Why bother exactly if it disturbs you?

I've never had this policy, but have encountered many providers who do.  

With a few, it was because their S.O. didnt want them to see AA clients. The majority of these were black men themselves.

A couple of AA providers I've known wouldn't see black clients; one them never said why while the other was very vocal about simply hating all black men.

 
However, of the majority of women I've known with this policy, the most common reasons I heard for it  were  (in order of frequency):

They're cheap and always try to get more than the lady has on offer.

They have a funky smell down there.

More likely to complain about using protection and/or attempt to get/TAKE bbfs.  

Classy, wealthy white clients don't want to see providers who see AA men. (Yes, some men won't see providers who entertain black clients, but I wouldn't call them classy lol)

And (my personal favorite).....they really like black men to the point where they ONLY date black men in their personal lives, and they don't want to blur the lines.  

All but the last were obviously broad generalizations, stereotypes, that frequently had little or nothing to do with each lady's own personal experiences. They just had these notions in their heads. Or used those reasons to hide real racism and/or fear. However you wanna slice it, the result is still the same. 😀

Does that help any? Knowing the "why" in this case, still hasn't led to any real understanding for me, if you get my meaning.  

 
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its easy really..

many people are too worried about saying the wrong thing because of race, but its not really about race.. some ladies have handlers whom dictate who they should see, as in who are they likely to encounter more resistance from more often than not,  should something go down.  The handler is basically stereotyping nonblack clients as being more docile.. Also The highest number of certain individuals trying to recruit them are black gents so many times they have already arranged a date and learn to late what their intentions were... Other ladies have said that they encounter situations more than most with black gents trying to get over or trying to talk them down on price, or even running out on a session.  Do others do it?  Yeah of course but in their eyes it is still by far a smaller percentage compared than the black gents doing it..

and minorities are on the receiving end of it the most.

I have a buddy who once told me he doesn’t like Asian girls “because their pussies stink.” So I asked him how many Asian girls he’d been with. He said… one.

I have another buddy who told me Muslim women are hypocrites and sluts. So of course I ask him why he says that. Because one time two Muslim women “hit” on him in a McDonald’s or Denny’s or something. I was almost speechless.  

On the flip side, I know a provider, White, who was raped by a Black man, but she doesn’t have a “No Black men” policy. (If she did, we'd have never met.) Why not? Because in her mind, she wasn’t raped by Blackness but a man. An individual. Not a Black rapist but a rapist asshole who happened to be Black.

Can’t even say it’s upbringing because she has racist parents. Parents she loves, too. Maybe she’s more exceptional than I realize

A shortage of black clients?

I had a couple back on the west coast. Very wonderful, fun, and polite men.  

Each race has their bad apples, each has their shining stars.

Coming from an ethnic background myself, I love all my men of color as much as anybody else.

To each their own, for their own reasons.
Not for us to ask or wonder, as everyone has their own personal reasons.

The only provider that i know has this restriction was because she was being harassed by black pimps and felt threatened.

It boggles my mind also.

When I decided to get into this business and started researching, I was shocked at how many websites had such wording. My very first client was AA, and I absolutely couldn't have asked for a better first experience!! Any subsequent dates with AA men have all been fantastic too. I just couldn't imagine trying to decide what type of client a man is going to be by race, national origin, or any other superficial characteristic.  

I think I probably take it a little more personally than most because I have had serious relationships out side of my race (Chinese and AA), and have seen the racism that goes along with how people treat you as a couple. The way some bigot would glare angrily at my partner, is something that angers and haunts me to this day.

I just think that they must suck at screening clients so badly that they have to use stereotypes and whatnot to try and stay safe.

(Well, except for one Tuesday), I'm still amazed by the ladies that won't see me.  But thankfully, the list of ladies that will see me is significantly larger than those that won't.

And as long as I'm willing to spend 5 bills or more on an appointment, schedule with plenty of time, send my refs, not be an ass when I get there and more importantly when its time for me to leave, there is simple no one I can't see, if I really want to see her.

If you started a thread asking which ladies don't have such a policy, you soon run out of space here.

I see ads that have age limits, weight in proportion to height as well as no AA's.

Are we outraged by these forms of discrimination?

What about guys that don't want to see Ebony ladies? They just don't contact them. Are they discriminating as well?
 

I'll keep mine short and simple...

It's her pussy....her choice.  Nevermind what everyone else reads into it.

very interesting post and replies

But this is my question... what if im only half black? Do i get half service? Can i still get a bj?