There are situations in this life where you do what you have to do to get by.
Most here are fortunate enough to not have to worry about that.

love you for that response!

"But, being hooker for anyone close to me is not okay."

easy response to both scenarios.." i want half "....it is after all becoming community property..

Most hobbyist/provider relationships are started HERE, and not the other way around, but I would not mind picking the brains of those who have experienced what you proposed.

I see no problem with either sinerios if there is honesty in the marriage. The thing that destroys a marriage is lies about who you are or who you want to be. You can always get over the truth.

Knowing by experience the money has nothing to do with it. The fun is what matters. No abuse in past, no power feeling over a man or woman. Just pure fun. Same reason I got into the porn business. I left porn because it stopped being fun. So, for me (can not speak for anyone else) it is for only that

You are entitled to your opinion, but why are you ok with men paying to cheat on their wives, but aren't ok with a wife going into business for herself? A man doesn't have to be faithful, but she's a terrible wife for providing some kind of income? It's incredibly hypocritical, IMO. And a little insulting to the married women I know in the industry. You don't know their life, or their situation, and are judging them for no discernible reason, while giving the men a free pass.

Yes!! Shit happens and times get tough. I would rather hook to pay the bills than cheat for free because I don't have a good picker and can't address the issues within my relationship.

(Irony...it's what's for breakfast.)

Marriage is a "contractual-agreement" where assets and sex are exchanged on a regular basis...  

Exactly, and to act like women don't marry for money every day in this country, is absurd. If he is the only one bringing home money while you do nothing but shop and suck his c*ck, that's the definition of a sugar baby if I ever saw one.  

And on a few occasions, the house-maid also serviced my testicular-needs... (although it's rare that an 18 or 19yo girl has developed very good house-keeping skills yet)  

To answer your OP, I would leave him, b/c the scenario is wrong for ME. But if it works forfor others, good for them. I'm certainly not going to start threads to tell them THEIR choices are wrong. I have other important matters to focus on.

What exactly are you talking about?

If this were only for "fun" most of us could easily go out and find nothing but HOT guys to fk us, vs. catering to many unattractive, self entitled peons. Are they all that way? Of course not, but let's get real here. The hobby is not built on the Brad Pitts and Johnnie Depps of the world. Most clients are average looking guys, and many are socially awkward. Then again, the same could be said for a high percentage of providers.  

Well played young lady

You managed to get the board hookers to all call YOU out for starting a thread.

Now this is true that the $$$ is a bonus. I know that the majority  of the people we encounter are not Brad Pitt or my favorite (Thor) but I get paid travel and meet interesting people. I would not call them socially awkward. At least not the ones that I have met. As far as the providers that I have met.... they have been very sweet and I like the fact the ones that I have met have stuck up for each other.  

if I were a Woman, and had a Man that I viewed as equal, to me a Woman...

Re: Well played young lady

Well played indeed.

Ms Steele is probably out collecting cans at the beach. When she gets back I am sure that you will give her the comforting that she needs. You know how much she hates to be judged, especially by her own peers.  

I hope you are feeling better Taylor.

I think they are mongers as well  

haven't read anyones post but yours as I know you would've summed out the outcome hahahahaha. Will enjoy reading what everyone said a lil later before sleepy sleeps.  

Posted By: ChgoCPA

You managed to get the board hookers to all call YOU out for starting a thread.  
   
 Sure glad all of those pathetic hookers aren't judging YOU.....oh wait...YES they are  LOL  
   
 Maybe the same board hookers should get off their asses and find some johns so they can pay their fucking bills.  Or just sit here and bitch about their lots in life.  
   
 Oh...and I'm not judging you.  But you know that as well    
   

Posted By: viptaylorsteele

with their knickers in a twist, then I'll throw this scenario at ya'all and then tell me your thoughts. Yea I feel like ruffling feathers today lol.    
     
  Scenario 1...  
  Wifey poo wakes up one morning, rolls over, looks her husband dead in the eyes and says, 'Honey, 'I' want to be a hooker'...  
     
  And being the husband you say what exactly?  
     
  Scenario 2...  
  Husband poo wakes up one morning, rolls over looks his wife dead in the eyes and says, 'Honey, I want 'you' to be a hooker'....  
     
  And being the wife you say what exactly?  
     
  IMHO for those of you who see nothing wrong either of these scenarios.......well then, I guess I'm at a loss for words quite frankly. It's one thing for couples or individuals to 'cheat' or willingly 'experiment' with others, it's another thing to conciously go into business to be with others for profit.    
     
  I mean, really? Come on people. I'll get reamed I'm sure, but how no one can see this is a destroying concept is beyond me.  
     
  And no NOT JUDGING...staying MY opinion. Get over it.

and I have gotten to know each other on a platonic level and yes, if I ask for some comforting from Mr. CPA, he's a dear friend in this weird world we live in, he will offer it with much criticism hand in hand to go along with it. That's what he's about, unlike you.......you're just a hypocrit.  

I was being knocked for this simple scenario...as I'm sure in some shape or form it has actually happened, otherwise how else does it sometimes. I don't believe all husband wife teams start out meeting this way. Your 3rd paragraph is of course an exception as there are all exceptions to the rules to anything. My point was simply, don't rip me a new one when the situation that could happen does happen and while I'm not judging, if the scenario actually did happen that I proposed, I'd think that would be pretty f'd up for both involved.  

year ago this month I actually 'explored' this apparent industry I have entered and was about as clueless and new and raw as anyone entering anything blind...and one year later here I am as Ms. Steele, crazy crazy crazy.  

I always thought that you called me "P" because you had difficulty spelling it out.

As far as your relationship with CPA, why did you have to point out that it was platonic? Such a dear cyber friend, I am sure. I am glad that you have one/uno/ein.

Ms. Steele, so I thought I'd be a lady for once since you think I'm such a disgusting mongrel. hahahahaha

out of a tree with my bare hands...that's awesome!!!! Now that is me as a person. So you clearly don't know who or what I am now do you.....you'd be shocked if we met face to face. It's cyberspace persona, nothing more. You can pinpoint all you want by what I write, but I can guarantee you, you still don't have a clue...and I like it that way. That's what keeps this fun for me especially............................you can keep guessing tho

There is another Taylor on this thread who has a lot of class and I didn't want to confuse you if I complimented her on her beauty and style.

you are incapable of understand the post. Won't waste my breath. Sorry.

or maybe I can

No way in hell I would ever move myself when guys are happy to do that for a blow job and a beer. Then again, I do have 8 rooms of furniture to move each time. Men have their uses...even if only for a few hours a week bwahahaha. I "could" cut my own grass, but why would I? I "could" change my own light bulbs, but with a man happy to do it, I don't see the need

Did NOT help my marriage. Just ask my attorney and accountant. LMFAO  

IDK? but I doubt it's a girl friend. LOL!

difference between you and I. I have the completely OPPOSITE point of view, because I CAN do all those things, why would I even bother with a 'man'. LOL

I suppose, yes, if you suddenly change the rules of the game on your partner it would be very unfair and upsetting.  Destroying, even.

Excellent answer, and I agree 100%. You rock, Sola.

Sorry I didn't respond to your answer to my question, way down below, but I didn't see it until today.  And already this topic is so far down the page you might not see it.