The answer is probably similar as to why men enjoy DATY. But would be facinated to hear from the ladies as to what to they get out of doing it other then the clients like it.. Is it control over your partner?

I don't think it is control...at least from my vantage point. There was many years in my personal life when I refused to do it. A horrendous experience early ruined it for me. But a wise woman told me when I fell in love it would be as natural as anything else...and she was right.

I then became some what fascinated at the differences between men and what did it for them and what didn't. I do not look at it as a specific act but as part of a whole experience. Just the erotic culmination of exploring someones body. I start and stop and then start again...like kissing and touching....to be able to feel and touch someone as they get excited and then back off. I guess you could say that is a control issue, but for me it is so much more....it is a serious errogenous zone. I have met men who dont like it and others who can't live without it. Some like a soft touch and others like to really know you are there. but just to learn the intricacies of it all is what I find the most exciting. And hell...in it's basic form..I love the way that feels in my mouth. but hey...thats just me.

xoxox
lass


-- Modified on 2/23/2003 10:23:56 PM

Perfectly expressed, Lass, though I have to disagree a little on "control."  Don't you like it when they squirm?

Abby

It Could be Control, But I Love Hearing the Moans and Enjoyment that come out when I Suck and Lick. I started out by being the "Head Queen" in H.S. and Im now the "Head Queen" in Phoenix. I Love being able to Look someone in the eyes while I stroke my Mouth up and down, and I love the Groans of when I'm Deep throating, It's something unexplainable, But I get Very excited when I give a Good BJ...

maybe just a smidge....LOL

-- Modified on 2/23/2003 10:55:26 PM

i like the way a **** feels in my mouth..

i like the smooth stretched skin when its hard... i like the taste... i like the way it feels when the puffy head slides over my lips.. and the trembling you can feel at the base...

i like the way it makes my mouth water..

i like the way it makes me feel sexy... on my knees... my mouth used like a p***y... makes me feel totally feminine... totally a girl.. a special cock sucking girl... i like to look up... eye to eye... and i like it when he thrusts deeper and harder and f***s my face...

mostly... i like the reward.. the hot jizm .. i like to be close.. when everything clenches and he starts to moan and then yes yes... thats the best!

power?.. not me..         pleasure!

....To let you just be you all you want..........Start ...stop...star again Hell I don't care.  Anyway you would like sweetie. Control me all you want my dear............heheheh

Holy shit I gotta go lie down now.

T get VERY wet when I suck and lick a cock.!!! I love to "Make Love" to it. Play with it, feel it in the back of my throat, as my throat muscles massage the head...Long "Doggy Licks" up and down the shaft, down around the balls and ass, then swirling around with my tongue, back up to the head. I'm a True Cock Worshiper.!!!  But my absolute favorite is the pre-cum, the little "Dew-Drop" that appears at the head and then weeps down the shaft....Yummy...OMG..I think I'm addicted to it...!!! Do they have "Pre-cum Anonamous"...??? As for the POWER thing...not sure, but I know I hate to have him hold my head and force it down my throat...so I guess I do like control, some what... So to answer your question....I love to feel it, taste it, and smell it....I love to rub it all over my face....I WANT ONE...!!!

I agree.. I think I want to everyone of these ladies to my lists.
I know Junior is jumping up and down asking me when are we going to socialize again?

I have no idea why they do...just damn glad for those that do!  The difference in the way it makes me feel is like night & day between them & those who seem to just go through the motions.

I figured a bi-male needed to get his two-cents worth in...  

The feeling of a man growing and changing in your mouth as you change the pressure, the use of your tongue, the occasional dragging of the teeth is a huge (no pun intended...) turn-on for me.  Has nothing to do with control---just with seeing and feeling their response to what I do and knowing that they are enjoying it...

with that special male organ. Ever since I was a young girl, I just can't get enough in my mouth.  I enjoy seeing the pleasure on my man's face, hearing the sounds he makes, and knowing that I caused those intense, special, overwhelming sensations.  It gives me such a great sense of pride to bring someone to the point of no return, and push them right over the edge.  

Hugs and Kisses, (and licks)

Del

Nicole is especially vocal when she's in the middle, getting and giving.  I know, I've been there!

okay your link.. Do you get to Tuscan at all??

Okay.. best description on posts.. You probably increased your inquires and bookings with that little description. You are cruel.... I am here.. you are there... life is so unfair....

I wish we had more posts like this.. this type of advertising is sure to get you making a few inquiries....

It's not really a control thing, except that I can feel the intensity of the sensation that I am providing my partner.  I can back off and keep him/her at the brink of ecstacy.  I mean, that can be taken as control, but to me, like I already said... it's the intensity of the energy involved.  I've literally had an orgasm while giving a bj.... and my partner never touched me.  It was so intense that psychologically and emotionally, I had to release too..... I love oral, both giving and receiving, but not simultaneously, i.e., 69.  

People fail to understand that sex is more about energy than it is about anything physical.  Sometimes someone needs to release energy into a receptacle and others, they need energy from someone, and yet others need to exchange it..... that's really what all forms of sex are.... energy work.  

Jaclyn

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in the corner with these 2 vixens at play. My little heart probably couldn't take it but DAYUM I would die a happy woman.

I used to have a great bf that was alot of fun and we'd go for time. I got up to 40 minute long BJ with him! (Unfortunately, a car accident and a smashed disc in my neck have shortened up the time runs. I don't suppose I could go for that long again although I've not tried for time recently!)

I  Love to go for different styles of licking, sucking, rubbing it on my face, deep throat, swallowing, etc. I especially love to get the balls in on the action as well.

I, too, can climax while a cock is in my mouth.  The excitement of pleasing the man is overwhelming.

Call it control, call it whatever you like.  As long as the cock owner is gratified, so am I.

"Lick it like a lollipop should be Licked!!"
"Your smooth and shiny feels so good against my lips"

*smoooch*
Elise