Gas is expensive and . . .

you guys forget the amount of driving time it takes to and from the appointment. It could take me 30 minutes to an hour to get to someone in this big city. So . . . actually that's an additional two hours. Also, it's more frustrating to have to walk for miles in the large parking lots of some of these resorts in heels and try to find you, not to mention we have to put more thought into our clothing and feel strange about entering a hotel and then leaving after only an hour. Love ya' anyway.

Hugs,
Ciara

traveling.
In my head I figure a lady of the type I like to see has to spend at least two hours getting ready to see me. Maybe an hour cleaning up afterwards.  Those are hours that can not be used to generate direct income.
 Sure, paying less money has an appealing face value but I think I am paying for a good fantasy and a good actress to go with it. I just have to regulate how often I can play and for how long. That keeps it from becoming an unaffordable addiction.
 I also figure for me, and probably others, a lot of what drives me is a kind of lonliness. Hobbying costs about twice what therapy costs but it comes with much more physical comfort.
$0.02 worth
Beret