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One and done
WICardinalfan 66 reads
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Not that I am proud, but I have been a one and done since I turned 40 some 20 years ago.  In my prime, I could go twice but I needed about 20min in between.  

Since I started in the hobby there have been the rare occasion that I have came close to a double pop.  

I am sure part of the problem is in my mind.  Say I have booked 90 min, my mind thinks, "Dude, if you pop too soon you are going to waste your foreplay time".  

When a lady does try to get me to go twice, I feel bad because a great deal of "work" is involved to get me close.

Any sincere suggestions?  I have a 90 min coming up in a week and am pondering what to do.

Foxcatcher2707 reads

This is a question for the ladies. What percentage of guys are one and done vs being able to get going again for a second round in a one hour session

I'd say in my experience 98% cant  not for the lack of both of us trying but usually I get it all at once. Lol

Unless you are under the age of 25 that vast majority are one and done.

When I was under 25 my first shot was in pants  when his her or saw her nude second so had to work up for second and third imposible.

by booking more two-hour sessions.  Problem solved!

The OP limited his question to a "one-hour" session.  My point was that if you remove this limitation, more is possible for older guys.  Some problems with getting older are not so easily solved.  Why limit ourselves?  You can be a cup-half-empty kind of person, or a cup-half-full.  I always look for a way to take the lemons of life and make lemonade.  All you need is a little sugar, preferably one around 30 yo.  Lol

 
He also said the question was for the ladies, and yet, here be both are.  Lol

For a while the amount of mansplaining going on on the board was through the roof until people started to jump all over those who did it.

Let's not go back to those bad old days.

Totally agree. The malice that afflicts other social medai already is appearing here again and must end.

It's just a simple fact of the internet that you can NOT simply ask half the people on a forum for their opinion while asking the other fifty percent to remain quiet. Likewise you can't just ask people to answer ONE narrow question without expanding on their opinions. How often does that ever work around here?

 
But if it makes you feel any better, I will NOT answer the question either and I will use the excuse that my opinion as a man was not solicited.  

 

Oh WTF, you know I can't just keep my big fucking mouth shut. To answer the OP from a guy's POV, I am "usually" a one and done guy mainly because I rarely book anything other than one hour session and it takes me well over half the session to cum just once, so it's unrealistic for me to try for a second cup. I usually, spend 10-15 minutes in some kind of foreplay, about 30 minutes of actual sex and then another 10-15 minutes of  "cool down" time in my typical one hour session.

You'll thank your lucky stars to just have "mansplaining" after you've had a dose of "wokesplaining."

and not some pansy, pussy, "woke" town like Austin. lol

 
On the very rare times that I encounter "wokesplaining"  here in Texas it's so easy to just respond to my "splainer" with a hearty GO FUCK YOURSELF!!! and then I go about my business. Of course they don't seem to travel in packs here, unlike they do in liberal bastions like NY or CA. I can understand how fighting back is sometimes not really an option when you are outnumbered ten to one or even more.

Most of my appointments are 3 or more rounds!  
Even my 1 hours- I'd say less than 5% are one and done. :D

I’d say probably 75%. However, if we started with the ending first there might be a different result?!

Which allows for more time for a 2nd round without feeling like the whole thing is rushed. It's worked out well for me and the gents who see me.

Steph

Dear Steph,
Considering that your population is Middle Aged men, how long did you do an analysis on the average refractory period of your customer base?  After that did you give them surveys or ask them did they need a little more of what was underneath your draws?  After then did you really come to the conclusion that you should have an extra half hour so the recovery could be complete?  Never let it be said that Steph was never fair with her luscious derriere.

I would say about 80% are one and done in an hour.

I could do 2 rounds in one hour IF i did not spend 45 min talking and catching up... haha

Majority 1-2 even if/when they are on the younger (under 40 end).  
50% just one, 45% upwards of 2.  
I've met a few (literally just a handful) who managed to achieve 3.

WICardinalfan67 reads

Not that I am proud, but I have been a one and done since I turned 40 some 20 years ago.  In my prime, I could go twice but I needed about 20min in between.  

Since I started in the hobby there have been the rare occasion that I have came close to a double pop.  

I am sure part of the problem is in my mind.  Say I have booked 90 min, my mind thinks, "Dude, if you pop too soon you are going to waste your foreplay time".  

When a lady does try to get me to go twice, I feel bad because a great deal of "work" is involved to get me close.

Any sincere suggestions?  I have a 90 min coming up in a week and am pondering what to do.

I usually book two hour sessions.  I almost always get three rounds, occasionally four, and one special lady managed to squeeze five out of me.

Now, you're just showing off!  

Hey if you can do it, more power to ha.

He really means 2 in 3 hours.  There's a lot of guys on these boards with that condition.  Lol

I sometimes ask if they are a MSOG guy or if I should take my time, slow the pace and make that one last.

For those who want more than 1, about 60% can get to 2.

who have asked me while I'm undressing, "Are we going for one or two today?"  If its an hour I say one, and if its two hours, I say two.  This lets the real pro's know how to pace the session and I am seldom disappointed.  I never end up with too much or too little  time at the end by letting her "manage" the time to get me and ending(s) I want.  

Posted By: Foxcatcher

This is a question for the ladies. What percentage of guys are one and done vs being able to get going again for a second round in a one hour session
I'm not a lady, but here goes ...
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I can sometimes get out two in an hour, but hitting two is not my goal. My goal is to have a good time.  Many times, I know I'm not going to deliver round 2, my hostess knows I'm not going to deliver round 2, but she will at least try (or pretend to try).  A little stroking (my ego AND the little guy), a little fiddling, rubbing, maybe even some sucking ... She lets me be the one to say to her, "Not enough time" or "Not gonna happen" or "That's great but I don't think I have it in me today."  
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I hate one and done with the bum's rush out the door. (And that's where reviews are very helpful.) I always like to chat (waaay too much, as it happens), or lay there and get more face time. But I'm not an overstayer and I'll watch the clock or ask her about the time to make sure I have time for a quick shower and to dress and be gone on time.  
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Let me finish. Don't rush me out. "Me love you long time."

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