Would you rather fuck or make love? For me the hobbist I like both.

arousing the passions of your partner.

To simply f*ck the person as if they were an object is perverse, IMHO.

Loving can exist without the usual ties that society places on it.

I know because I have done it.

And I love it.

Very well said mrfisher!
-Cod

if the hobbyist is looking for a GFE experience, then the answer is obvious.  If all the hobbyist wants is to see how many times he can explode or wants to act out a porn scene he remembers, then the choice is obvious as well.  Individual preferences.

well it all depends on what the need is, somedays clients just want to pound me for all I'm worth, which apparently is around $350 an hour. Other days they want to be a bit slower and talk, then pound the crxp out of me. Making love takes longer than an hour to do it with any sense of who the other person is. Let's be real.

You have every right to your style of encounter. Please do chose the providers who don't care to connect with you or you with them.

I'm thankful the Mr. Fisher's of this hobby seem to be MY friends. Sorry, but I don't want to be just a receptacle for sperm. It's not a one way street for me. I'd quit this profession before I had to offer that kind of service. I love enjoying the passion and the pleasure of the moment too.    

Just MY two cents,
Anneke

'nutandbolt' was after all looking for providers responses.



-- Modified on 11/5/2006 7:29:21 PM

I for one can vouch that Mr. Fisher is one of the select few that gets it right....

Despite the dig. I love this woman. She is so friggen hot. So here is a dig and a shill. LOL

My gawd! What a woman! I am not worthy. LOL.

-- Modified on 11/5/2006 8:35:29 PM

The question would I rather fuck or make love doesn't have a single answer.

It depends on the chemistry between me and the man I am with. Sometimes absolutely nothing beats a pure animal lust heart pounding fuck. I mean, what more can I add to that?

On the other hand, making love - well, with the right person, when you have that mind/body/spirit connnection going on - it just doesn't get any better than that.

There is no choosing between the two. Sometimes a fuck is a fuck and it feels awesome, doesn't have to have any meaning whatsoever, and just leaves you gasping for air and trying to remember how to dial 911. Sometimes the connection is so deep and intense it takes my breath away and sends me into outer space for a while. And sometimes - its both all wrapped up in one and that's when its really good. But I can't say really that I make a choice between either end. Whatever happens - love or passion or both - happens all on its own through the connection between myself and the gentleman.

Just my two cents.

you will be MY juicy little SPERM RECEPTACLE, heh heh.  Now squirm & squeal, heh heh, bumpity bump

(eom)

-- Modified on 11/6/2006 1:17:24 AM

Personally, I like aggressive, animal lust that settles into slow, sensuous sex.

At the risk of ticking someone off, I feel that making love with a provider is a contradiction in terms, given  that a provider is acting in her chosen profession during the 'event'. Expecting love is inappropriate.  An analogy might be having dinner with the chef at a restaurant: enjoying a great meal with a friend or eating food?.  Having said that, my greatest respect is for those providers who, before, during and after the event, make me feel like we are making love, like it is a relationship.  I include 2 among my long list of providers seen who have delivered this amzaing skill -- Kate Bishop is one, the other is unreviewed by me and was a long time ago. Could I have I would have married either of them, just based on the connection I felt.  Happy hobbying to all.

Being with some one you love, i.e. in a committed SO type relationship, and having sex in a loving manner.

The former is a very special relationship, and no body should think that is going to happen with a provider with whom your committment runs out with the clock.

On the other hand, there is no reason not to honor the person you are with as they are human just like you; and to the extent that you bring out the best sexuality between you two, you will both be better off.

the person you're with WANTS to be F*cked.  Gotta say I always find it ironic when grown men who pay for sex find some of the practices engaged in by two consenting adults to be "perverse".  What does that even mean in the hobby?

you think ladies like you.  they laugh at you because you sissy and romantic sap.  save that sissy crap for harlequin novel.

Oh yeah, I do. It's called, you don't get an appointment. This service still isn't slavery. It's all about respect for me and I usually can figure that out in the first sentence. YOU just proved my point about that.

Anneke