I'm incredibly socially awkward.  I hate going to gatherings where I have to make small talk because I suck so bad at it.  I've learned how to deal with it over the years, but I absolutely hate it so much.  When I mentioned it to SO, she said "oh, you seem so comfortable" and I said I hate it sooo much I'd rather have a root canal without Novocain.  

Everyone is different.

It’s commonly known as “post nut clarity” lol. The reasons vary.. every man is different. Maybe he’s feeling guilty, or something came up last min so he’s on a time crunch but didn’t want to cancel. I try not to read into it or assume. When it’s obvious a client is feeling a certain way afterwards, I thank them for choosing to see me, and ask what they prefer happen next (ie. cuddle, or shower and leave, or get dressed and chat for the remainder of the time). I tell them there’s no pressure either way and never press for MSOG.  

If you’re still curious, I googled it and here’s a short but informative article:

https://austinurologyinstitute.com/blog/what-is-post-nut-clarity-and-post-nut-syndrome/

Some guys only got one pop in them. I’m that guy. And my stamina is all over the map. I’ve had sessions where I spent two hours fucking and being sucked, no pop. And, I have had sessions where I popped in 15 minutes. Mind you, if I pop early I only leave if I don’t like you. I’m fine cuddling and chatting for the rest. I have even done some fucking and getting sucked a second time even though I won’t pop a second time. It still feels great.

But I also have to be ready for it within 60-90 minutes.  I rarely have time for longer dates.

When I say prepare, make sure I'm eating fairly clean and not have sex/masturbate for a day before.  When my schedule was a lot more clear that was more of a problem.  I usually know a week or two in advance now if I'll have time for a date.