…and i have noticed two trends based in the posts and reviewing many profiles

1. fewer ladies are accepting “just references” as a method of screening. back in may of 2025 it seemed a lot wanted references and i was having trouble booking. LinkedIn, selfies, and ID with address blocked seems to be getting more commonplace.  

2. rates are climbing very fast. i get there is inflation and what not but here in the nyc region at some point it will be difficult to find a decent provider for under 1000/hour. i know many on here are quite wealthy but i, while notnin the poorhouse, only see women every few weeks.  

some women make me scratch my head as to why they charge as much as they do. clearly they are getting that much so who am i to judge, but i guess it is subjective as always assumed blond slender white girls under 25 can command the highest rates….

always assumed blond slender white girls under 25 can command the highest rates….

This is interesting and I totally disagree.  

#1 - myself personally I have never required references.

#2 - I think rates have been high because everything costs more now.  

#3 - a women's value is not set on the color of their skin, how much they weigh, or by their hair color that's very stereotypical. What about the mature white, blonde who is thick with experience is she not worth $1000 an hour in your eyes? 🤔  

I am curious what's the meaning of your post?  You are very judgmental. Expertise does not usually come at age 25. Shallow.