I've never been busted in the act but have mentioned to a provider if my SO put the keys in the door to shoot out the back door and Ill give you your clothes later on.LOL  She was ok with it and showed no fear put on the best damn show ever.  Thats brave and bold.  Providers aren't you afraid of getting your ass kicked or possibly killed by an SO?  Have anyone ever had this happen to them?   And how do you feel about being told an SO may come home?  Would you call the session off?  Will it effect your proformance?   Just curious

. . . do an outcall at home if he lives with a SO?

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I think I'm too discrete(read that: scared) to schedule a session in my home.  I do know of a man who hosted a lady in his home, and in his marital bed.  He wasn't caught in the act, but did get busted by his wife.  She got back from a business trip, got into bed, and in a matter of seconds found the condom wrapper from his illicit liason.  He looked for it, and assumed the lady took it with her.  Big mistake.  It almost cost him his marriage.

It might be very thrilling for you, but you'll burn through 5-8 marriages in your lifetime, and have so many women hating you-- if a wife doesn't kill you.  Get some psychological help.  I suggest you try to develop a foot-fetish instead.

...my girlfriend caught me in bed with a whore. A few weeks later she took an overdose. It was an attention seeking passive suicide attempt that she survived but her university career and early life were ruined.

I never cheated again.

I got busted because I parked my car in front of the hotel and my wife went in, asked for my room showing ID that she was my wife and you can guess the rest.

Moral of story:  Pay for a garage.

It was acually my second home that I rent out but it was vacant and my SO have the keys very rare chance she would show up she was out of town anyway basically just wanted to see how the provider responded when I told her this.  Im not crazy man I use a little common scense when I hobby.  Most of the time anyway.

...the lady met a nice guy and eventually became a policewoman, of all things. To keep the scum like me in order no doubt

I heard they married, but I never have. Never mind eh, life goes on and all that.

Only visit providers at their hotel rooms.  That way she can't find you.  How you explain what your car was doing outside the hotel is up to you.

not having an SO in the first place.

Obviously not an issue (or likely ever will be) for me.

...I've got a girl on my mind and she is cramping my hobbying style. I think about her all day long and she is breaking me down and winning the battle of the sexes.

Goddamn nature, always forcing us to diversify the gene pool. A guy can't get any fun.

who not only doesn't mind me hobbying but encourages it.

And of course, it's a two-way street.

The reason that I see escorts (when financially possible) is that I can't get sex any other way.  This has been an involuntary situation for myself since my teenage years.  I wouldn't be in this if I had ever had a woman show the slightest interest in me, and would prefer to spend the money on "normal" dating and its related activities.  In other words, a normal social existence.  I guess it's a matter of what your priorities are.  Do you want the regular relationship or the hobby first?

I would give anything to even have that dilemma.