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OLder or younger which do u prefer
handdi 3 Reviews 983 reads
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I am kinda new what everyones feelings on age?
My personal is 40 and above just rock my world guys.
Younger ones are just not into it or maybe i have not found the right one yet.
Younger ones get the lube out and older ones are hot and wet
any way this is my exper so far
All i can say is man have i been missin out on this great hobby for way too long
been great so far

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AllyMoore288 reads

I thought it was coincidence but its not.

Men in their thirties are too angsty for my taste- they're like twenty-somethings with a little bit more financial security.

Men in their forties have too much baggage and fuck like they're trying to prove something- "I've still got it/I can still party hard" syndrome.

Men in their early-to-mid fifties?  Just right.  They've been through at least one marriage, the kids are self-sufficient, they know the status quo is bullshit and that its time to celebrate life.
They're sexually confident, they truly know what they like, what they want and what their strong suites are with women.  Even though they may have preferences can usually find beauty and intrigue in all substantial women as apposed to fixating on one little box.  Additionally they're at the height of masculine attractiveness- men just look better at this stage (if they've taken care of themselves)- laugh lines, grey temples or salt and pepper- sheer beauty IMO.  I have found interesting men at all ages in this business; I'm most mentally and physically stirred by men in their fifties and if I run across another silver fox to date in my personal life I'll do it in a heartbeat.

Post relatively tongue-in-cheek so please, no insecure thirty/forty-somethings berate me in my inbox.

As far as women go, ladies in their mid to late thirties are particularly exciting.  They're so uninhibited; I see something in their sexuality I don't yet see in my own but I envy it and I want it.  At 26 I can feel myself loosening up considerably with each year that passes so I know its just something that comes with a woman's age.  

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casinostocks178 reads

Posted By: Ally Moore


Men in their forties have too much baggage and fuck like they're trying to prove something- "I've still got it/I can still party hard" syndrome.

Hmmmm? Interesting! As someone who is now 3/4 of the way in his 40s, had to reflect a bit on this statement of yours :) I definitely feel a bit calmer than when I just hit my 40 and still wanted to believe that I was in my 30s. Right now though, I'm more nonchalant and care free about the issues which my testosterone levels would have really bothered me, say as recent as 5 years ago! One thing though, the darn body does start to sag as men approach their 50s. The same mellowing out of the testosterone levels which put men in that "nirvana" stage which you described (WRT men in their early to mid 50s), does detract from a man maintaining a very tight and muscular body, if that is the sort of appearance that one wants.

One can always go the way of HGH, ala Stallone, but that darn stuff make everything "grow" in the body, including potential prostrate issues ;) In any case, thanks for the encouragement and I'm now looking forward to the next 4 years :p

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AllyMoore182 reads

First of all- I understand the dilemma of combating testosterone levels and losing skin elasticity but really now, who wants to look like
"The Situation" at 50? .

I've met some insanely fit men in this business north of 50.  Marathon runners, avid athletes & sportsment, former athletes who've essentially retained their form, manorexics obsessed with maintaining their weight etc.

I am mostly attracted to the temperament of men in their fifties- but there are some fine, fine specimens 50+ walking around who's skin may not be as taut as it was in their 20s but whose bodies are still pretty sick.

I will say that the #1 enemy of male aging I've encountered is smoking- I was surprised to notice a trend of impotence amongst heavy smokers (men whose hair I could smell it on).  After noticing it time and time again I made the correlation and researched it and sure enough, smoking affects mens' ability to perform.  Unless you want to look like you've been working an a coal mine for the past thirty years stop smoking ASAP.  Men who don't just look better than those who do as they age.

I've also noticed that men who practice yoga tend to look 10-15 years younger than others their age.  Nearly every client I've met who has been *especially* impressive in terms of tone and endurance has been a yoga enthusiast or former practitioner.  It seems to halt the aging process in men.

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lungman135 reads

Ally Moore,you made my day!
A silver fox i am! (54)
Just wish i could get the testosterone levels back up!
I haven't had much sex the past couple of years,but when i did,it was a struggle! (erection and ejaculation issues).
Haven't been taking care of myself,i'm sure that would help!(exercise,etc)
Any other suggestions for better sex,would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks again for making us 50 somethings,feel like we belong!

