Only if it was strictly FMF and I had had veto power over the clientele. Since that would be extremely unlikely, my answer would have to be no.

in being in the same room with another naked male and only one female.  Now if there were multiple females, then it would have to be all MF, FF, or FMF (standard threesome).  Just my thoughts and not intended to flame anyone elses wishes or desires.

for your open minds, in several respects.

Most guys I know are way too uncomfortable with themselves to admit this is something that might remotely interest them...or grew up in a society/family that helped them see it as completely repugnant.

I know of at least one couple in LA which does this, though (used to be two), and have known a few men (and some women!) who would seriously enjoy it.

I wish you both the best.  Great pics, BTW!

Do you have reviews?  Thanks.

Though I wouldn't mind a girlfriend who was a provider, I couldn't join in. Personally I have enough performance anxiety with someone new in a one on one basis. I have even tried the male fantasy of a threesome with 2 girls and had major performance anxiety.

I would not be able to handle being part of a provider couple. It seems it works for you and your lady, and I commend you on finding something you can do together that makes you happy.

Happy holdays to all.

b-

I'd have a great time, I think!

I don't currently have anyone I'd be willing to discuss doing this with, nor am I really in a situation where it would be convenient to do so.  I'm not generally open about my bisexuality -- there are way too many people who have very negative reactions to male bisexuals.  I used to be more open about it when I lived in a different city, and was more into dating guys, but that was several years ago.

Still, if there were someone who was willing to try it with me, I'd be willing to give it a shot.  I do have my own restrictions, and things I'm more comfortable with, but it could be dealt with, I suppose.  My big problem is that I'm no longer really in shape to be a major asset (a problem exacerbated by some health issues I've had), but it's hard to be serious eye candy in your forties anyway.  Not impossible, but difficult.

I wouldn't. When I do fall; I will retire. I will be honest with him and hope he doesn't judge me. If I am in a committed relationship, I will have no desire to work... I won't share him or myself if I am in love. I'm not judging you.. I just know that I couldn't do it.

I understand a bit about where you're coming from, having seen a married couple and having a nice time with them.  Clearly there is a market, though not nearly as large as the market for a lady (or 2) alone.

As for "switching sides" myself I am not temperamentally suited for sharing my partner.  There is also the issue that we would starve while waiting for the phone to ring! LOL

What do I think??  Power to you!

edit: you might want to read the thread 2 down about music on your web-site.

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I would do it in a New York minute.  BTW, nice ass on the lady.

and I was with someone who looked like her.  And we were 25 years younger.  You get the picture.

I think some posters assumed that by using the term "switching sides" in your question you were implying that being a bisexual male is a requirement.  Not sure if you intended this, but if so, there would naturally be fewer men who could make it work (so to speak).

Good luck with your school and artwork.


filmat11

I started dating a girl and later found out that she provided (not in my city).  Since she revealed that about herself, I told her that I hobbied.  I thought that since she provided, she could handle the info.  (I wasn't completely right about that, I would find out later on).  However, before things went south, we talked about the hobby and she asked me if I would consider providing myself.  I know that she got off in public situations, so it would be a logical next step.  Unfortunately she flaked out on me (due to a variety of issues) before we got to try it out.  I think it would have been interesting.  Good luck to you both.

Btw, I am assuming that you did mean switch to being a provider as opposed to switching-sides, i.e. bisexuality.  You should clarify.

I don't know that she would and I most likely would not ask...

I'm glad it works for you.

But 25 years ago I was not as open minded as I am now.  We would have to feel really secure about our love for each other.  Back then I was OK with a woman's past, it was her present and future I worried about.

My wife... a provider and I do couple calls... the majority of them are a guy wanting to watch us have unprotected sex while he watches... hmmm pay us to have sex in front of you... No Brainer... we love to have sex!

If I could get paid to have sex I would at least try it.

I have no interest in the guy, but I'd be willing if the fantasy is for 2 guys on 1 lady, him watching the two of us, him wanting to be watched, or some other such variation.