I've had ups & downs with this gal over the 5 years we've seen each other... but the most recent trip, I couldn't get a word in edgewise for 15 minutes. I damn near walked out. Eventually it became apparent that she'd forgotten the change in time since my SO had retired... and neither one of us had thought to confirm the expected ETA over the phone.
Eventually she did lock her Pit Bulls in another room... honestly, it overshadowed the whole event. I'm really inclined to not go back.
HV
who is having a bad day that has nothing to do with you but unfortunately you are the lucky guy who walked thru her door to take the brunt of it.
This has happened to me a couple of times and I think some of you would agree that it is a lot less intimidating to be surrounded by a pack of "pit bulls" than to be locked in a dark room with a single "pissed off" provider!
Fortunately the majority of girls I have seen are just sweethearts but there are those few who still make me shudder.
I'm sure I've had minor vents about traffic or room service that were maybe more for me than him, and I'm sure I've given my fair share of side eyes because of bad behavior, but a girl who is just pissed at the world? Not fun.
I can't believe what some girls get away with. My pussy, she is not that golden ![]()
In my business women come in all the time, and most of the time they're sweet, but sometimes they've had a bad day and everything is an argument, try talking to a woman who's trying to shop angry.
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I get guys calling with questions before buying, and many call with a chip on their shoulders from the start. They're just spoiling for an argument. Hard to understand.
What about shopping for condoms, douches, and vagina wash while people keep getting mad at you? LMAO.
I wasn't angry tho, I was angering everyone else standing in front of the condom section today trying to find large latex-free condoms. FML, lol
I had a friend who I would shop with, well two, who would get really nasty with the cashiers. I would step in and whisper, "sorry" to the people when the girls were out of site. I finally started confronting them publicly in front of the cashiers and witnesses to give them a dose of their poison. Felt good… I did it out of frustration and of feeling bad for the cashiers, but then because they needed to see what they were doing.
Tell the truth to someone, but always have an escape! LOL.
I've had ups & downs with this gal over the 5 years we've seen each other... but the most recent trip, I couldn't get a word in edgewise for 15 minutes. I damn near walked out. Eventually it became apparent that she'd forgotten the change in time since my SO had retired... and neither one of us had thought to confirm the expected ETA over the phone.
Eventually she did lock her Pit Bulls in another room... honestly, it overshadowed the whole event. I'm really inclined to not go back.
HV
As long time lovers... we generally have a set play time on the clock & lunch & social time off the clock. After she calmed down... and I repeatedly explained the misunderstanding... we had a good session (but not great). She did not short the play time. To be fair, she also had something going on in her personal life which I had no way of knowing... but did put time pressure on her. If I decide to venture to her fair city in the future, I'll be more specific about my ETA.
Eventually she did lock her Pit Bulls in another room... honestly, it overshadowed the whole event. I'm really inclined to not go back.
HV
if the performance is bad because they are in a funk, or they just aren't very good to start with.
Fortunately, they are few and far between, and I haven't had such an encounter in some time.
More frequent is the provider who has a lot going on in her personal life, and needs a wailing wall to open up to. I'm not against being that wall per se. In fact I like that they feel comfortable enough with me to be that open. But sometimes it goes a little too far to the point where my enjoyment of the time is diminished. Of course I'm not going to say anything to upset her, but gals, do be aware of times when you share a little too much information.
On the other hand gals, are there times that your clients open up a bit too much? I wouldn't be surprised if there were.
do your job.
I hear providers bash other providers in appointments. It's a fantasy. The dude doesn't want to hear that shit, lol.
That we are fortunate enough to meet. Thank goodness I've never dealt with a bitchy provider.
I have nothing about providers, but I hear it all the time. I do notice, as you said however, guys will try to 'get in on the gossip' and I'll say, "Oh, I know her. She's a great gal!" or, "I know nothing" LOL.
But those are far and few in between. The challenges of being 'intellectually superior'.
I prefer referring it to 'calling dumbasses out on their stupidity and bullshit' but today I promised I'd be nice
hi there
i had a hobbyist from the east coast and he had a go at ME cause I was a little late.
some this its out of my control.
never like east coast clients toooo demanding
alley
xoxo
Ok, I'll just make sure not to scrub the hell outta' my coochie before you arrive.
Oh, and I'll be sure not to touch up that last bit of hair I forgot to shave off my legs…
Sure, let's just meet and start making out in front of the hotel attendant while she's stumbling with my keys because she's new… oh, envelope first.
