and passionate and we have become great friends.

I am happy FitGuy had a great time. He does deserve a great time..

xoxox beautiful
Lass

My mind is wandering so, and the lack of rest, from watching my favorite lady sleep, makes me worthless anyways…
I do love placing those kisses on the back of her neck during the night…

As far as answering your question, I’ve seen this particular lady maybe ten times (lost track more than half, all-nighters…always treasure those memories.

MMMMM…time to check the calendar again…  

Pajamas, eh? I prefer something more formal - birthday suits.

My only allnighter was not planned. We were having so much fun that it just turned out that way. I am married and was away, and quite frankly, it turned out to be more intimacy than I wanted and was comfortable with. Allnighters can be great, sometimes too great.

I agree with Melvinator that weekenders are a real blast. For me they seem to ease the pressure of having to perform at some given appointment time.  And that seems to allow things to happen in a much more natural and spontaneous way.

Big, big requirement is that you have a very good indication that the two of you click.

Two other big time tips:

1) make sure since you are spending so much time together that you have a frank discussion about what privacy needs the two of you may have - especially about cell phone use.  I've been somewhat annoyed before about a lady's cell phone going off constantly.  It's not like a lady can completely turn it off for a three day stretch of time, so you need to have some sort of agreement in place about when and where she gets to deal with other clients during her stay with you.

2)  make DAMN sure she knows when her period is gonna be!!!!!!  schedule around it.

I also have sleep apnea and would never consider going for even one night without my machine.  I urge you to try to talk the guy into using one.  I was suffering from congestive heart failure when I finally got mine and now feel like I'm 18 again.  He must realize that sleep apnea is easily treated, but can kill him if he allows it to go untreated.  The machine took a little getting used to, but even one night stayovers have said that the steady, rhythmic sound of it is very soothing for them.

Overnight encounters can be very sweet indeed!  I like to keep little momentos of my favorite dates, like a candle.......
But wanted to comment on how surprised I always am to hear the guys views on these things.  They say the nicest things.

I would also like to try one of these. My question has to do with rates. Is it okay to try to negotiate on the total for this package? Are providers more agreeable to discounting on these?

Obviously it is more expensive, but let's face it, most of the time is probably spent sleeping? Right? What if the allnighter were to start say at 10pm as opposed to taking up the whole providers evening at 7pm?  I guess my question is what is the typical costs for one of these?

Thanks

Each provider is different in terms of what the start/stop time is, pricing is all over the range.

From my own experience all I can say is fucking until the sun comes up was an option - if I could hang.  She sure had the attitude and enthusiam.  

My advice is, see the provider two or three times (on 2 hour dates) and talk to her about what your expectations are and see if she is a willing partner.  You can also talk about your budget and what you can afford.  If you've been together a couple of times, and you're thinking about a sleepover, both of you are enjoying the time together.

You might be surprised to learn she also loves the ideas you have (toys, positions, shower, bathtub, clothing, dinner, breakfast, movies, etc..)  I find the most important thing is to simply say what you're thinking.  Face it, they've heard it before, even if you've never said it before (out loud anyway!)

Sleepovers takes the clock watching out of the experience and, for me, made it a much better experience - not that two hour dates are bad.

Fitguy

I have also enjoyed a weekend out of town, it was the best! Only downside is if it's too much fun it's hard to go back to reality especially if you want them to be your girlfriend.

I agree, have at least a couple of dates and let her know what you would like to do together. Also ask her what she would like to do or where she would like to go if it's out of towner.

Of course rates are negotiable and certainly less than the hourly rate for the time. It probably comes down to how much fun she has had with you previously and how enticing you can be.

Good luck!

Are there any NYC providors who would make an overnighter somewhat affordable?