Sad but true: ALL women have body image issues. Fuck that shit ladies, y'all are sexy!
We are raised in a society where we are brainwashed to KNOW we are NEVER "good enough" or as good as XXX-Chick, or as trendy, or thin, or as voluptuous....
The only good positive thing I have seen lately on that note is the Dove commercials....
I know corny, but they hit my heart.
We have commercially fried our-selves into competing with Miss. Jones (keeping up with the Jones's...)
It is very sad.
We just have to learn to keep it in perspective (easier said than done.)
*Disclaimer-- I think my face is beautiful, I do have body image issues, but then again, I used to strip, so 5-6 hours 4-5 days a week of hard-body exercise & pole-work. These days, not so much. LOL
Too many artificial examples of what women should look like.
No-one "turns" gay. Just like a gay man can't "turn" straight. It implies a choice to change your sexual orientation. Believe me, many go through the straight motions but are still gay.
They claim they don'y know... Look it up.
Depends which camp you believe in.
diet coke 
It was go o od!!!
No need to get all crazy about body image. We are who we are. Accept yourself and others will accept you just the same. They don't like it ... tough.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
It doesn't seem like there are. But it's not just in HookerLand...seems most women I've ever known see that reflection in a mirror quite differently than I see her.
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... it was the business.
Wendy sure knows hoe to work those jaw muscles.
I was raised to love and appreciate myself unconditionally, and my mother made sure to elevate beauty that looked like mine. So, for all my "flaws," I love myself, my body and everything that comes with it. I've always seen myself as a perfect 10.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
It doesn't seem like there are. But it's not just in HookerLand...seems most women I've ever known see that reflection in a mirror quite differently than I see her.
I wish ladies would stop dying their hair.
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But I'm also not standing between these girls trying to get a date.
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There will always be some disgruntled, low self esteem monger that would pick these ladies apart. What matters is how you feel.
I like what I look like and have worked hard to get here. Sure, I have "areas" that I feel I can improve on but generally, I look great and that is what I see. Others, well each and every one will have their own personal opinion.
Don't own a mirror. Lol.
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
I like what I look like and have worked hard to get here. Sure, I have "areas" that I feel I can improve on but generally, I look great and that is what I see. Others, well each and every one will have their own personal opinion.
You do not know what I look like. You think you do, but you don't.
Try this, shit in one hand and wish in the other and see which one fills up faster.
If you have the vagina, show the rest of the board my images and my website? Prove how you know what I look like or stick your head BACK up your ass .
Not every hooker has a bad self image, but it sure makes you feel better if she does right? Easier to manipulate.
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Some of us have "inside baseball" but I won't go into detail.
If you didnt then you're quietly content with your "Axis 2" situation and that's cool too.
Your inflammatory ad hominem, hypocrisy, and self-denying hubris make me laugh almost every day.
One should have a free place to vent all the pain that you're evidently living with.
Keep it up. Lol.
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
You do not know what I look like. You think you do, but you don't.
Try this, shit in one hand and wish in the other and see which one fills up faster.
If you have the vagina, show the rest of the board my images and my website? Prove how you know what I look like or stick your head BACK up your ass .
Not every hooker has a bad self image, but it sure makes you feel better if she does right? Easier to manipulate.
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Prove it or shut it.
And if you are having issues with your weight might I suggest Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers or any of the others. Your assumption I am fat is sad and possibly a projection of your own body image self hatred.
Make an appointment and you too can look in the mirror and not cringe.
Pain, you must be kidding, this is all a fun fest on here. You take me way too seriously. Get a sense of humor and come back and join in the fun.
It's a free board, and no one really cares what the truth is because it can't be proven here.
But we all know the truth here...In all seriousness, we only need to ask ourselves what rings true...
Does the lady protest too much? Or is she genuinely happy with herself? Lmao.
The funnier thing is that you proved my point about ad hominem. You resort to it routinely in defensiveness. Btw, a couple ladies who know me and my wife know that I am the furthest from fat (31/32 waist), bald, and old (40). But your usual "truths" are noted. My sincere suggestion is a type of medical professional... Can you guess which kind? Axis 2 is looking pretty solid...it's only natural for you... Lol. Yes it's at you.
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
Prove it or shut it.
And if you are having issues with your weight might I suggest Jenny Craig, Weight Watchers or any of the others. Your assumption I am fat is sad and possibly a projection of your own body image self hatred.
Make an appointment and you too can look in the mirror and not cringe.
Pain, you must be kidding, this is all a fun fest on here. You take me way too seriously. Get a sense of humor and come back and join in the fun.
