Yes, she's a provider. We talk about all sorts of shit, just like I do with other ladies as well.

We were talking about the garb they wear when they meet us. I told her it really doesn't matter WTF she's wearing when we meet because it's going to be off in less than 5 minutes anyway.

Seriously. She can be wearing jeans and a favorite t-shirt. I did my homework, looking at her pix and review ratings, not to mention talking with other gents I know that had a great time with them.

Yeah, I can appreciate the ladies wanting to get all dolled-up. It makes them feel sexy.

I just think they're already sexy.

And the fact I talk with them before we meet sure as shit doesn't hurt matters either!

Like I said, I've seen their sites and their review scores.

They could wear a fucking robe with those fuzzy slippers for all I care.

I KNOW what I'm in for!

But I know I'm probably in the minority, as far as this subject is concerned.

Just curious what you all think?

That does it for me...makes the "little channelguy" stand stright up!   Well, maybe sorta straight up....leans a little.

the lady shows up, dressd casual, hair looks great,she mells awesome,her clothes are fresh.thats ok with me.when a lady shows up iwearing a summer dress, high heels, looking great and smelling super,bit of makeup it certainly does things for me.

you can either be turned on or really turned on.personally i luv short shorts,revealing top,heels,long flowing hair,but i luv to see a lady in a hot short dress,her assests revealing.oh yes thats me.running her hands up her skirt to feel her ass,ummmmmmmmmmmmmm

First, something nice and/or sexy is always nice, but, as you point out, largely unnecessary.

For first appointments, I think the garb may be more important. For regulars I'd say it is either less or more important - depending on the guy. Some guys are all into the look.

I wouldn't go so far as fuzzy slippers and a house coat, but for me, Jeans and t-shirt would be just fine.

She can wear them too if she wants. Lol.

Seriously, lengerie is so hot. I just bought my ATF a pink set that is burned into my brain. She looked, felt and tasted phenomenal that night.

"nothing complicated".

I like something silky or satiny, even soft like cashmere that I can hold against my body and rub against.

A robe is not bad as they slip off so easily.

Fishnets are also a turn on for me.

Certainly there should be nothing hard or sharp that could do injury to my flesh should I encounter it.

If she feels comfortable, sexy and on her game...that will come through in our session together!!  She could wear a purple barney costume for all I care!  Just be at your best! and I'll bring my A game!!

A particular outfit that might look great on one lady might not look so great on another. For the lady, the point of dressing up is try to look he best. She knows what looks most flattering on her, so I would prefer that she chooses to wear whatever she thinks is most flattering on that particular day. When choosing gifts, I learned that lingerie is a risky choice unless the lady selects it. What I think might look good is likely to end up at the bottom of a drawer or worse.

Open the door butt naked with condom in hand. I don't need an imagination about what's in the package. Ladies can dress up for themselves at their slumber parties.

I used to tell my ATF that she could make a burlap sack look good if she decided to wear one. Used to love to buy her lingerie cause she could wear anything and make it hot!

I like it when a lady is wearing sexy clothing.  

Sexy lingerie for an incall appointment.

A nice dress or other nice outfit for outcall.  As long as it does not look out of place for the location.  If she has sexy underwear underneath, I'm in heaven!

If you're in to one hour meetings, then I can see how you may be uncaring about the ladies lingerie and wardrobe.  But she doesn't always shed her clothes in the first five minutes like you assume.  If a client is spending a weekend or an overnight with the lady, or you're enjoying a long dinner date, etc., then you'll be seeing her dressed more often than not, and her choice of clothes becomes a much bigger factor.  

For me personally, I expect to see a lot of sexy lingerie, thigh highs, stockings and garters, and plenty of sexy, provocative outfits and dresses.  Her dress depends on other conditions, of course, such as where you go and weather and so on.


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I don't think I can get of on a lady in a Barny costume, But anything that she feels sexy in that comes off easy,  that is not too strange, and that it is fresh looking works for me. It will be off in a few minutes anyway and I into all kinds of dress. A hot woman is a hot woman. But please no Barny, my little head will run away in fear.

nothing on underneath. If her hair is below shoulder length, having it up in a way so that I can 'release' it when things start to heat up is nice also. Finally, add in some lucious, rich colored lipstick, and a pair of glasses (even the ones without prescription lenses) and I'm set to go!

If it's a dinner date, which mine usually are, I like a lady in a nice dress. In warmer weather, a nice sundress will do just fine. Easy access is always a plus. On one date, we had plans to spend the entire day together, so the lady showed up at my hotel in tight jeans, and a nice top. After some playtime, these clothes were comfortable enough to go out and enjoy the day.

But I have to admit I wouldn't turn around if she opened the door in a Catholic school girl uniform. I'll supply the lollipop..

One thing I don't like is high heels. For some reason a couple of the taller providers I've seen have worn high heels. I'm average height and in heels they're close to my height. I'm not sure why they feel the need to wear heels when they're already so tall. Anyway, even if they're short I'm not a fan of the high heel look.

I wondered what the hell WISPY was. LOL


I like the flowing dress(a-la commando)also.

I love wearing them and I have quite a collection
but the few who don't care are just a small number
so lingerie it is with me .

This made me laugh! I have wondered about this, that women dress for other women. I thought men liked wondering what was under the skirt. Is that right?

MiaKat

I look at this as if I'm giving myself a present--which I am. Well, then, I'd like that present to be wrapped...paper, ribbon, bow, or in this case... dress, bra, panties, thigh highs.  Part of the enjoyment of the present is its presentation. The rest is unwrapping the present. THEN I can really enjoy the present.

As far as the leaning deal?

Always a pleasure, CG!

BTW, next one's on me you sneaky bastard! lol!!!

I forget not everyone gets my twisted sense of humor.

Or lack, there-of?

I know about you and your fishnet deal!  

And silk is very nice, also.

You'll find that out when a certain someone *I* know will be in your neck of the woods here in a month or so!

I have a 'weird' sense of humor. Hence my remark about them not having clothes on after 5 minutes into our date.

Really, I don't see a lady for less than 2 hours. And some of that entails having a meal and drinks before we even get to 'dessert'.

Sometimes not.

But I can understand your train of thought, and I can appreciate what you expect when you see a lady.

All I was saying was, I don't find it necessary.

I'm already entranced with the lady. That's why I made a date with her!

My provider shows up in jeans but once inside she will put on a pair of blue jean shorts!!! Too short to wear in public.She even wears them in bed for a few minutes.I do not request it everytime.
AB