Ok...I gotta ask...as a guy that's 5 1/2" hard, when I watch porn and see these monstor dicks in every single one of them...it makes me embarrased.  Are there really that many dudes in the world with huge dicks?  And do women like that?  I've always thought when they're that big, ladies don't care for it and it just hurts and makes them sore.

Last civvie girl I was with told me that about big ones hurting.  And she said I was "just right".  Not too small, not too big.  Another civvie before that told me I was the biggest she'd ever had which I found hard to believe.

Thoughts?

...if two women told you (civvies, not prostitutes) that you are OK, then what is there to worry? Can you get hard? Can you ejaculate? Can you penetrate? If answers are YES, then stop worrying and use your tool as often as your wallet allows you....

I think in the porn industry they look for guys that big and that is why it appears there is many.
I come across many normal guys who are also big or very big.
Each girl is different and likes different things and is shaped differently. Some love huge ones and some don't.
As for me personally...if they are too big you have to proceed with care.

And if you're tired of reading about repeated topics, don't click on them. Duh.

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Didn't realize it would be taken seriously. Geez.

...and if too big, it certainly does hurt. Some of us will just say no to too big.

I will never understand guys thinking we can take anything and it not be painful...for some of us at least.

Even porn ladies and having spoken to one, it is common for them to use a numbing agent for PV and anal with the big guys.  The money does not take away the pain, for some it makes it easier to deal with.

..we are good.. It's just that this topic has been discussed ad nauseum on GD board. Every few days someone comes and posts a pathetic post complaining about their dick size.

No worries if it was meant to be funny post

In fact, some of the "biggest" money makers over the years-Randy West, Jules Jordan, Peter North to name a few, have been strictly average in size.

As far as what "hurts" that's not really relevant in porn since the girls are doing it for money.

......more often than not I see men who are just at avg, maybe a tiny bit above.


There was a news story or something about where in the world had the biggest dicks.  

But um why be embarrassed about your 5.5 inches.... it's normal/avg so....you're fine.  If you want it bigger there's always surgery.... women do it for their tits and ass.


What do I like? I like avg to a little above for the most part but I can use a monster dick every now and then (keywords every now and then).

And have dodged many a bullet. I mean what fun is it for him if I can't take it? And I respect my body enough to not put it through something I know very well will cause pain and discomfort. Sometimes no amount of cash will allow entry...

An escort friend of mine who did porn for a short time has mentioned on more than one occasion that, when other girls would call for references, one of the the questions was always regarding how big the guy's penis was and how rough he was with it.

I also agree that money does not take away the pain, it just gives some women enough of a reason to deal with it.

i think just a bit above average is perfect, but (being a slut, lol) i do enjoy variety and can appreciate a monster cock now and then that's really going to put me through it. and i don't know what it is, but in my time i have encountered more large or even very large cocks than smaller ones...i don't believe that's reflective of society at large, maybe i'm just lucky that way, lol.

in college i was with a guy so large that he actually TORE my cervical lining. if that sounds painful and horrifying, it was!! and the crazy thing is he wasn't even very rough, just tapping it from the back and he pulls out and it looks like a bit of my insides are out on the floor! sorry to be graphic but we're all grown-ups here. i thought i was mortally injured or something but he was totally calm, like, "yeah, this has happened before." i was like WTF?!?!!? he was apparently used to ripping girls apart.

maybe it's the masochist in me or the submissive pleaser in me or some combination of the two, but even after experiences like that i do look forward to those challenging experiences. especially when you consider the fact that most of the men who are that large have never felt free to truly relax and just use their cock however comes naturally...i met a few who confessed they had never even fully penetrated a woman before. so of course that tugs at my subbie heart strings and i just have to do all i can to take it like a champ.

buuuuut would i want that all the time? um, no.

its 3 or 4 inches bigger. I have no clue. They chose those actors because they have big dingalings, its the porn industry dude. There was a survey that said that the average penis of a man is 5.5 to 6 inches.

Some girls like big dicks, others don't. A friend of mine is very endowed. He tells me that most girls can't take all of his dick and he only puts half in at most. What's the point if he can't put it all the way in? See where I'm going? Some girls don't ride him in CG position either. There are limitations of having a big dick. With an average size dick, you don't have to worry about those kinds of things. Trust me dude, having a big dick really isn't that important. If you know how to satisfy her, then that's whats important IMO.

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Finally a guy who understands that a giant dick is not all it's cracked up to be...great for showing off in the locker room or at a urinal, but if you can't use it all and have limitations, well what's the point. Smaller dicks rule.

i have been around the porn industry a bit, and honestly most of those guys are nowhere near as hung as you would think. i can name a few that are easily under 6 inches. and almost all of them lie about it. if they claim to be 9", you can bet its around 7-7 1/2". i have been told, off the record of course, that mandingo is really only around 12". i know, "only 12"....but he claims somewhere around 15-16". the camera angles, the pills, and sometimes even the surgery just make em seem super-sized.