LOL
It was actually a massage that of course was to transition to a happy ending for a tip. Well I must say it was one of the best massages I've ever had, this girl was pissed off about her SO and also Obama, she was convinced he was involved in a conspiracy against her, completely delusional and she was taking it out on my back and shoulders. What a great massage, but when she asked me to flip I said no thanks I'm only here for a massage today. There was no way she was getting anywhere near my cock. There's a good possibility she would have broken it off. If I knew where she was today, I'd call her and tell her Obama called me and is looking for her, then go over for another massage, it was that good. So a pissed off provider can be a good thing, if you're only paying for a massage.
This has happened to me a couple of times and I think some of you would agree that it is a lot less intimidating to be surrounded by a pack of "pit bulls" than to be locked in a dark room with a single "pissed off" provider!
Fortunately the majority of girls I have seen are just sweethearts but there are those few who still make me shudder.
Happened to me just the other day.. she was late.. told me to come up to the incall and was throwing satuff around (sheets, clothes blankets).. I asked her what was wrong.. Turned out she had been to her counseler that morning who was questioning her about some stuff concerning her kids and ex.. I told her to calm down.. relax.. I gave her a massage and told her to forget about who was paying for what.. eventually we had a very lusty session.. everybody is human .. she's not a living sex doll.. I respect that..
I stopped off at this girls place for a quick blow and go around 9:30am and she was pissed at her live in boy friend. Give her the money she hits her knees and as she is jacking me hard she says "that motherfucker thinks I'm gonna get up and give him a blow job every morning before I even piss or have my coffee he's fucking crazy!" and then before she puts my dick in her mouth she asks "is that what men think?" and started sucking away and I only thought my answer (she did have my cock in her mouth) and I thought "well yeah" Blew all over her face gave her an extra 20 and said "see you darling" I wasnt there as Dr Phil I was there as a horny early morning BF
This has happened to me a couple of times and I think some of you would agree that it is a lot less intimidating to be surrounded by a pack of "pit bulls" than to be locked in a dark room with a single "pissed off" provider!
Fortunately the majority of girls I have seen are just sweethearts but there are those few who still make me shudder.
Well yes!
Recently I had a nationally rated TER girl show up on my paradise of a little island and I guess she prefers crowded,dirty cities for one and had a problem following the only HWY we have to a very large resort that I had set up for us which caused her to say on the phone to me " I hate you!". Things only got worse from there as after showing up she verbally berated me and to make a long story short she smacked me so hard across the face I saw stars,spit in my face and jammed her pointy nails up my asshole! This ended with her taking off on me over a hour before our time was to be up and I am not sure who was more relieved when she left her or me.
She also mentioned that she was having issues with her family that she was staying with and though I know that can stir up some deep inner shit I wished she had not taken that shit out on me!
HMMMM. No review?
Recently I had a nationally rated TER girl show up on my paradise of a little island and I guess she prefers crowded,dirty cities for one and had a problem following the only HWY we have to a very large resort that I had set up for us which caused her to say on the phone to me " I hate you!". Things only got worse from there as after showing up she verbally berated me and to make a long story short she smacked me so hard across the face I saw stars,spit in my face and jammed her pointy nails up my asshole! This ended with her taking off on me over a hour before our time was to be up and I am not sure who was more relieved when she left her or me.
She also mentioned that she was having issues with her family that she was staying with and though I know that can stir up some deep inner shit I wished she had not taken that shit out on me!
It was the abuse I had to endure along the way that got me! At the end of our time together I agreed not to review her because....
!. At times she was sexually incredible so I guess I got what I wanted sort of and...
2. She is a National TER 100 rated girl with several 10/10 reviews from some very credible reviewers so I would have just been that one asshole who would have said he had a different experience than all the rest.
Also she is not the only National TER 100 girl I have not reviewed, as one other went kind of like hers but not as bad and the other I let con me into agreeing not to review her early on into our time together which i will not let happen again. Hopefully my next encounter with one of these top 100 girls will go better so I can keep what sanity I have left LOL.
So you've had bad experiences with three nationally ranked Top 100 providers??? That just sucks. You obviously can't generalize, because I'm sure lots of these 10/10 girls probably deserve their scores, but as the "I'll tell everyone you have herpes" thread shows, not all of them do.
I always do my homework, and I find a girl's board presence will give you a really good insight into what they're like, but at the end sometimes you're just rolling the dice. Suck
Most of those 10/10 every time women look like Frankenstein's Monster to me...
And the ones that don't are not any hotter than a lot of the 8 women...
Not to mention prices....
And the drama I hear about?
I'll pass.
Let me know if you need some ideas for more BDSM action.
When is the review coming?
