For those that don't review, this doesn't apply -- but for those that do, what is the rationale behind keeping a newer provider a secret?  Are you afraid she'll get too busy to see you again, or that she'll increase her rates? If she's not flying UTR, she's not really a secret...

Edited to add - it's specifically mentioned that the hobbyist doesn't want to review because s/he doesn't want to share us, keep us a secret, etc.

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since i get more vip time for each review, it's nuts not to review a girl i see.

To keep it all to yourself. Xo

Lots of people refuse to review me for fear of being shun in the industry by other providers. There's so many reasons. I just stopped asking for reviews. It's funny to see guys struggling to make excuses lol.

if the lady wants a review and a guy doesn't give it, that's nuts.

the fame goes together with big bucks. That is not to say that you can't see someone else with your fee's level and you will, but there is possibility that you lose that particular girl. Xo

...about how they almost didn't write it because they wanted to keep her to himself.
I've seen it mostly with new-ish girls (10 or less reviews).
When reading something along those lines my mind jumps to what you kind of included in your OP that it's a little of both of "she'll get too busy to see you again, or that she'll increase her rates".  
If she becomes hot shit (lot of demand) real fast it might cause her to become too busy for him and in time to cull the demand if she's still too busy/too in demand for her tastes then most likely up will go her rates (which might become too much for him (especially if he likes seeing her often)).

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....to thoroughly express just how begrudgingly they're posting the review lol.

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...eventually someone WILL write a review and word will get out. A great provider who gives great service doesn't stay under wraps for long.  
I remember stumbling onto a new gal's profile quite by accident. She had only 2 reviews, but they both were exemplary. She seemed almost TGTBT, but I decided to book her and had an amazing time. I reviewed her, and had several hobbyists PM me about her. Long story short - within a few weeks her price went up by $200 an hour.

If I don't get a review in 2016, I give up!  The hobbyists that I've seen throughout the past 7 years, either don't review, or the ones that do...fall in LUVST with me, and don't want to share me with anyone else.  (I know what you're thinking, that's hard to believe. lol)  But, I kid you not, I am literally begging my regulars to review me.  So...Fingers & toes are crossed, that I'll be getting a review soon.

I could have written many, but I've written only three reviews.  The first public part of a TER review in which the encounter is described has never been a problem for me.  The second, "member" part in which you're asked to give the "juicy details" has always had me ill-at-ease.  I've begun to write reviews on numerous occasions only to quit when it's time to add the intimate details.  Of course we're all anonymous, but I'm still not at ease with it and it's easier to delete than to continue where my heart is not.  I'm in the senior group, so perhaps it a "generational" thing.

At the start of my hobbying I also had some trouble deciding if I wanted to write reviews, knowing that the naughty details were necessary. I wanted them to be accurate, but I didn't necessarily want them to become masturbatory foder, either! Finally I just said "eff it" and dove in. Nowadays I happily review any provider that wants a review. I will make it a point to ask the lady if she wants one first so as not to write one if she does not want it.

i have never had a lady raise her rates on me.

Re: Martha is HOT! I wouldn't mind an orgy with all or any of my recent compatriots -e-

would have loved to do martha jones.  actually to me sexiest new companion of the new who, tho i'd spend some time in a tardis with clara.

have you considered offering a discount or other consideration for a review?  i've seen (and "seen" if  you know what i mean) many ladies who have done that.

I will be in Vegas in April, would love to see you and happily review you!!

I can not review my ATF because I don't want others to know what I'm doing with her.  Obviously I'm getting a lot more free time and such.  Possibly others are getting the same perks but the only reviews that I have read from this providers makes me feel like I'm the only special guy.  I'm falling for an escort damn it!!

I have no problems writing reviews, but not when I'm asked not too by the lady.  I've also had a review rejected by TER because they said I didn't provide enough juicy detail which was ridiculous, since it was consistent with other reviews that I've written which were all approved.  That review never did get accepted and the time limit has long expired

My review count is low, since I tend to see the same ladies regularly and a few are UTR, but I alway write reviews when asked.  I'm rather surprised that even your regulars don't want to review you.

I can relate to what you're saying.  In case you didn't know, I write erotica literature.  I once wanted to push my limits and write an erotic story that was considered a taboo category.  It took me a year to complete, because as much as I wanted to write it, something in my mind kept saying...Don't!  I contacted the publisher and voiced my concern.  She immediately solved the problem, by telling me to write this particular story, using a pseudonym.  I did, and the erotic story was one of my best, and received more votes from other erotica authors, on the website, than any of my other work.  

Honestly, I've had a 'girl crush' on you, for years.  So, if I ever visit LA, I'd love to have the honor of a rendezvous with you!  Thank you VERY much for your kind offer. xoxo

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At the start of my hobbying I also had some trouble deciding if I wanted to write reviews, knowing that the naughty details were necessary. I wanted them to be accurate, but I didn't necessarily want them to become masturbatory foder, either! Finally I just said "eff it" and dove in. Nowadays I happily review any provider that wants a review. I will make it a point to ask the lady if she wants one first so as not to write one if she does not want it.  
   
 Come to LA, Robbin, and I'll write a review for you

Thank you for your kind advice...but I want a review because the hobbyist wants to write it, not because I offered him a special deal to write one.  

Awww...Thank you very much, and I look forward to spending time with you in April! xoxo  

I don't understand either, but at least one thing is for sure...Everyone knows, by now, I don't write fake reviews for myself. lol  

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k just sayin' i saw other ladies try that.

Thank you, sweetheart, you're very kind! xoxo

I'm having this very problem. I have a few regulars since starting out a few months ago and they refuse to review me despite commending me on our experiences. I don't like to pester or pressure them about it, though. I thought to myself was it because they wanted me for themselves but that seemed a bit far fetched. I did kind of ask my first reviewer repeatedly but even that was an ordeal. He admitted that he wanted my for himself but I thought he said it to flatter me.

Posted By: EroticRobbin

If I don't get a review in 2016, I give up!  The hobbyists that I've seen throughout the past 7 years, either don't review, or the ones that do...fall in LUVST with me, and don't want to share me with anyone else.  (I know what you're thinking, that's hard to believe. lol)  But, I kid you not, I am literally begging my regulars to review me.  So...Fingers & toes are crossed, that I'll be getting a review soon.