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lester_prairie 12 Reviews 92 reads
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P411 only lists oks given. She's given 50+ oks.

Local provider… from the 3 pics, she is up my alley. But she has no reviews and no website. P411 50+ OKs.  

I have been trying to glean knowledge from those on this board and RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH is something I hear often.  

What do you do in these situations? Literally her entire online existence, as far as I can find,  is a P411 account with 50+ OKs.  

Walk on by?  

I’d like to find someone local, who works for me.

P411 only lists oks given. She's given 50+ oks.

FYI,  All Providers (Regardless Age) who has a profile on any site (Such as this one) does not start out with reviews. And regardless if there's a review or not.......You should at least contact the Provider & get to know her as a Provider.  
Remember one thing. Every Hobbyist's/Client's taste can be a bit different & Yet similar.  Meaning, Just because you may have had no obsticles/dislikes about a session......Doesn't mean that other Hobbyists/Clients will have the same 100% experience.Therefore, Why do you (The Hobbyist/Client) need to know what another Hobbyist/Client has gone through (When your experience could be totally 100% different).  By going according to what others say about a Provider..........You could possibly be loosing out on an experience that could go either way. In reality, both Hobbyists & Providers should take the time to talk to each other and lay all of their cards out on the table as to what each of them expect of each other and go from there.

IMHO it's not worth the possible "sting" that maybe attached to those OK's.

Use your other head.

Unless someone I know and trust "vouches" for her, I'd skip.

As far as I’m concerned, if you can’t find any reviews of her don’t waste your time! I never find a shortage of girls that are my type with good reviews! The bigger issue is finding the time…, and money to see all of them!

Is not unusual and not a deal breaker. Ask about her on the local board. She isn't a " sting" with 50 OK's..

At one point, I'm sure she had a lot of reviews here.  I know of a number of great, well established providers that were here & left because if thevreview culture.they asked that their profile be deleted. That doesn't mean they are a scan at all. I don't really understand why they feel that way.. their choice. One of the best providers I have ever seen was one I connected with through P411. She has nothing here.. and told me no reviews..

I can list a number of both active advertising as well a UTR providers in our local area that have delisted for their own reasons can easily stack up with any listed profiles.
Of course are others delisted that are in hiding.
In our area not hard to find out which is which.

She used to be listed on TER and is now de-listed, but over the course of her years in the business she has been able to "Okay" several clients that have seen her and requested an "Okay" from her.  If you haven't already (which I'm sure you have) I would google everything from her name, to her hobby email, to her number and see where that leads you.  You can also try checking some other nationwide boards as well as boards that are more local specific to see if anyone in the area has seen her and is willing to vouch for her service.  Depending on her price point vs your spending point maybe you wouldn't object to TOFTT?  I'd be inclined to believe someone with 50+ "Okays" given must be doing something right.

this also begs the question .. do you have a guidance / limit on how many okays or reviews a girl has ..   on some sites there are girls listed with 500 Okays!    as for me i tend to think twice about meeting someone with over 100 ..  anyone else thoughts on this ?

Do you apply this same comical philosophy to providers who have over 100 reviews? Per review site? Collectively combined?

You do realize that the provider with less than 100 oks has seen more clients than that. All of her clients are not on p411.

If I limited myself to providers with 100 or less oks/reviews, the pickings would be very slim.

For me, the more oks/reviews a provider has: the more experience they have, the more consistency is determined, the more reputable they become.

Shaming a provider for having too many oks/reviews is comparable to shaming a woman for having too many partners. It's not right. Stop doing it.

Just the opposite for me.  A high review/okay count means they are good at their profession.

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