Have you ever been confronted by your SO on what you're doing?  What happened and how did you get out of it?

She stopped at the end of the driveway and asked where I was going.  I said I was going for a few groceries.  That was one of the very few meetings I had to cancel.  I want to the grocery store for one small bag...and had a depressing day.

Yikes, so how did she find out?

ex found a 7/11 receipt that included condoms .. ooops    irony was i wound up not needing them  ..   got divorced a year later anyway not related to that.    

I have no problem posting what he's said in the past. I believe more than once.

I was shacking with a hooker for awhile. I thought we had a pretty open relationship, I was cool with what she did but apparently she wasn't too thrilled with my little Vegas getaways.
I had just got back from Vegas, decided to crash out at her place on my first night back, Then I got a text late that evening from someone I met while there asking if I was still in Vegas. She saw the text, ask "WTF"  and then she cold cock me flat on my grill. Within 2 days I was ask to leave, hit the road, get the fuck outa here....I could've' said..."Wasn't me"

My first wife figured out I was still messing with my old married girlfriend.  Which ended in a divorce.  Got married again (not to the old girlfriend)  and eventually the old girlfriend wandered off.  That's how I got into this biz ... missed having it on the side.  There is an excitement to the taboo.

I had all my devices synced with one another.  S/O was at work, but it was the end of the week so half a day for her.  I reached out to a local regular for a morning session, but for whatever reason she didn't get back to me and when she did it kinda drug out.  I was cutting it close to the S/O being home but still decided to sneak out real quick.  Back to the synced devices, S/O comes home and hears the alerts going off on the iPad via iMessage, found the location the provider sent me along with room number and decided to catch me in the act.  

I saved about $5 parking at a meter on the street rather than in the hotel's garage.

Yes. She didn't catch me in person but confronted me because of cash withdrawals and restaurant credit card charges. If I didn't give her some cash and take her out to nice restaurants it would probably have been okay, because all she cares about is my money.

She was definitely a hot nanny, and I was only the third man she had been with (the others were a teenage date rape and an estranged husband). The best thing was that she came on to me, and she expected nothing in return other than kindness, sex, and some sexual variety beyond her previous experience. The variety wasn't hard; her previous encounters had been nothing more than penetration without kissing or foreplay and quick ejaculation. I got to give her her first O from another person.

Had a similar story, SO had a car trouble at the garage (flat tire) and i was getting ready to go see my ATF...I offered to give her ride to work then pick her up later (so i can get to my appt with my ATF), but she wanted to get towed and fixed at the local car repair and of course she wanted me to stay with her....

...especially if it was the first time you cancelled at the last minute.  Of course, you should have offered a cancellation fee.  If it was my ATF and I thought she was worth keeping as an ATF, I would have given her the full amount.  That way she wouldn't be out anything and I'd still have my ATF.

to answer your question...yes i offered full amount as cancelation fee.  No she doesn't have to cut me a slack, because at the end of the day, it's a business transaction..you said it your self "she is my ATF", which also means she also someone else's ATF.  she made a business decision to cut ties to those who cancel at the last min/hour whatever.

While it's hardly the case that mongers complaining a lot about NCNS by providers generally there seems to be, at least in posts and comments here, a bit of a bias of "when I have to cancel it's really an emergency and justified so should not result in problems. When she cancels on me it is a bit problem for me and never justified."

All my SO’s know who I am & what I do. I’m to old to lie & waste my time. I love the thrill this hobby provides. The difference now from when I first started is I have the privilege to choose who deserves my time. Chemistry is a must.

Lots of guys just want some strange even if their wife is still putting out.

Is that the question that was asked?  

He's still IN grade school. He hasn't even got pimples yet.

Seriously ?!! Only the most stupid guys get caught !!!  It sounds as there's disorginization and no real communication with how things are on either side.

i'm not quiet sure i agree with you on that, because biologically speaking, we men (male, xy chromosome) always wants to (what's the next gen terminology) "smash" different chics...or we want variety in term of women.  But we always go home to our main girls (in this case, our SO, wife, gf, partners etc).