Some men may consider a provider once in a lifetime that no one else did because of what they shared that night.  Conversely, some men may give a "10" to a provider who regularly gets tens because they don't want to go against the grain when it was "close", especially if they like the lady.

Hard to comment on your scenario specifically without knowing you, but maybe you should ask some of the guys you see (especially if they are regulars) what they feel you could do to ramp it up any.  If you offer all the services needed for a "10" rating, you just may need some specific incentive.

I have only given 1 lady a 10 and it is because she was the embodiment of what I consider a perfect lady. She was a compilation of all the features I find attractive in a woman, the likes of which I may not be with again in my lifetime, hence, 10, Once In A Lifetime. I seriously doubt you'll see me posting another 10.

As far as performance goes, I hold a similar standard though argueably every session with the above mentioned lady is agrueably "once in a lifetime". But for that, a session would have to be follow along these sort of lines. 1. Anything and everything goes, no restrictions, 2. it is delivered with what I percieve to be genuine passion and we both can't believe what just happened. 3 The location would come into play, 5 star hotel, a beach, a rooftop, you get the picture...

My 10 will have to contain most, if not all of these elements. KInd of like "The Perfect Storm". I hate to sound boastful but, individually, each element is "been there, done that". I'd be looking for a convergence.

You are a beautiful woman and I'm sure you're a blast!!!

I'm thinking.....9/9

Near perfect in my book.

BK

TER has very specific requirements to achieve a once in a lifetime "10."  Some excellent providers may never achieve that score because they don't do anal, aren't bi, and don't do it with two guys.

On the other hand, even if the lady does all the above, plus BBBJ, DFK and every position known to man, she may never get above a 6 or 7 if it was a rushed, lackluster performance, done on a mattress in a trick pad (yuck).

So, the experienced VIP member will read the details of the review. It's easy to pick out the exceptional sessions that did not warrant the "10" rating.

Anyway, don't sweat the numbers---lose yourself in each session and focus on providing the highest quality experience possible--everything else falls into place.

-- Modified on 5/27/2004 5:29:39 PM

There was a recent thread on this topic.  I learned a few
things.

If you look at the review submission guidelines, it says that
the highest someone can get without OFFERING 1 of 5 extra
services is a 7.  Each of the five extra services make the
provider ELIGIBLE to earn an extra point up to the maximum
score of 10.

The services are DFK, BBBJ, Anal, Really Bi and With
Another Man.  Now, as I read it, the last two can only occur in
a threesome so for most encounters it's the first three that count.

None of these things have to actually occur, they just have to
be OFFERED to be eligible for points.  Also, just because they
were offered and/or occured, does not mean the points are
required to be given.  That is up to the reviewee.

Now a quick look at your profile shows that you do not do anal.
So I would think that may be a reason.  Also note that a good
number of reviewers probably are not even aware of these rules.
Also, the staff that approve reviews let slip through reviews
that technically do not conform to these rules.

Hate to make it sound so technical but that's how I read it.

hope that helps,
fr

PS When you come to NY I'll be first in line to see you .

ask 100 guys and you'll get 97 different answers.  

One thing I recommend you NEVER do: add anything you find distasteful to your 'menu' just to up the ratings numbers.  Far better to enjoy your career and your life with 9s than to be miserable for 10s.  Besides, if you're suffering, the rest of your performance will fall and so will your ratings.



-- Modified on 5/27/2004 7:43:51 PM

Most of the numbers are inflated and don't reflect the TER criteria for an 8, 9, or 10.  There are tons of reviews with 9's and 10's that have CBJ, no DFK, no anal, and no multiple partners. These are often written by first timers.  The juicy details section is a much better reflection of what really happened. I ignore 10s and instead look for providers who seem to put real passion into the session.

To feeling like I am standing in the eye of a hurricane after the session. That I was so totaly blown away that I am still in shock. That the meeting hit me so hard on so many levels, that it was truly an act of nature. I have had that happen, um, once.

Re:Once in a lifetime?

Agree with almost all posted above.  When I search, I don't search for a "10" but for a "6" or "7" depending on the region of our country.  As a somewhat experienced VIP, the words in the description of the events are more important than the numbers themselves.  The numbers merely narrow down the search.  Hobby safe.