If I eat a meal I am usually not up to sex afterwards... has to do with satiety centers in the old noggin....   Does anyone else have that problem...

And ladies- if it is a dinner date - do you mind  if the dinner is after the sex... or do you prefer the dinner before (and here there is that food "aftersmell").

I have done both and must say - I prefer the dining afterward...  more relaxed dinner also - or maybe - just maybe- it was the companion.

The whole experience of eating is very sensual and whets the appitite for later fun... as long as I don't eat too much!  

As to dinner dates, one of the reasons for the social time first is that it lets you catch up with friends and chat and flirt, for new friends it lets you build a rapport before retiring for a more intimate engagement.  

I would mind if the dinner is after.  I once made an exception and wouldn't you know - the gentleman never wanted to leave the building to actually go eat FOOD.
: P

Dinner can be wonderful foreplay, in so many ways. I like to relax with a drink and catch up with what each of us have been doing, and there's just something about doing that over a nice meal that makes it all the more interesting to me.

No way I could go after... once I've been used, abused, and left in a sweaty heap on the floor, I'm not in any condition to clean up and go out in public ~

I like it before and after dinner.
Billy

When I get done eating a full meal I'm more inclined to REcline and doze off in front of the TV. Hot, wild, unbridled sex is best enjoyed on an empty stomach and the energy exerted only helps to pique the appetite for the later dining.

. . . you're not going to stuff yourself, are you?

I like dining before sex but I lose my appetite when I'm with an attractive lady; I rather talk. I raid the fridge when I get home.

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I just made the mistake last night of dining first. (My date got a late flight in and it was either dine first or no dine at all.) My mojo just fell asleep at the switch, so to speak.

Maybe I should have taken a tip from George Castanza and combined the food and sex together.

Reinner first, for me.

Had to jump in here, as this is something we can totally agree on!!
I have only done one dinner date.  It was my first "real" indie escort and I was nervous as a cat.  We met at my room, immediately went down to a very light dinner where we spent the next hour geting to know each other a bit, holding hands under the table, footsie, the whole nine yards.  After, we went upstairs for an incredible time that I will treasure always.  
Without the social time for me to get comfortable I would probably have wasted half of the "upstairs" time trying to unstick my tongue from the roof of my mouth...

Depends on the situation.  If I am first meeting the lady, I think it's best to dine first to allow us to get to know each other better and then retire back to the room for the real fun.  If it's someone I've seen before, I like to play a little, go to dinner and then retire back for another couple of rounds.

I love going out to dinner beforehand, and playing throughout the meal...

I even have a wireless, remote controlled pair of vibrating panties, which are fun to wear when out on the town. Just give my partner the remote, and he gets to decide when to (literally) turn me on!

In these cases, it's great to eat light so that you don't feel too full to play afterward.

xxxooo
Beverly ;-*

Reining (at a restaurant or elsewhere) and the hobby.

Actually, the best dinner date appointment I've had  involved having dinner in the middle....We would have some "playtime" first, then go out to a place on Sunset Blvd.(LA) then come back for some more bedroom fun...

Reining (at a restaurant or elsewhere) and the hobby.

I am just wondering....do you take these girls to a nice restaurant or to the deli or bar in the hotel lobby (or nearby)?  I normally am not a big dresser and normally prefer to go to the bar/restaurant, far more relaxing.  I guess going to an upscale deli (Au Bon Pan) place for sandwhiches is not a good idea?  The hotel restaurant in a best western or similar hotel is probably what most people do?

If a client is booking me for few hours, for appetizers, dinner and dessert, I prefer to have an intimate setting at my hotel suite instead of going out.

I book a nice hotel with great cuisine, find out what my client likes to eat & drink and I call the hotel chef to order ahead, so when my guy arrives there is champagne & strawberries to nibble between lickings & groppings.

Move to the bedroom for heavy petting & sex...then order dinner. Shower together, sit comfortably in nice plushy hotel robes to eat.

Is there anything more erotic than play with food? Feeding and getting fed, making a mess and licking each others fingers and lips instead of napkins?

Then, more sex, sex, sex...some cuddling and relaxing time before digging into desserts. I order little bite size sweet things, just enough to pass to each other thru a kiss.

mmmmmmmmmmmmm I'm hungry and horny now!!!!

