For those guys who will swear off a mfm.....how do you know you could not do it? If you never try it?

It is not a gay thing.....actually it is two men and a woman who are very secure and comfortable with the own sexuality and preferences.

I don't think it is any wilder than two women and a man.

Is it the fact that all the attention is on the female? is that what bothers men the most? or is it the fact that there is another naked man in the room, and in very close proximity to them? If it is the later, how do you ever expect to mature and experience everything the hobby has to offer if you are terrified and insecure about naked people of the same gender? So you are a big bad hobbyist yet you are scared to explore the big wide world of sex?

Again, I am not talking about man on man sex (IMHO that is a sexual preference that is hard wired).....I am talking about a straight MFM. What is the problem?

Sorry for the cheesy subject line.  Here's something I've been thinking about and I'd love to hear some thoughts from folks on the subject.

I've been an avid hobbyist for many years and plan on being so for many more.  I've had a number of threesomes in thepast with me, a male friend and a GG.  No contact whatsoever between me and the male friend nor any desire for it.  I've never done that though with a TG/TV and, well, it's something I wouldn't mind trying.  I've got a few close friends (including some of those I've participated in threesomes with) that know about my hobby and though understanding and supportive it doesn't seem their cup of tea (too bad for them!).  

I'm wondering if anyone here has pursued their hobby with another guy and if so, how that's worked out.  And how did you guys meet and decide you'd give this a try and basically be hobbyist-buddies.  Also, how has the request to be with two men been received by providers.  I'm strictly a top although I wouldn't really care if a guy I went in on a threesome with a TG/TV were either a top or bottom.

Many thanks in advance!

- U

But many hobbyists ( including myself ) consider MFM to be kinda gay, ya know ?

To avoid sounding homophobic, use Seinfeld line :
"There's nothing wrong with that"---live & let live is something I believe in.

HOWEVER, I think the "pals in the saddle" BFF in MFM threesomes have to "man up" & be honest about their "true orientations".

Didn't catch the ts/tv acronym on first read; think I'm going to lose my breakfast--------

It's not my cup of tea, but to each his own.

Well, here's a guy who is.

I just recently had my first MFM, and while I had some trepidations about it, overall I thought is was pretty damn good.  He did her from behind while she did a BJ on me, while laying down face up.

The other guy was someone I had met from another board and with whom we have years of infrequent back and forth, and the gal was a mutual favorite of both of ours who suggested it.

Come on guys, lighten up!

Live a little on the wild side.

Guys here are not going to admit to any MFM action. We are too busy impressing our ladies with our pure heterosexually. Pure as the yellow snow.

I've been in the same situation a few times. Only we high-fived during. It adds to the male bonding.

Guys....wake up and smell the hot sex. Take a walk on the wild side. You know you want to.

I find myself agreeing with him AGAIN. I too cosider MFM a bit gay. Not that there is anything wrong with gay, just like some people like beets in their salad, it's just not for me. lol

Yeah, I know some of our tastes might seem a bit vanilla for guys who hang around on a sex site, but I still believe there should be limit to one dick in a bed, at least when it's my dick that we are talking about.

and I don't come cheap!

I thought i had the cutest little ass!!!! I guest time will tell. Check it out love. It's been awhile since.

Kisses,
Danni Rae

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Destiny posted about it on the NM board, and I did it myself a couple of times when I was younger with some buds and a couple of willing civvies girls.

Told Destiny I wouldn't do that with her cuz I didn't want to share her.

However, I would with mrfisher. I heard he has the cutest little ass and I have to see for myself!

No butt intended. But wouldn't you prefer a sexy soft sunkissed ass to play with. I love to play in my sandbox!

Thank you, however that is one of best assets. Butt no punt intended i really enjoy a nice ass on a man as well. I'm sure Mr. Fisher is well aware of his.

I'd even let you do me for free!  8o)

And I DEFINITELY intend on wearing it as a hat, pardon my crudeness!

We've talked, and oh yeah, you are not one to be missed!

The fact you're easy, but you ain't cheap.

Can I at least write a review about it?

But if I had the choice between you and him? I think I would lean towards your sexy soft sunkissed ass.

He's been around. A lot. lmao!!!