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I ran as fast as I could a few times, but never walked. LOL

We had done one session, but the gal suddenly got very irritated for some reason.  I asked her if she wanted me to leave, and she said "fine", so I did.  We made up however.  Just one of those things.

U loved me admit it.  

Twice as an independent... a few times w/agency.  

Australian men are damned hard work honestly.
This guy was a hot shot lawyer - so he boasted for 10 minutes on arrival, you'd think the entire Australian Government wouldn't function without him so he thought.
He then proceeded to want every rough PSE trick in the book, despite paying my lower GFE rate. He's yanking the hair, trying to force my head down onto his dick, dirty talk, just generally being rough and unpleasant. By now I just want it over with so I soldiered on but I should have thrown him out. I like the PSE stuff if it's been booked and paid for and the guy is respectful and upfront about what he's looking for. Tight guys who don't want to pay more but want to exert their control in a session that clearly isn't GFE in anyone's book just make me angry though.
Rant over )

The young lady I was seeing was refered to me by another provider, and she made a comment about a condom early in our meeting.  I said we wont need one, since I was only interested in oral.  She said that she did not do BBBJ and I said that was a deal breaker, picked up the donation and left.  It all took only a couple of minutes.

Yup!. I have.

but it was outcall and I couldn't leave my own home  LOL.  I did start to just give her the money and ask her to leave, but I went through with it.....

I left a session 10 minutes early once, and I was happy to do so.  

Was with a provider who was so hungover from a previous night out on the town should could barley function. I lasted for about 20 minutes of an hour session. We are on the bed just getting ready to rock n roll when I realized that is wasn't going to work. I got out of the bed grabbed my stuff got dressed and walked out.

I went to a couple of AMP's that were known to offer FS, but upon entering, I encountered the telltale signs of human trafficking, so turned around and walked back out.  Other times, I have ended a session early and just left, sometimes because the provider was hung over, high on something, or had a bad attitude, but I still left the donation because I didn't want to get blacklisted.  However, no tip!

but it's just simply not always true. One of my first AMP GFs, of the modern twenty first century version at least, worked in a place very much like you described. Seven or eight girls working in a place with four massage rooms, lived in the AMP with several other girls, worked long hours seven days a week, everything that would spell "human trafficking" to someone like you.

I could on few appointments due to hygiene issues..  But then again they were incalls at my place so I couldn't walk out!!  

Yes I've walked out!  It was a couple of years ago down in CT. A friend recommended her and her reviews ( another site) were pretty good.  I checked everything out about her.  Her pics were real and recent and part of her screening was a phone call or two to get a better feel.

A number of years ago I saw a young provider who worked for an agency, who was "saving herself for her boyfriend." No kissing - saving for her boyfriend. No oral sex accepted from me - saving for her boyfriend. She really never got comfortable, so I asked her to leave after about 20 minutes. I did not ask her to return the donation.

I saw a new provider's add that interested me and watched it carefully for awhile.  She only had one review and it looked suspicious.  Contacted her.  She confessed to being very new in the business but she wanted to meet me.  I was convinced to give it a try.  Got to the nice hotel.  It was clear she was nervous when she gave me the instructions to the room.  Got to the room and her anxiety was palpable.  I entered and sat her down to chat.  She was truly beautiful but she looked even younger than her advertised 18 years.  She was honest about being nervous but she wanted me to stay and have "fun".  I wasn't convinced and it just didn't feel right.  I told her that I didn't want to go through with it since she was so anxious.  O also told her and would be honest in my review and didn't think she wanted to risk a bad review at this stage in her career.  Her facial expression betrayed surprise and relief.  But I could sense she was nervous about not collecting her fee.  A handler or her bill, I'm not sure.  I gave her half her rate, wished her the best, gave her a hug and walked out the door.

Both times were for an incall appointment.

I know most of you ladies think us guys as being dense when it comes to intuition. Especially when it comes to thinking with our cocks. For the most part you have a point. But there are a few of us knuckleheads who actually listen.  

Right after I've shot my wad.
Sorry, I just couldn't help myself.

Both times were with agency girls.  Both were cases of terrible service.  They ended on very different terms.