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You assumed so much about me and I did about you. So when you call my attacks ad hominem and hypocritical, you are as guilty as I am.
So you see unless we meet in person and can prove at least that neither of us are fat, all we have is the board persona to deal with and the ad hom attacks.
What we think we see in others is sometimes what we need to address or embrace in ourselves. So, what are you doing for your Axis 2 issue? Or is that yet another attack that you have very little basis for and I would be very careful using a fuck board to attempt a diagnosis, many of us here are purposely playing a different card.
"no one really cares what the truth is because it can't be proven here". Your words, so your truth could be a pack of lies as much as anyone on here.
Again, you take my comments way to seriously
No body image problem...Lmao
Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
You assumed so much about me and I did about you. So when you call my attacks ad hominem and hypocritical, you are as guilty as I am.
So you see unless we meet in person and can prove at least that neither of us are fat, all we have is the board persona to deal with and the ad hom attacks.
What we think we see in others is sometimes what we need to address or embrace in ourselves. So, what are you doing for your Axis 2 issue? Or is that yet another attack that you have very little basis for and I would be very careful using a fuck board to attempt a diagnosis, many of us here are purposely playing a different card.
"no one really cares what the truth is because it can't be proven here". Your words, so your truth could be a pack of lies as much as anyone on here.
Again, you take my comments way to seriously.
I'm not saying I get my self esteem from men because I believe self esteem and self body image are two different things. I have always loved me.
I love the hobby and the gentlemen that have proved to me that everything I thought about my body is completely wrong. I went to my first M&G last night and wore a dress I would have never in a million years worn, and I thought I looked fabulous.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
It doesn't seem like there are. But it's not just in HookerLand...seems most women I've ever known see that reflection in a mirror quite differently than I see her.
Posted By: ChgoCPA
It doesn't seem like there are. But it's not just in HookerLand...seems most women I've ever known see that reflection in a mirror quite differently than I see her.
not that that term has much meaning anyways, as every one has a different view as to what perfection is.
Beauty, on the other hand, comes through in all kinds of meaningful ways: dress, posture, facial expression, walk, speech, breathing, and several other very subtle characteristics that we may not even be aware of.
These can be achieved by anyone regardless of the cards dealt by nature by assuming a fully erotic lifestyle.
At least to some degree. That's kind of the consequence of living within a culture that puts so much emphasis on outer beauty. Unfortunately, not a single goddamn Dove ad is going to make me like my cellulite.
One of my long time gal pals has the exact same issue. I have spent many a time looking for this invisible cellulite that apparently only she can see.
I suspect you may also have that nasty invisible cellulite.
Posted By: Tobi Telford
At least to some degree. That's kind of the consequence of living within a culture that puts so much emphasis on outer beauty. Unfortunately, not a single goddamn Dove ad is going to make me like my cellulite.
Be happy 
Are you "the motherfucking shit" he was talking about?
Posted By: 89Springer
Are you "the motherfucking shit" he was talking about?
Absofuckinglutely
National geographic. I'm sure most guys here would like a subscription to what you've got going on.
to live with it lol. I will not get plastic surgery to remove flaws, no way no how. I'm happy aging gracefully as it's intended to be.
And damn straight Springer ... TT, you're how old? I HIGHLY DOUBT you have an ounce of cellulite on your bod woman.
Posted By: Tobi Telford
At least to some degree. That's kind of the consequence of living within a culture that puts so much emphasis on outer beauty. Unfortunately, not a single goddamn Dove ad is going to make me like my cellulite.
Girl I'm 25 and I promise when I flex my butt, it looks like Cottage Cheese City.
Though my newfound addiction to airbrush tanning seems to be combatting the problem quite effectively.
Posted By: T.xoxox
to live with it lol. I will not get plastic surgery to remove flaws, no way no how. I'm happy aging gracefully as it's intended to be.
And damn straight Springer ... TT, you're how old? I HIGHLY DOUBT you have an ounce of cellulite on your bod woman.
Posted By: Tobi Telford
At least to some degree. That's kind of the consequence of living within a culture that puts so much emphasis on outer beauty. Unfortunately, not a single goddamn Dove ad is going to make me like my cellulite.
I've lived and worked all over the world and have always noted that body image was huge for women though the "standard" varies from place to place -
it seems to be hard wired into the species, an artifact of evolution and the desire to attract a mate... and keep one....
whatever - it is kind of sad - I've met so many very lovely women in my life, and if you get to know them well enough, they all have disappointment or anxiety about some facet or facets of their appearance - and I though each and every one of them were stunning from the top of their head to the soles of their feet.....
......unruly hair. Big unruly hair.
