Bareback sex is really common these days.  
Especially with PrEP and Doxypep available.  

Just a day ago, one of the awesome providers who is still willing to deal with the occasional craziness on this board reminded us of what civil discourse might look like. I want to share my appreciation for showing us all what an ugly, misanthropic and misogynistic discourse looks like, just so we can compare. Good job.

I feel you're uneducated because it's not going to save you from getting STD's.  

Many ladies, not all but many will offer it or slip it in without
being asked.
Regardless of price point or protests against the raw dog

OP gets on here every so often to preach the evangel of BBFS. As others have pointed out, he will insert mention of BBFS in a discussion about the weather. He and a couple of his acolytes have an impenetrable immunity to any other point of view and/or questions of health and safety. I won't try to tell him what to do with his life (or providers what to do with theirs), but I sincerely hope I never meet any provider he's been with.

It's already been thoroughly discussed, if you just read through the past threads. There's nothing new.

This post is seriously inaccurate, misleading, offensive, disrespectful and inflammatory.  I give it no further attention.  

Dear kind sir please exit right before the stage falls on you please.  
Here is a chat gpt explanation on “stinky pussy”. Now if you want to take risks that is on you. But just like speeding in a vehicle many people do it but it does not undermine the consequences of it.  

4th day, it becomes unbearable to anyone in the same room.  

You are playing with fire asking for BBFS.
If I see a girls ad offering it thats an ad I do not call no matter what.
Life is too short, no reason to risk cutting your time even more or getting some baggage you can never get rid of.

You ask, Why do Escorts get upset about men requesting Bbfs?
Then you wrote, "I rarely have been turned down for bbfs", and "Tbh, most women prefer bbfs"

Diarrhea of the mouth.

I checked his reviews and yours. It's pretty clear you have better taste. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

How exactly do these providers "act crazy"? Do they yell and scream? Summon dark forces? Threaten to toss you into the Bog of Eternal Stench (thus condemning you to permanently reek of condoms and lube)? Or is it more like a 'Walking Dead' thing, where they try to feed on your living flesh? Stay safe from these rabid escort-turned-killers.

Why are they telling you that you can’t use a condom?

as the man said after he jumped off the building and passed the 6th floor ..........so far so good !

Bacterial infections is what the doxy is for
 
If youve been the recipient of one i highly recommend doxy.

…i get called a troll because i choose to post my reviews on my alias but this guy is literally shaming providers for not wanting to gamble with their sexual health…

Back in the old high school locker room I heard:

I think that a lot of gals won't do BBFS on the first encounter----but if things go well--you are clean - on time-pay willingly and as instructed and develop a rapport that BBFS will happen---Have had this happen numerous times over the years---one gal in particular that I used to see (she has passed away from a (non -sexual related issue) as an example was fine with it when i asked for BBFS the first time on our third encounter---she only asked that I not cum inside her----I of course agreed and pulled out as requested----she was married and I didn't get the idea that it was a birth control matter but that she didn't want her husband to know she had taken a load....and what a load it was !!!  Subsequently i never bring it up on any first encounter----you have to kinda gauge the situation---there are some girls that you know better for your own protection !

thats pretty big of her to trust you to pull out at the right moment….

I think I need to do an STI test after reading this.
You’re the reason we protect ourselves!

This was my reaction reading this 😂
 This post is wild af.

So many provide bbfs.

That’s my experience. But hey people can keep their head in the sand and pretend it doesn’t.

There are a few reasons.  

Maybe in your experience - not in mine. It's  never been offered and I've never asked for it.

What you don’t understand and that’s OK because you’re not a woman, is STDs is not the only concern with BBFS. A woman’s vaginal ph is extremely sensitive. Doing bbfs with multiple people will have you visiting your doctor every week for a yeast infection and bv & it can throw your vaginal PH off. Each man can also affect it differently. That isn’t enjoyable to anyone. Good luck to those working that way.

His reviews include 4 TS providers, a porn star, and a provider who advertises BBFS. That’s 6 of the 9. It does tend to be more common among TS providers. Many advertise they are on prep. So it’s not surprising he thinks this way. But it’s certainly not reflective of everyone’s experience.

2 porn stars- Lucky and Kim

I occasionally put up posts just to stir the pot and get conversations going....... But I would like to nominate this original post of this thread as the stupidest and most ignorant of the year.         seriously asking why women get upset? If you might endanger their health?    

Why do sugar daddies get upset when I ask for Chanel? :,0

She’s the one who advertises BBFS. I wasn’t aware that she’s a porn star.

Thank you for your respectful response. I can see some truth in what you said. I was raised in the condom era, and it’s stuck with me. I’ve never known anything else, and I have no desire to change now. I’ll leave being on the front lines of the next pandemic to the next generation.
For this old gal, staying disease-free all these years has worked just fine, and safe sex has served me well. I’m confident I can still find plenty of guys who are willing to play it safe with a condom—especially the married ones who can’t afford to bring anything home to their wives.
I also believe PrEP only protects against HIV. There are nearly 30 other STDs that barriers protect against far better than any inoculation.
Thirty years ago, I was married for a short time and that was my only experience going without protection. I was dealing with BV and yeast infections almost every month. No thank you. I honestly think my pussy is allergic to sperm.
I hope for your sake that you’re at least only going bare with post-menopausal women—unless you like being called Daddy. Either way, it seems like there’s a lot of trust being placed on both sides.

