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As I was saying, I have to travel to hobby, I live in a small town in the South, no hobby here. So I guess I'm somewhat forced to take short breaks. But now that I'm divorced and been hobbying for the last 3 year's I don't ever see myself taking prolonged breaks. I'm going to an all inclusive resort after visiting family for Xmas, and I mean all inclusive. The hobby may be the best thing that's ever happened to me.

hey all,

When do you take a break for hobbying? Just looking for different takes on this?
I started in 1993 and went on and off to AMP/Asian Escorts til 2007 when I stopped after getting to close to one girl and everyone(wife) finds out.

I started again this year 2013 and this time from 2007 to now my salary has increased 3x. But it feels like the last nine months was super condensed of the last time. I feel I am getting close again to one girl, before it blows up in my face again. Should I stop again?

When I was younger I went just for sex with hotgirl. Now that I am older, it is the whole experience, more for the companionship.

Your thoughts

GaGambler272 reads

fortunately for me (and the hookers that count on me) I don't get into committed relationships that often. Relationships, yes. Committed relationships, not so much. lol

You should do what works for you, I can only tell you what works for me. speaking strictly for myself, almost everytime I think I have "found the one" it's more a matter of infatuation and it wears off quickly, but of course not only am I whore mongering pig, but I am one with a very short attention span as well.

Interesting as this is now what is going on with me.

I always have said, I do not want another relationship so I will just book providers when I want. Well, wouldn't ya just F..K...ing know, I met a lady and we started dating.

For the first time in a few years, I find myself distancing from checking out the boards.

It's funny, I'm trying to book a date with a provider I have seen many times to see if I feel different. LOL  

This will be my first break.

It is a question we can participate on as well.  

I took a few months off when Lyric and I broke up. I was in a new relationship and planned to stop altogether for it. But I ended up missing the life so much that I came back .  

I also take a "break" once a month for 5-7 days. LOL

And I take one day a week totally off.  

I think if you go go go go and take a bunch of appointments every day all day you will get burned out quickly, as well as run through the guys who like your type/look way too fast. But then again - even on the days I work I do one, MAYBE two, sessions a day. Any more and I feel ..... dirty. So the only time I ever take more than 2 is if I am paying for a room. And even then  - its not that many. I don't know how girls see guys all day long. I mean - if you can do it more power to you! But I just don't have it in me. I put so much into getting me ready, getting my place ready/driving to their place, and then the time in the appointment, and then I always need some down time afterwards. So if I tried to take more than 1-2 appointments per day, I would burn out SO FAST.  

Okay - back to the guys answers now....

Crisis25284 reads

Posted By: Jamie.Solo

 I also take a "break" once a month for 5-7 days. LOL
What if you find someone into that freaky stuff?

I'm only HE massage now and I only see a masseuse when I damn well feel like it. Who the hell spends so much money for sex that off-times are considered breaks? My god what a fucking stupid concept. Doesn't anyone control their own destiny anymore? What a bunch of fucking teenagers

As I was saying, I have to travel to hobby, I live in a small town in the South, no hobby here. So I guess I'm somewhat forced to take short breaks. But now that I'm divorced and been hobbying for the last 3 year's I don't ever see myself taking prolonged breaks. I'm going to an all inclusive resort after visiting family for Xmas, and I mean all inclusive. The hobby may be the best thing that's ever happened to me.

Take one.  It's different for everyone.

Seems pretty obvious, but Fla nailed for me.

hank you for the feedback, it all helps! I believe I am going to take a break for a bit, the working girl who I am getting close to even asked me to take a break and just see her outside work. Funny the bookers I use even told me to take a break.

I am seeing a shrink and she suggested the same.

fyi 26k this year is my spend so far

thanks Guys and Gal

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