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nickelmoon86 reads

I'll be 54 in a couple of weeks, and I can share my experiences.  This is not intended to criticize anyone who is not in shape.  I have always been very physically active.  Ski, mountain bike, lift weights, run, etc.  I quit smoking in my mid 20's.  I like to have a couple of drinks once or twice a week.  I had to have a heart valve replacement 6 years ago, and became really sick with heart damage. It was a bad heart valve from birth that finally crapped out.  I have bounced back big time.  I run, and lift weights again and I am in excellent shape again.  It has really paid off, and I have no problems with libido, or performance.  I was given a 2nd chance, and I'm not going to waste it.   My goal is to continue to hobby into my 80's. Of course the girls I see will probably get a little older too.  It's not too late guys.  Hit the gym.  Run. Stop smoking, and eating crap. Get the blood flowing.  A 50 year old body still has the capacity to get into phenominal shape, and you can look great.

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johngaltnh124 reads

... because of the odd phenomenon of providers too often aging on a different clock than others.

So the following numbers apply to civie ladies who don't make sex their profession.

I have seldom appreciated 20-something women, even when I was 20-something. At the height of their physical attractiveness they too often think their crap doesn't stink, have a greater tendency toward superficiality and entitlement, self-indulgent and self-destructive idiocy and thus have minimal motivation to actually WORK to be the best they can be because they can get men almost effortlessly. Such women are seldom worthwhile in bed. They don't need to be -- they are getting men based on appearance rather than any other merit. Furthermore, even the educated ladies in this age group are too-freshly indoctrinated. They believe too much of the garbage from school and are seldom able to truly appreciate the value of a dollar, thinking those of us who have a buck got it by magic and they are entitled to it because they have breasts.

30-something women are really, IMO, the start of where they actually become worthwhile. When I was in my 20's; women in their mid to late 30's were my preference. If they are still single at 30, they have likely learned a thing or two, learned that their poop stinks, have seen their first gray hair in the comb, and at least started to learn to appreciate men as more than lifestyle accessories. Because they are starting to lose the bloom of youth and their fertility has started to drop like a rock (fertility starts dropping at age 30), they actually work harder on not just their physical appearance, but their internal beauty as well. They are competing against 20-somethings and often go well out of their way to be superior. Sex with 30-somethings is often superlative.

40-something women are tops. They are at the peak of their natural sex drive, have usually not hit menopause, have a lifetime of learning and wisdom behind them and often have an amazing understanding of men. If they have stayed fit in terms of sheer sexual capability they often exceed that of their younger contemporaries by a country mile; and also know how to do more with less effort. They make better conversationalists and have often reached a point of being truly independent thinkers who don't care what others think. I have found 40-something women to, in general, just plain be nicer and more personable. A 40-something woman appreciates that you appreciate her, and doesn't take a man's efforts for granted as readily as a 20-something.

I don't think I've dated any 50-somethings. Certainly none in civie life; but you know about provider-years. Probably some lady I saw whose profile says she is 29 is really 55. (Only kidding!)

Again, none of the above necessarily applies to providers because of the phenomenon of provider-years and the fact providers have to be personable and decent at sex without regard to age.

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willywonka4u101 reads

I've discovered in the hobby and civvie world alike, that younger ladies tend to have a ton more energy. Maybe it's just dumb luck, but I've found them to be better conversationalists as well. I've yet to experience a lady who was in their 40's or above, however.

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HalfHour75 reads

Your pictures are, of course, lovely. Now I see you even WRITE sexy! Wow!

:)

HalfHour

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jaydalee225 reads

As long as the gentleman is legal and polite I have no problem either way if the gentleman is younger or older.I have had some amazing times with older gentleman they really seem to go the extra mile when it comes to getting to know a lady.That being said I have had a few younger gentleman I have had fun times with.

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numero_uno130 reads

I have had some of the most amazing experiences with men and women of all ages up to 50 years my senior. They all add something unique and exciting in their own individual way that it would be faulty for me to simplify an experience down to age. Personally, it's more about my lover and our chemistry, and I welcome friends from 30-80 years old (can’t do younger than me or I’d feel like a perp), as we are bound to have a sexy and exceptional time together regardless what year they were born.

:)

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lilli198 reads


actually i'm not sure you could even call it a preference, since i would never even have sex with a man who was not significantly older than myself. i like for there to be at least a generation between me and my partner, and at least 12 years. mid 40s is where i've found most men to be at their sexual peak...they're finally secure in themselves, accept who they are, know what they want and how to get it, and have the most virility and stamina to do what they want. but i enjoy being with men on into their early 60s. it's fun being able to honestly call someone, "dirty old man." ;-)

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twolipseeker100 reads

I have found out in the civie and hobby life that I have better chemistry/connection with younger ladies in the early 20s to mid 30s, I have no idea why.

Do not take me wrong, I have been attracted to mature ladies since my teenage years.

The search continues....

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