It never fails, at least once a week, I get an email from someone claiming to be a TER member. He saw my reviews, saw my website, would love to see me. He starts off great, introduces himself, tells me his age, dates he will be in Vegas and where he is staying. So far so good.
Then he continues to tell me, graphically, what he wants in his session, how many pops, mutual gratification, asks me what fetish I have ...Then he asks about donations??? My rates are clearly posted on my reviews, my website and every single ad I have out there.
Can some of you more experiences gents please help me out here. Am I crazy or should TER members know better?
I used to respond to these emails and explain to them that this is not proper procedure and I will not be available to see them. I no longer do this, now I simply delete and move on.

any such contacts and move on.

Menting sex acts or money is off base in this game. Mentioning *both* in one convo is all kinds of stupid....

of time trying to figure out what their problem is. So much more efficient to hit the delete button, and let them try to figure out what went wrong.

But some of them probably have no intention of actually setting up a session, their entire goal is to get off by getting an answer back from you.

Others are far too egotistical for it to sink in.  THEY are different, THEY are special, and before the end of the session they probably expect you to pay  them because they are so wonderful.

But the biggest fraction of them are probably terminally stupid.

Best answer for all three groups is indeed the delete key.

Tell him that's a great place to start and once you get it, you can talk further.  

His TER handle should be included on the form.  Not all TER guys get that, but the vets do.

Do not respond, block any further emails from these gents. Do not even open their future emails if you decide not to block emails from them.

ANYONE can "be a TER (or other site) member"...  or claim to be!  If they offer this information, in order to show this is really them & not a stolen idenity, ask that they PM you on TER.  THEN you can check out their board & review history.

I'm guessing they don't have either a board history OR review history.
 
Knowledgeable TER members certainly know better than this.  ANYONE, TER member or not, who is indiscreet, you hit DELETE!
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They should know better. Some guys are just that stupid. On to the next lol

Just had someone this afternoon claiming to be a TER member & this info was not provided my the caller until I was giving him a hard time abt coming to my incall.  My ad showed that I was TER reviewed so why wouldn't that be something one would mention in the beginning of the conversation?  Long story short, he wasn't b/c when I asked him was he Whitelisted or made any Reviews the dumb ass has the nerve to say, "What is that?"  And yes, he got the "click-up"! (I hung up...lol)

They are called flakes sweety. They have no intention of making an appointment. They just want to take up your valuable time. I say keep deleting and moving on.

Yeah, I don't see why they can't keep it short and sweet, but on the bright side you find out early who the emotionally needy are and can act accordingly.

Dear Regina:
I was wondering why would you entertain someone like this? Anything that presents itself in this manner is a setup and the session that you book for him could be a one way ticket to the state correctional facility of the department of corrections choice.  Anytime that you receive a choice of this manner I need you to run and run fast. A matter of fact say toot toot baby say no no not me!! I know you value your freedom so just have your wits about you.

she deletes approximately 9 out of ten of her e mails . She says most of them are crass and dont give her any information at all so why should she waste her time responding. Can't say I blame her.

some of those who are guilty, simply from ignorance, will read the posts, recognize themselves, and learn something.

This is never ever ever good. Makes for a stint with the fishies hehe (Behind bars)I agree they walk among us lol

*yawn* you have better things to do with your time and energy then deal with the negativity.  
Stay positive to bring positive energy to your good clients that deserve your best. !!

and many TER members don't want their handle known to the providers they see.

I don't mind the latter, I tell most ladies I see what my TER handle is, but you can count me as one of the TER vets who refuses to fill out one of those stupid contact forms. I have never filled one out, not once and I will never do so in the future. There is no provider out there that I want to see so badly as to fill out one of those forms. Aint going to happen. lol

Any TER member that hasn't learned how to ask for an appointment is too stupid to deal with, as you have already found out, trying to educate them is a waste of time. You are doing yourself a favor by simply deleting their messages.

no matter where they were from or what board they are on. Could possibly be a trap or just someone wanting to talk dirty to you. Either way it's bad news.