TER General Board
Hey people,
Just joined this site, and am gathering LOADS of information! I haven't actually used any providers yet, but I'm making plans and studying provider reviews for my area.
My question is: Who provides the information in the Provider Profiles? Does the provider herself sign up, and list what she will/will not do? I'm curious, because there is a provider in my area whose profile sounds almost too good to be true; for example, the Profile states "Blowjob:Yes, without condom/ Cum in Mouth: Yes, swallows". Yet, in reading the two otherwise glowing hobbyist reviews, neither one mentioned anything about a BBBJTC, as you all refer to it. What is this info based on?
Also, I went to this provider's site, and as her reviews stated, she is gorgeous model material. However, her site gives absolutely no information other than an e-mail address. Meanwhile, the Provider Profile for her lists prices that I find suspiciously low, in comparison to the general range that most of the other women seem to work for; plus, why would she work so cheap when she's stunning, performs well (according to the reviews) and probably could certainly command much more money??? Is she really too good to be true??
Any information or insights from anyone more experienced
than myself would be greatly appreciated. I unfortunately don't have loads of cash to drop, so I'd like to make my money pay for a good experience! I also would not like to find myself in a situation where I am unexpectedly asked for a fee much higher than what her profile states. What do you guys do, say "gee, your profile reviews say only XXX dollars!"
Help! 
First let me applaud you for being VERY SMART and doing your homework. I want to answer your questions from a providers point of view...
QUESTION: The Profile states "Blowjob:Yes, .... Yet, in reading the two otherwise glowing hobbyist reviews, neither one mentioned anything about a BBBJTC, as you all refer to it. What is this info based on?
ANSWER: The info is based on that "posters" experience, but "YMMV". Also:
A). No provider is going to state her "true" services on her website for obvious reasons (LE). Besides, you are paying for her "time" remember? ~
B). YMMV (Your Mileage May Vary). What a provider does with one client she may not do with another. "Services" depend on the chemistry between two people.
C. Not displaying a list of services prevents clients from "demanding" those services when they arrive - again, "YMMV". It is not "safe" for a provider to advertise a service and then not provide that service to a client - he may "go balistic" or call LE on her out of spite/anger/revenge. It's not smart for a provider to list her services.
QUESTION:...Meanwhile, the Provider Profile for her lists prices that I find suspiciously low, ... Is she really too good to be true?
ANSWER: There could be several reasons for this:
A). She is new in the business and trying to establish a local repeat clientelle,...also low rates are a good way to get gentlemen in the door.
B). She is new to the business and not aware of the "going rate" in her area, and/or she finds that the phone rings more often with lower rates.
C). She is an "Independent" so she does not have the high costs that an Agency has (and passes on to their customers).
D). She is running an unadvertised "Special" and her rates will go up soon.
QUESTION: ...why would she work so cheap when she's stunning, performs well (according to the reviews) and probably could certainly command much more money??? Is she really too good to be true??
ANSWER: Probably not,...She may think it's a "Nice" thing for her to offer such low rates, but low rates actually HURT a girl. Unless she is running a "Special" clients think she is a rip-off, a drug addict or just plain not worth more than she's asking. That's not always true, but that's what they think. The best advice you can give this girl is to RAISE her prices.
In conclusion (FINALLY!): If you have not seen any BAD reviews on her you should give her a try. Again, when WE ladies are NEW in the business and "flying by the seat of our pants", no one is going to tell us what mistakes we are making.
We ladies have to start somewhere and we all cant start at the top. She has to get the gentlemen in the door FIRST to evenually get the reviews she needs to make a name for herself in her local area and command the prices she deserves. Perhaps "YOU" can give her her next review,...give her a try,...I'm sure she would appreciate it
Thanks to all who've responded with their observations and suggestions, especially sweetsable for providing some valuable "insider" comments! I went to your link, darlin', and really liked what I saw. If I can assume, from the title on your page, that you are from the New Orleans area, then I know where I'm going on vacation next, LOL! I'd like to thank you in person!!