Book 'em Danno
Recently I had a nationally rated TER girl show up on my paradise of a little island and I guess she prefers crowded,dirty cities for one and had a problem following the only HWY we have to a very large resort that I had set up for us which caused her to say on the phone to me " I hate you!". Things only got worse from there as after showing up she verbally berated me and to make a long story short she smacked me so hard across the face I saw stars,spit in my face and jammed her pointy nails up my asshole! This ended with her taking off on me over a hour before our time was to be up and I am not sure who was more relieved when she left her or me.
She also mentioned that she was having issues with her family that she was staying with and though I know that can stir up some deep inner shit I wished she had not taken that shit out on me!
would turn you on brother! EOM!
But seemed like your insane gal pal may have been up for some really rough shit.
Did you not follow the thread yesterday from the BSC hooker from DC? Another one hoping to chastise her johns into 10/10's....and seemed to be working till she went ape shit yesterday LOL
Trust me...very few are impressed with a "Top 100" National hooker. Too easy to manipulate the numbers...as you've corroborated
Write the review with an alias and let her know she is full of shit....and probably nothing better than a 7/8 TOPS!!!! Or are you afraid that this nutcase will out you? Too often middle aged mediocre looking women are getting those 10's...by coercion.
happened to me once just fucked her and got her on her way
I'm certainly NOT going to pay several hundred per hour for it now.
BIG smile, and total carnal abandon if you would; ladies.
But believe now I am cured.
Me too!
That's why the hobby is illegal.............it works!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's truth to the statement about why the hobby is illegal. "Hobbying" is at least perceived to undermine marriage. Societies need marriage because they need families to have children who then grow up to work, serve in the military, and have children of their own. Societies with negative population growth become vulnerable to all sorts of maladies, from economic decay to attack by other countries.
What's needed is a way to make hobbying be seen as a method of stabilizing marriage. The horny husband gets his rocks off, the asexual wife doesn't have to deal with it, and everyone is happy. It is, as the tired cliche goes, a win/win arrangement.
once with my ex-atf. Long before I realized she wasn't that UTR as she seemed like to her newer clients including myself.
I think I was in the category of troublesome client because I went to the wrong incall location once, and didn't have a charger for my flipphone, until I rushed to the store to finally get one. Then the next time she yelled at me for texting her on the phone before I arrived, when it had perfectly been ok to that other times and later in the future.
Only time I ever seen her do that to me. Of course she quickly madeup. And even texted me she had a great time, etc.
I don't think it would have mattered, I was already unconsciously smitten and would have excused her for a lot of things by then.
Another time, this lady, who was her own out of control persona at times, didn't tell me to cancel when she was undergoing a crises with her ex-by. Kept talking on the phone to several different guys in succession when I arrived at the bar-restaurant. She had took a taxi. Completely spoiled prima donna , embarassing as she was not even in her early 30's anymore. After driving her back, she continued to insult me, smoked in my car and snapping at me how to drive etc. In her hotel room she kept talking to the various guys. then amazingly took time to scold me when I took a breather to lie on her empty bed. ( I had driven 2.5 hours to get to her). Said I had no business being with a hottie like her ever. Also said she has to put up with worrying bout rapists and such coming to her door everytime. And that I wasn't understanding or empathic at all. Then more of this and that. Then she got a call from her (probably current bf which she denied she had one) and got him to come over. Then looked at me trying to look like she didn't care and I was a nobody and said "(me) , you need to leave". Gave me a faux hug, then went back to her computer not looking back at me.
Later other guys confirmed she was basket case. One older guy even said he was tired of lending money to her.
I rated her on another site. But this other site had mutual ratings. So she rated me as trouble too which was ridiculous. I posted my comments about what really happened and she and other guys who had seen her who she did not pick on voted to have my posts deleted and I was kicked out that "blog" thread.
Despite it all TER is really one of few fair places a client can vote and review without being ostracized. even though the "weight" of pressure to review higher or "free to review as one actually sees it" fluctuates
#1 was a bitch once. #2 you should have pushed out of your car before you even got to the hotel. Calling guys at the hotel? BF? How could she stay in business?
But she was nice enough otherwise I'll forgive her for getting irked at politicians, and at least she was not yelling at me about anything.
Only if they don't get their way.
This has happened to me a couple of times and I think some of you would agree that it is a lot less intimidating to be surrounded by a pack of "pit bulls" than to be locked in a dark room with a single "pissed off" provider!
Fortunately the majority of girls I have seen are just sweethearts but there are those few who still make me shudder.
But I've cried in front of a client a couple of times. Unfortunately whether I'm really angry or really sad the tears start flowing. One hobbyist was being really condescending and insulting to me and I was having a bad day already so I started crying. Instead of comforting me he got up, put his clothes on, took half the donation off the table and walked out.