was not available for others and requests me to keep it off the review, a dirty little secret between two consenting adults, I will gladly do so as long as the experience was positive .. The only time I won't oblige is if the experience was sub par..But that's just my policy.. Do I get in trouble for that.. Oh yes.. But don't get in enough trouble to stop doing it.. May be soon, I will stop reviewing altogether..

That being said, even if you leave it in there, most smart hobbyists, who have been around the block for a while know that there is always YMMV factor.  

The text message you got was a good customer service on her part..No you are not a stud...I get them too, and I know I'm not one.  

 
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Bigvern don't get your panties in a wad.

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Otherwise guys will have false expectations, she will have to deal with a lot of demands, and with a lot of unhappy customers.

When she wants change what she's offering she'll let people know

I asked one of my reviewers not to include a certain activity that we did together in his review, even though it would have made me eligible for a 10 on performance. I don't offer greek to the vast majority of people I see, but once in a while I'll indulge regulars that I really like. Having it talked about in the review or giving a "yes" instead of "don't know" on my profile would cause a headache on my part because it would set a precedent and I'd have to turn down a lot of people specifically requesting it.  

I wouldn't include it.  

She isn't asking you to put something in the review that didn't happen.  And by omitting these you may not be able to give her as high marks as you like.  Show her the respect and oblige er.

No disrespect meant but (since you are asking), just honor her request, leave out the extra details and be happy with your special experience.

Sounds like you would have given her a good review anyway. Don't let it affect your review in a positive or negative way. Write what you think, score the way you feel necessary.

To add a little bit to a provider's side of things. We see a lot of dicks and meet a lot of men that, well, carry them. There are times we can suspect it's not gonna' be pretty. Some penises taste odd. If we have CBJ on our profile, no feelings are hurt if we don't have to explain why we're covering him up. Much less awkward. While I don't do CBJ, as I hate the taste of condoms, lol, I do wish sometimes that was all I offered. (Not often, but there are times)

It's always YMMV with the gals, a lot of guys have some ladies who we connect with who will give some extras just because she likes ya. From extra services to substantial amounts of OTC time what ever a lady gives ya in addition to the regular admission just keep it between ya'll. as for the text a lot of gals do that it's good for biz and shows some professionalism on her part. Welcome to Hobbywood enjoy!!!!

No grading on a curve, following the herd or being an accidental white knight.  Just call 'em as you see 'em.

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1) You should honor her request, and not mention either BBBJ or CIM.  

2) Follow-up communications occur frequently.  In your case, it seems likely that her primary objective is to request that you omit the BBBJ and CIM from any review you may decide to write.  It's also likely that she is conveying to you that she wouldn't mind you seeing her again.

she let you go where most don't be happy it was what it was and respect her wishes.

in all honesty, if I saw a gal had a string of 9s despite a profile and reviews that said CBJ, I would strongly suspect that the CBJ is BS, and I don't think I'm alone in that thought either.

Trying to have it both ways usually doesn't last too long.

I would leave it out. Sometimes I give specials to certain customers that I wouldn't normal give to others whether it be an amount of time I don't offer, a service I don't offer, or a special price. And when I do so I usually ask them to keep it to themselves, otherwise others are going to expect it. I highly doubt your theory that she does bbbj for everyone and asks them to say CBJ to boost her performance score. I think she legitimately had a connection with you, and felt comfortable enough to do it bare. If you ever hope to see her again, and get another bbbj instead of cbj - leave it out of the review. I mean just don't make a mention either way, like instead of saying she gave a great bbbj say she gave a great bj so your not saying if she did or if she didn't use a condom. Ya know what I mean? She was trying to help you out and do something nice for you- so why would you wanna turn around and do something "not nice" to her.  

Hope that makes sense to everyone and not just me.

potential.  How can that be self serving?

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regardless of what it might be. The  one issue I see time after time written about in reviews is the length of a session.  Even veteran hobbyists make the mistake of mention specific additional time that was OTC. It simply sets the provider up for issues with future clients.  

As far after session texts/emails, I don't read to much into them. I take them at face value, simply a good practice by a businesswoman looking for a possible repeat visit. Nothing more nothing less.  

As a newb, and we were all newbs at one time, there's a tendancy to over think or over analzye issues that come up in the hobby. My advice, just roll with things and don't try to over think or over analyze.  
 

Next...she said nothing about her score or "Please write me a review." She simply wanted to make sure you don't go blabbing about what YOU got, because the next guy is probably not going to get that. Many of us do things BCD that we "pretend" we don't do on our profiles because we don't want the pressure of having to do it for everyone.  

If a gal's profile says CBJ guys know going in not to expect BBBJ, but if it is the opposite, they get pissed and give her a lower score being they did not get that service. When you are given a bonus, shut up or you won't get it again.

oh fredo. go ahead and tell every one. are you seriuos guy??

Like wow. Thats what she gets for seein a guy w no experience in the hobby. I cant even believe you asking us that. Your also already rattin her out by blabbn info that can be used to figure out who yur talkn about. And number two bbj cim is old hat run of the mill and by no means equates a higher score than a nine. I have had tons of dates where  did rough anal andrimming pse , they still gave me eights in performance. One guy said to me.iI dont like to do anything at an appt just relax you do all work I was.exhausted after. He tipped me too then gave me much lower than all his other reviews in performance. Tons got greek and last week I did greek and pse he gave me seven in performance. And there I was so excited for his review after all the preperation and effort enthusiasm.  

Cim bbj is  do at every date and twice I always try n force a second cup. I also have done anal at about hald my reviews.sessions. I dont have a even nine average for performance. Bbj cim I do every appt I am an eight average in performance. So . No shes isnt conniving a master plan for higher score. You can do anal and bbj cim . Multiple cups pse. And still get sevens and eights in performance.
Bbj cim or greek doesnt equal eights nines or tens. I do bbj cim EVRY time all 68 my reviews. Sometimes non stop action I barely gotten a ten. In my carreeer.  
   I think you l learn as you hobby moe. You also gave alot inf o already . Cbj, all 9 9 reviews. People can find who I iscuz now shell be getn listed in " new reviews"  
  Guys like you ruin it for us girls. She gave you vip service got wild did something sacred with you you evoked a new wildness in her. And you know.

Nothing is sacred any more.  
Be appreciative you had a connection . If your a snitch. Then drop dime on her. Yoy obviuosly are if your having to ask andalready bein a big mouth on a national general discussion board. Take a look above at the head count. Do yoy realize how many people you just told. The larger majority here dont care about a tiny bend in a girls rules time to time. It by ni means means she ll do it again.we have the right to bend our rules when ever we please.  Gossip and snitch away. Shes not gonna lose sleep over it. She busy bookin appts havin what is called a lufe. God. Move on see some else enjoy life. But dont focus on your oneboring dumb appt. I d have forgotten an been on to my next fuck by now ifI were you. Some you guys are such lisers w like no fuckn lives.yeah you already ratted her out so now whats the difference. Remind me not to book newbies w no reviews they r such rookies. i