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What does "openminded" and "girlfriend" mean when listed or checked in a profile?
PhillFree 2375 reads
posted
1 / 21

I am curious because I reached out to a lady with these in her profile and she indicated that everything was protected.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 164 reads
posted
2 / 21

In other words, nothing.

At least you found out before any money changed hands, I hope.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 129 reads
posted
3 / 21

protected?   Please explain how you do covered DFK.   I would think "girlfriend" would mean DFK is on the menu.  "Open-minded" can mean a lot of things, but it could also mean she will sill DFK you even if you are butt-ugly.   Never assume that there is universal definition for marketing terms.  Its just industry jargon.  

PhillFree 120 reads
posted
4 / 21

She said that she loves to DFK.  But only covered everything else.  I would think that wouldn't be the case.  

BBbecky 149 reads
posted
5 / 21

You have to decide what part is her being open minded and what part is her being a girlfriend.

I'm trying to find a vegan who is willing to prepare me a cold cut, preferably a blonde.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 133 reads
posted
6 / 21
Drumguy25 23 Reviews 129 reads
posted
7 / 21

YMMV at this point. But " openminded" would never equate to BB in my mind. CBJ would be boring, but I guess it depends on her rate. It's purely my opinion, but anything under 300, I would automatically consider BP level of service... no matter what activities were listed. But there are scammers out there charging 500 for " no touch" service. It's tough to discern anymore, and those of us with a limit to their budgets are more hesitant to take chances. Those with abundant resources are more likely to take the chance on an unknown. Even if it were a disappointing experience,  they feel the sting much less.

lopaw 29 Reviews 146 reads
posted
8 / 21

...she's literally open to the idea of more risqué options, details of which I won't include here ;)

I would ping some providers who mentioned being open minded in their ads and inquire if open minded also included seeing lady clients. The responses seemed to run the extreme, from those very eager to have a woman client to those who went radio silent at the mere question. Bottom line was that I learned was that it was just another empty ad buzz word used to try and drum up business and perhaps appear more daring and exciting than their competition.

trex44 9 Reviews 137 reads
posted
9 / 21

Without the means to verify via independent reviews, you're left with *maybe* getting an honest answer out of her or booking an appointment with the chance of being disappointed when something you want isn't on her list of approved activities. I have no complaint with any provider doing or not doing any activity that she so chooses -- however, I would like some idea as to whether we're even in the same ballpark of playtime activities.

"Openminded" is worthless and "girlfriend" has been co-opted to the point of uselessness. About the only way I can rely on useful intel is communicating with other providers and clients who have seen her and are open to discussing relevant info with me.

Buena suerte!

souls_harbor 137 reads
posted
10 / 21

"Open minded" is a liberal shibboleth that means either you agree with me or else.

sexyasianlondon See Agency Profile 141 reads
posted
11 / 21

Everything is always open to far many different meanings.  The best thing to do is to gove the provider a call and explain what you are looking for then you can make sure you book the best person for you.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 151 reads
posted
12 / 21

as most gals, at least those who are discreet, (and that's the ones you want to stick with) won't allow any discussion of sexual acts before you are BCD.

This is the problem that reviews used to solve, but now we are back to trial and error.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 127 reads
posted
13 / 21

sex acts with a girl you haven't seen yet will just get you a dial tone.  

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 125 reads
posted
14 / 21

In places like that where it is not it is perfectly legit to ask about services. It would make things so much easier if you could do that in the USA.

BBbecky 122 reads
posted
15 / 21

Could you imagine the immigration issues America would have if prostitution was legal?  Look at all the people that migrate there now with the laws the way they are.

MmmMelanie See my TER Reviews 127 reads
posted
16 / 21

If you saw it on a place like Switter, it could just be a girl who have fielded alot of inquiries that ask her if she is 'open-minded'. If she finds that it seems she is not answering the question correctly because these inquirers never book, she may decide that maybe she should say that's what she is, without knowing exactly how she takes it, so she can get clients.

Alot of guys/ppl while inquire with girls just to kill time. They are called Time Wasters. Tire kickers. PITA's ;) Some just want someone to chat with.

The questions they ask are pretty standard across the board: Do you do fetishes (feet are the common one)? Are you open-minded? Is that your real pic?

With enough inquiries like that, and being unaware that this is just a guy killing time, girls think that is what they have to do in order to make a living. It takes time but eventually they will (may) realize that it is unnecessary, but until then, they will add it to their ads.

They will still stick to their original offerings (safe, etc) but try to incorporate what they think the majority of ppl want. It's a learning process. She could be new. She could be working with a manager. In that case she will try to appease.
Posted By: PhillFree

I am curious because I reached out to a lady with these in her profile and she indicated that everything was protected.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 135 reads
posted
17 / 21

Well the Kiwi's classify these services as skilled labor. They might be on to something.

DudleyLPsmith 152 reads
posted
18 / 21

No, "open minded" is how people who believe in nonsense (ghosts, psychic mumbo-jumbo etc.) defend their nonsensical beliefs. I generally respond by asking if they're also open minded about racist views of white supremacy.

souls_harbor 136 reads
posted
19 / 21

You just go around asking people if they are racist? I bet you're a lot of fun at parties.

LowLife69 124 reads
posted
20 / 21

Give me more money  
so i can open my  "mind"....

HaleyOrlando See my TER Reviews 128 reads
posted
21 / 21

Years ago I would use the word open-minded when you couldn't list services in an ad. What it meant to me and every other woman using that same term could be drastically different. From kissing to Greek one would have their own standard of service and what they chose to offer without guaranteeing anything. In other words the term means nothing other than a lot of hype to get you in the door at times.

Girlfriend does have some meaning. It is more personable, intimate and affectionate.  

Either word does not guarantee a service . Reviews would answer that ugly question that drives us all to distraction and protects us from putting our foot in mouth when it comes to LE. I hate having to discuss such topics along with price and refuse to.

Kisses Haley

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