A Fav I'd been seeing...  we were getting nekid & answered her personal phone...  proceeded to have a fight with her sister who was subletting her previous apt & neglecting to pay the rent.  I got up & she demands loudly 'where are you going'.  I lied & said the bathroom but really I wanted to give hersome privacy as she was getting upset.  I really wated to bail...  but my clothes were in her room.  She concluded the call & a half hour later She'd calmed enough to pick up where we'd left off.  

let me as you a serious question, Whether our instincts are right or wrong, if there's a feeling that it's HT isn't it a better choice to leave? Consider me completely ignorant and naive on the subject, what would be a tell tale sign and at what point should I no longer go through with the session? I get it that there are cultural difference, but if certain conditions are, as you describe it, "everything that would spell human trafficking to someone like you" how are we to know the difference?

This was a well-screened individual who had developed a bad habit since his last appointment with the agency I worked with at the time.  

..When I arrived she was preoccupied with her cell phone. More of the same after the shower. She finally undresses. No kissing. Not even LFK. No FIV. When it came time for oral she puts on a condom for the BJ. None of this was in her profile otherwise I would never have seen her. After the bj she tells me to go take another shower. Huh? She actually said "I have to kiss you again". I took my shower and while I was in there decided to walk out. Money down the drain but no need to prolong a horrible time. We had a brief discussion while I dressed. She was pissed. I was more pissed but I kept it civil. I just wanted out with the least amount of drama

I made no such suggestion that all AMP's are involved in human trafficking. I clearly said, "a few times I went to a couple".  I also said when I see the "telltale signs" of human trafficking.  It has nothing to do with cultural differences.  There are certain identifiers that most trafficking operations have in common.  If I encounter those, I leave.  If I don't, I will stay.  

She was obviously high. There was visible signs of drug use. I told her I was walking and she slapped me. I left. Drugs and prostitution don't mix well. Nothing else to say. After all she put me at additional risk without consent and was unfit to work as there was doubts in my mind if she was in a condition to give consent. I am not paying a dime for that.

I am no experience with the Asian communities. But I am close to a few ladies that were trafficked. While most ladies in this game (massage parlor, agency, and/or appearing independent) are here willingly some small percentage aren't in eachieving group. If you are in doubt you have a moral obligation to walk 100% of the time. You clearly did the right thing.

...there is a reasonable chance it isn't 100 percent consensual it is best to walk. Regardless of what anyone else has to say. Trust your gut. Trafficking isn't as common as the media makes appear, but it does happen. Only you are there. So only you can make the call. It is far better to be wrong and walk out of a fully consensual situation then to see a victim of trafficking and be party to rape. If in doubt walk.

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Sorry my countryman gave you such a difficult time. We are not all "damned hard work". Unfortunately,  you have come across the classic arsehole who gives the rest of us a bad reputation.  
Some of us are kind, respectful and not cheap

I went to the location, and there were two unmarked police cars there (one car, and one van) in the parking lot. I was not about to have any part in that. I did call the provider and warned her too because I had seen her before so I knew it wasn't her fault. I compensated her for her time too. Some may say "why?" but for me, to avoid LE was well worth it!

OMG! This is so True!

mall hotel, very nosy staff. Shortly after session start my gut told me to leave.
Left donation and left hotel. Probably nothing to worry about; but figured it
was cheap at the price to pay and leave rather the face the dreaded LE if the staff
had called them

Early in the hobby I made an massage appt from an ad in a local alternative newspaper (pre-internet era). The ad had a cute face pic and tempting description of her and her skills. Made a call & booked appt. Arrived mid-afternoon to her incall (house) in an average neighborhood. Rang the bell and this sexy, petite little blond from the ad answers the door & invites me in. Then leads me to a bedroom at the end of the house. Along the way we passed the living room with TV on & five, maybe six guys (age mid-twenties) lounging, in a cloud of weed smoke, who all turn to observe me as we pass. I wanted to turn & bolt right outa there. Instead I continued the walk to her room. Had just a bed with a sheet. She told me to get comfortable. I told her I'd forgotten the donation in the car & I'd be right back. Got out the door & jogged to my car & left.

I know in my early days before I realized what screening was I definitely had a few sketchy encounters that I should of walked away from. But with time and experience under my belt now if it happened again I'd have no issue just leaving.  
xoxo
-Eve

With civilian Gals  in my younger years, when I had  little patience, I walked too many times when she didn't pass the sniff test.  
   
 I say too many times because a few were gorgeous in the looks and congeniality department, all they needed to be much more than adequate was a soaking bath.  
  I'm not knocking any of them  for not being prepared, when we had just met, and it wasn't a planned sexual event.