Outside of the normal expectations, which do you find more appealing beauty and brains or a ditzy/airheaded beauty.
Providers outside of the normal activities, which one do you feel the average hobbyist prefer in you beauty& intellect or beauty& ditz. Have you ever felt a need to dumb yourself down during a meeting?

-- Modified on 11/17/2005 8:38:42 AM

I have to say there have only been a few times when I felt those two gentlemen enjoyed the stimulating conversation and wanted it at that moment, but then I think they were sorry for it afterward. It depends on the man.  Some men like the intellectual banter while -- I think -- it takes away from the whole fantasy part for some men. I can understand both. I just wish if someone didn't want to hear the truth or carry on an intelligent conversation that they would simply say, "Well, that's nice but let's get on to better things."  Wink!  I have always enjoyed some conversation beforehand and afterward, but I'm game for anything. It's the gentleman's dollar. I can be smart or I can be . . . well, let's just say "quiet and unassuming."

Hugs,
Ciara

For me, at least... but I have *definitely* been in the midst of sessions and realized that I was making someone uncomfortable by talking about things more complex than the weather or my favorite lubes.  And even if I just talk about my favorite lubes I get all technical about it, so I'm screwed either way I guess. Then again I like getting screwed in a good way... just not in a bad way.

I am not sure what it says about me that after so long in this 'biz, I am still surprised every single time someone views me as "some dumb hooker."  Every time.

Hugs*
Tamara

You sound pretty level-headed to me. But you know the ol' saying with men:  "Young, dumb and full of cum." That's not to be construed as "mean." I'm just saying the statment has been around forever.  Well, okay, maybe since I was five. Wink!  I think most just want to get their rocks off. However, I've noticed most of my clientele/friends are older so they like stimulating conversation.

Hugs,
Ciara

Cheri, I often check your site and hope to meet someday. I look forward to your beauty, as well as your class and intellect. If I found you to be "ditzy", it would be such a turn off, not to mention a disappointment. I agree with Tamara, Intellegence is such a turn on. Now add in a touch of beauty, and you have one terrific session.

At least 70% of my clients call me because they know I came from the corporate world with an Ivy League degree... they love the smarts and interesting conversation I bring to the table.

On the other hand, if I get a gentleman caller who's strictly interested in my other assets, I know when to shut up and serve up the more carnal side of Tabu. (And let's face it-- it's hard to talk when your mouth's full!)

I don't believe in "dumbing down" to suit anyone's expectations. If they're smart enough to call me, then they're smart enough to appreciate the whole package... no matter what this naughty little MILF  has in store!

...and so is sincerity.  Never has the classic statement, "If you can successfully fake sincerity, you've got it made"  been truer than in this business.  I like to think I can spot fake sincerity, and is it ever a turn-off.  Likewise, real sincerity (or that which is MASTERFULLY faked and has fooled me) is a huge turn-on.  My advice, don't try to fake it b/c it will do more damage if not perfectly done.  And if you're not the 'sharpest knife in the drawer', just be sweet and give great service.  That goes a LONG way.

...I don't really care, so long as she loves fat, bald men (or can pretend like she does).

I have been lucky so far in my experiences with providers but I have to admit the ones I have enjoyed the most have been the ones that I could talk and related to, not that I am expecting a Miss World contestant and MENSA member but having someone who is easy on the eye and also can hold up their end of a conversation certainly adds to the experience.

Woody Allen has a short story called "The Whore of Mensa" in which an undercover cop busts up a call girl ring that specializes in having charming intellectual conversations with the "johns" instead of sexual activities.

Yes, by all means, give me brains over a body.  Nice bodies are OK, but with the proper attitude, any reasonably attractive woman can be a "10" whereas a woman who doesn't make the grade mentally will never get up to that level, regardless of how well endowed.  I find it is usually the case that brains = good attitude.  I also find that the providers I meet are, despite the stereotypes,  smarter than the average gal you meet.  It makes sense if you think about it.  It's a tough business and you won't prosper for long if you don't have the smarts.

Jenny McCarthy stand out - it's the brain behind her plastic face.  Other than that, she's pretty much just another blonde "life support system for a pussy".

I'm already in love with any woman as expressive as that.

. . . laugh at my jokes.

interact accordingly. Some want little psychologically intimate contact (probably because that is met elsewhere for them), some want mostly psychological/intellectual contact. It's just like when I used to be a waitress years ago: read the client and give what is desired. It's an art, really.

laughter anyway.  I'm a clown too, at times, so Jenny makes me smile. She doesn't care what people think.  I can relate to her sometimes.

Hugs,
ciara

and during the first two minutes of an initial encounter.  It is important to use discretion, be client oriented and still communicate your requirements.  

That said, once we both get comfortable, dumb and horny can be a great turn-on...  I personally love it when a mature, intelligent woman is confident enough to act a certain way to please me.  I suppose it's one of those important people skills that mature providers acquire.

I think there was a country song, "Lie to me..." that captures the sentiment...

One of my providers couldn't even solve a simple quadratic equation. Can you imagine that! I made her put her clothes back on and kicked her to the curb.

I should have paid more attention in math class instead of art and biology. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

Between my posts here and other places

my blogs

my site

Men want  to meet me for my brain !
They pick at it, poke at it, get inside it, and they cant.. so 50 minutes of poking my brain, and 10 minutes of poking me. They are out, and come back again ! LOL!.. No one has still yet put together my rubics cube brain. It may take some a lifetime and a whole lotta money

After their pictures and perhaps reviews, I choose who to see on the basis of their writing.  The last girl friend I had wrote Mandarin and did differential calculas for fun.  

I've sat here trying to think of any circumstance  I would think of an airheaded woman as attractive.  The only way: wishful thinking on my part.