When grow the fuck up and learn to wipe yor ass, you may consider such mature grown up activities.
Before everybody gets their underwear in wad, think about what the fuck this idiot is asking. What is he, 14 years old asking his parents permission. Is his daddy and mommy on the board?
I told her that maybe we can get together sometime and her answer was that she is retired but will go out to dinner with me if I want to.
My question is should I go to dinner with her and what to expect.
It would be great for you to spend time with her over dinner, so yes you should.
As for what to expect: I'm sure she'll order what she wants from the menu. And I suspect you'll be a better person for the time spent with her. You really shouldn't expect any more than that, I wouldn't. I like my hair stylist, she's a very nice woman. If she were to retire, and the occasion were to arise, I'd take her to dinner, enjoy her company and have a nice dinner. But seeing that she clearly told me she's retired, I wouldn't think to ask her to cut my hair.
Ask her what she likes most about retirement. Not IF she likes being retired.
Don't tell her you think about her a lot. Normally I'd suggest telling her what you remember best about her, but that would probably be her BJ--which I'm sure she would be flattered to hear--but over dinner?
Compliment her on her hair, if she has any, and if it deserve a compliment, and ask when she bought the dress she'll be wearing.
Try very very hard to not blurt out that you think you're in love with her. Or that you want to stick your cock into her mouth.
Instead of asking if she likes whatever she IS putting in her mouth at the moment (another closed question), ask her when she last had _______for dinner.
Follow these tips and you will maybe give the impression that you have some interest in her mind, in her opinions, and in her sense of well being.
You aren't going to fuck her, so forget about that. Instead of trying to become her lover (usually first prize), insinuate that you will be content to be her friend (the consolation prize). She'll probably grin and nod enthusiastically. That will mean you may soon get a call to help her move her furniture. Hope you have a 4-wheel-drive SUV. If not, buy one before you take her to dinner.
This will be a snap.
Oh, and wear a suit and a paisley tie (if you dribble food on paisley, it's less noticeable).
And don't be nervous. This could be an evening you'll never forget. Or at least you might remember it long enough so that you not have to come back here and ask us what the hell you should do the next time this happens.
-- Cyrano de Los Angeles.
PS (that means post script, in this instance, not porn star)
Too bad you seem to be such a klutz, or I'd send you one of my cards and ask you to give her my cell number... But I don't think I'd want you to have access to my number. Of course she could PM me to say thanks for my help. Suggest that at the end of the evening. If it goes at all well, that is. Otherwise, have fun moving her furniture.
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Posted By: chardonay
About six months ago, a girl I saw several times retired from escorting. We had great chemistry and I know her real name and her cell phone. I miss my time with her but she moved forward with her life and hopefully happy. Today, I sent her a note hoping that she is doing fine and she replied very happy hoping that I am doing fine also. I told her that maybe we can get together sometime and her answer was that she is retired but will go out to dinner with me if I want to. My question is should I go to dinner with her and what to expect.
The mention of being retired as in not about to fuck anymore johns is very clear. Dinner with a another human being, also very clear.
Not sure where the confusion is with you. Are you hoping to get a bunch of guys giving you permission or encouragement to try and fuck her? Please don't be a complete tool bag and do that. Show some decency and restraint and behave!
Come on, I know you can add and know my 'real' age (you're no dummy even though you play one LOL) and I know you've been on my p411 profile (at least a few times lol). But I like you of course and you get the ONLY exception. That should make you smile, at least a lil bit. (it's ok, you don't have to admit it, but I know you are 