It's always nice to take two hours getting ready for a date and then be mauled while walking through the hotel door and still have to go to dinner afterward looking like you're put together. Tee-he! I prefer dinner first, then it's always more sensual to have desert in bed. Besides, if you eat turkey for dinner then you're more relaxed when it comes to love-making.
Ooh la la!  Of course, if it's incall, then you don't have to worry about looking good afterward. You can order in Chinese and have something sweet after that hot session. Just my opinion.

Hugs,
Ciara

Hope you don't mind, I'm going to try that!
: )

. . . when you said order in for incall.

Everytime I visit my regular date, I always bring home-cooked lunch or dinner. A one-hour session always turn into a 2 to 3 hour date.

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I have only had anal sex with two women three times in my life.  That being said, I would think that if anal is on the menu that digestive processes have to be considered.  

Every time I had anal sex it was not something I expected or thought would happen.  The one time I mixed this with a meal before we had anal sex, I was confronted with a very normal digestive process that is not for the faint at heart.  

Trying to be polite about things that should be considered.

Seemingly?

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A couple of years ago I had a most unusual dinner date. He was a professional chef and he brought all the fixings for a gourmet dinner. In between courses, we played, drank wine or he prepared the next course. Not in any particular order, ya know? It was relaxing and erotic. And, the food was fabulous.

I used to be a wonderful cook before I started traveling all the time. Eating out as often as I do has caused me to loose some of those culinary skills. However, after this next tour, I'm going to cut back on the travel schedule and be in Tampa more often except for the hottest part of the year. I'll have a new incall apartment location and a FULL kitchen. How about a VIP dinner date in the nude at MY place? I'm missing cooking for my men. As long as the prep gets done ahead of time,,,I'm thinking it might be a nice alternative to dining out. What do you think guys?If you like the idea, it will be something new I'll offer. There could be all kinds of variations on that theme.

Naughtily yours,
Anneke

You guys need to check out this classic Albert Finney movie from '63 to see the erotic potential of fine dining.  Adding tension to the scene is the audience's suspicion that his lascivious lady companion (unknown to Tom)  is his mother.

I generally prefer dinner to meet someone, get to know each other, get a sense of her sense of humor.  After dinner I prefer to go for a stroll or do something else before doing the wild thang.
I can do (read afford) that in civilian life because the costs I incur are not so tightly connected to hours.  
 What I really enjoy is after a night of playing and laughing, going to breakfast to greet the dawn together. Yahoo!
B

the "anal surprise" you got was from the meals they had few hours BEFORE your sessions.

They didn't take care of themselves "before" coming over to see you. If they did, you would not be facing this kind of unpleasant situation.

BDG

gets the gals juices flowing... who can resist me after they have chowed down on the western omlette... or the leafy green salads at Bob Evans...   but if I really like a gal - perhaps on the order of Tom Cruise and Miss Holmes... then we head over to IHOP.... mummm....   all that whipped cream.... on those berries..... mummm!!!  I find Au Bon Pain to be pretentious.... and a bit pricy for what you get....  Too bad there are not many HoJos left around....  

there is always Hooters, but once I took my date there...  she hit on our waitress and they left without me... I think that she had a good time.... but who knows...  alls I know is that I can't go back.

Oh- and lets all not forget White Castle.  They invented sliders ya know.

You have given me some ideas... the one I like best - friskiness before dinner... then dinner... then desert in room!  For the record - eating at Denny's would then be out....   portions are too big....  so I guess I would have to go to some sort of high falutin eatin place with brass pots and plants.... ho boy...  

unless - of course there is a Morimoto's around...!

will make you Buffalo's Ciara fav.  

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I love dinner first..the flirt, touching..conversation..built to a climax..Many times we share an entree..so we aren't too stuffed...The dessert will be filling enough...

For dinners afterwards..I find the men's appetite for food...is not there..they can hardly think let alone eat afterwards!!

Kisses
SexyC

In fact a girl better not to eat before dating me...unless she has no gag reflex.

Mike is referring to the gastrocolic reflex

In the period between meals the colon is quiescent.  Following a meal colonic motility increases due to signals propagated by the enteric nervous system, known as gastrocolic reflex which pushes feces into the rectum that is normally empty. Presumably what BDG mean by ladies didn't take care of themselves "before" coming over to see Mike is that they did not take an enema to flush out the contents of the colon resulting from a meal consumed 8+ hour ago. No need to be polite or delicate about it, its something we all have to keep in mind if we do anal play.


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