I am in DC area, and a newby in this. I met a few providers found from craigslist. and now a little confused with the half hour rate and one hour rate. all providers told me only 1 round in a 1-hour service. then what make the different rate of half hour and 1 hour? well, you guys tell me how yo deal with them? lot thanks

You are paying the lady for her time, not the number of pops. If a lady is charging you for an hour, only allowing one shot on goal, and you are done and ready to leave in half an hour then my thoughts are that you are either wasting money or seeing the wrong lady. Personally, I understand that everybody is looking for a different experience but I don't book high volume ladies and nothing screams out "HIGH VOLUME" quite like thirty minute appointments....accept maybe a fifteen minute appointment...

She offered a half-hour rate but I booked and paid for an hour. She had my ass out the door in a half hour anyway. I realize that one is not a fair sample size, but I would say book the half hour. If she wants to offer you another pop for more $ after that, you can always extend if you so desire.

The halves are teasers in my opinion...  to get you to look at the ad...  Maybe if you just want a BJ, ok.  I won't book less than an hour.  

The girls get the donation up front...  then try to get you to pop quickly so they can go back to what they're doing.  If you specify the hour & give the donation then the hour of her time should be available to you, even if you want to talk, hold hands, cuddle, or go for another shot on goal.  If you choose to leave early, that's your decision.  (If she claims her roommate's coming home then you've been cheated as she should have the hour & room available...  was done to me.)

There's really not anything you can do if she changes her rules at some point.  Neither of you are prisoners...  (unless you want your next post to be on the legal board)  But changing the rules is another form of bait & switch or upselling if she tries to get you to pay more.  If it happens on a date I hope your review would report that scam.

If you go on a date that allows up to XX minutes & 1 shot on goal, then that's the deal.

I repeat, if you specify the hour & give the donation then the hour of her time should be available to you, even if you want to talk, hold hands, cuddle, or go for another shot on goal.  
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you state you are a newbie and that you use CL. These should not go together unless she has lots of reviews to back her up. Until you are a grizzled old vet, you should be relying on the reviews, not going into uncharted territory.

Anything can happen with an unreviewed provider, most of it not good.

is you are looking in the wrong area or it could be the amount of $$$ u are paying. if it 50 or 100 then u won't get a long lasting memory from that  amount. if ur spending enough for hour then u should agree with the lady before u set the meet,
1/2 hr is one pop but most 1 hour & plus want more than one pop and if he can't do at least a great massage makes the rest of hour worth his while. then who knows, another hr is possible if they know how to rub the right places! lol

...and that's what you should get. Like other previous posters said, even if that's just time to hang out and cuddle, then that's what you should get. Or time in the shower and some help drying off and getting dressed.

But I would think that some onus is upon you, the client, to make the most of the time. Enjoy the conversation, have fun, and work with your temporary partner to have fun, too.

Halves are OK if you're just looking for the single pop. Not a bad deal, if that's what you're looking for, IMO.

t/c

If your cup of tea is the high volume kind, then have at it.

For me, I prefer a minimum of an hour and book 90 minute or 2 hour appointments when the finances are available and I have the time to spend as well.  Opportunity and where-with-all are the key incredients to my hobbying.