If one catches herpes from bbfs they are 3 times more likely to get hiv. If they have hiv they are 3 times more likely to come down with pancreatic cancer, which most likely results in death.

Most people in L.A. have hsv1, what in the flying fuck are you going on about.

For someone that needs an alias to hide behind their alias, you sure give up everyone elses info with the quickness. Theres a word for that, but ill keep it to myself so you dont spaz.  

Agreed with Heather. Condoms are second nature, keep things clean and tidy and have served me well over the years.  

And thank you for your respectful reply.  

I can certainly understand why----on a first encounter-----that the gal would say no.....and the asker should keep that in mind---now should you become a "Regular"....and things are going well......she may actually suggest that it is okay to do BBFS.....But---it is certainly her call---if you can't figure it out....go elsewhere.....!

That guy is a well-known conspiracy theorist looney toon. He's also known as Chicken Little.
Keep up.

It's hsv2 that is the culprit. Hsv1 Oral HSV-1 has a weaker or less clear association with HIV transmission.

Yes, just like fight club. Honestly the only ones who get upset when asked are simply putting on an act as if they are above such a disposable service.... which of course is just hilarious given what they're already doing. If I ever had a date get upset over a question I would certainly out them on TER for being horrible and disrespectful.

I had one highly scored provider specifically tell me not to put it in reviews. There were certain clients she would not do it with. Ones who would see TS and she preferred they were married if she did. Her logic 🤷‍♂️ Since I don’t review it wasn’t an issue. One comment she said to me was “ your health is your responsibility “  of course it wasn’t hers 😉

One of those trusty condoms rip or slip and there is plenty of upside.  

Her health, her choice. Get over yourselves when it's not on the menu and you are the ones bringing it up.

To be fair, his question is not mutually exclusive to her body her choice.

I do see a difference here, and this boils down to one’s viewpoint on BBFS. Some feel strongly it’s unsafe. Unsafe sex leads to diseases. I understand there are advancements in medicine that has created divide. But it doesn’t change the fact that not everyone feels medical advancements make it safe. So when asked, they find it offensive.

But a lot of things in this biz are unsafe. It's just the degree of unsafeness here that is varied.  

I’m not disagreeing with lots of things being unsafe. There is always an element of risk having sex, and that risk increases with volume, no matter what protections you use. I’m also not justifying someone getting mad. But I can understand why some do. Sure, for some they may feel it’s beneath them. It does carry that stigma. But even that has a reason. And it goes back to it feels unsafe. And unsafe is relative. Most people don’t see BBBJ and BBFS as equally unsafe.

Rocket, I could give you an answer to this. But the answer I would give you would relate to many providers’ feelings of physical integrity, respect, identity, perceived existential risk, and contagion/contamination fears. I think you’d likely respond by pointing out that none of those things are *rational.* You have a tendency to argue that people *shouldn’t* be a particular way because it’s not logical - you ask, why do people feel like XYZ, and then when it’s explained, you respond with, “but that’s not rational.” Human feelings often aren’t, and it certainly is no use to shoot the proverbial messenger.

Let me add that there is a distinct possibility that whether she does or not do it she may hear “ I know you have done it will you be doing it with me.”  
She may also want to know where the idea she did came from as it is still more then  a little touchy.

The best one I’ve seen all year. Good points.  

Thank you so much!

Because those type of men are dirty and they are cheap requesting a service that costs thousands that they can not afford nor would be willing to pay. Base $500 an he is NOT worth the headache of getting a BV or a UTI and then having to take a week off. So it is best to just block them as soon as they ask and blocklist  them to save other providers a headache.

First let me say this. I think you shouldn't worry about what people respond with until they actually do. Assuming I was about to label what you said is irrational and hence invalid...idk about that. Despite my reputation or whatnot, I think you'd be surprised in how accepting I am with irrational answers that have irrational reasons. Lol.  

I absolutely live for DATY, so I also read reviews to learn whether a lady does BBFS so that--if she does--I can put her in the No Fly Zone.  Her body, her rules (and risks), but I won't visit any lady who has a single BBFS review.

I hear you my friend, and we are the same!  

You're right--just because it's not showing up in reviews doesn't mean it's never happening. I'm just gathering what evidence I can to make the best decision I can. The rest I leave to fortune.

Yes exactly. You get what I’m saying. That’s what I meant by “All I can do is look for the best odds”

Never had a female condom rip or slip.

Then you either havent been fucking long enough or the guys you see arent putting in real work. Rubbers break. They slip off. Shit happens. Maybe a female condom is a bit more durable but you are still putting a lot of faith behind a thin layer of latex.

Never mind the fact it’s like a cold wet garbage bag

One day there will be an accurate and immediate test available. Be able to do on site!