I'm sort of new to all this - but one thing I don't get:  So many guys in their reviews are into DATY.  Geez - this is so wrong on so many levels!
1) Who's working for who?  Who gives a shit if they cum?
2) Their "stuff" is basically like a toilet.  Lets see, am I the 2nd or 8th dick in there today?  
3)Would you french kiss another guy?  I wouldn't even drink from another guys water bottle - but you'll stick your tongue in a provider's slot!??????  I'd lick a toilet seat first!
3) STD's:  You WILL get one or more of these: yeast infection, bacterial infection, herpes and , oh yeah, what's that other one called?????....AIDS!!!
(Explain that to the Missus:  "Sorry Honey, I guess I have to stop licking those dam toilet seats at the truck stop").
What I really don't get:  They will give you a CBJ, but you'll go down on them!

I guess it depends on how you view the whole experience and what you personally like to do. Rather than go through each point, I must say, I never thought of a lady's "stuff" as "like a toilet". I should also say that I don't know how often a provider cums with me, but it is always a great gift and treat if she does. Most give BBJ.

OMG do you believe this guy???? anger management hon, look into it. maybe while you are at it you should find another hobby, your very low opinion of woman in this business is truely sad. I find when most men who view woman in this biz in this manner, they tend to view most woman in general as less than themselves. I know I won't be interested in wasting my time with the likes of you...Good luck getting an appt anytime soon. LOL... But then again, you are probably just looking for a rise out of what you wrote.  Ahhhh another loser troll...

All have a great day...

Nicole



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A bacterial infection is possible. However the chances of herpes and aids are extremely remote when doing daty on a provider.

Aaarrrreeee U nit-pickin'? Sounds like U really don't like Daty regardless if its on a Provider or a regular girl. Speaking of regular girls-what makes U think that they are any different from a Provider; in their behavior. To be very honest I prefer Providers as they are Professional and that means their Hygiene is Extraordinary. I am not talking about wannabes, I am speaking of the real deal, here. They wonderful,charming, sensual women clean themselves thoroughly between each hobbyist that they see. And these ladies (L-A-D-I-E-S!), INSIST ON HOBBYIST BEING CLEAN AS WELL! which is why they insist that you take a shower before the Fun begins. Some will even shower with U, making it a much more thrilling experience than it otherwise would be. For me-I Loooooovvvvveeee DATY. I love the smell of a sweet smelling flower that these exceptional women have. Usually I will give DATY before I go to K-9, Mish, and etc. Most young guys really are UNCONCERNED ABOUT DATY, as I am an Older guy with more experience under my belt. I really get a kick out of it. And Yes! there is a small minority of young guys who share my interest as well. We hobbyists all have our different interest and sometimes we are together are some things. I will bet that there will be many such responses from fellow hobbyists who will say that they too, love doing DATY.

attitude you have!

You may or may not be aware of this, but many of us are "low volume"....choosing to see only 1 gentleman in a day and having only 2 or 3 dates in a week.(most of the dates are regulars, btw)

Keep in mind as well, most of us are tested on a monthly basis (sometimes more frequently) and performing oral on a woman is actually the LEAST risky activity (ask the CDC if you don't believe it),and dental dams are pretty easy to find.

Besides all that, it's a fundamental part of the intimacy that a GFE provides, and personally, I've never met a gentleman that didn't want me to enjoy his company as much as he enjoys mine.

While I don't mind if one of my friends chooses not to partake, I love when it when they do!

If you're that adverse to putting your tongue in it, surely you avoid dipping more precious body parts.....

Perhaps you've never heard of it.  We just may be cleaner than you.  Most importantly though, men who don't like women should not be hobbying.

If we are SO nasty and filthy, WTF are you doing even seeing us??

Please do ALL of us ladies a favor and go ahead and post all of your information so that we can blacklist you and move on to the gentlemen who deserve our attention.

because he's got a sore arm.

Made no sense

It is absolutely one of my favorites. There's nothing that gives me more pleasure than giving a lady pleasure.

give enjoyment to the lady with whom I have chosen to spend time with.  The experience should be a win-win for both of us.

I just looovveee men with entitlement issues......"who is working for who".  Bet he's a real charmer with the help at hotels, bars, shops, etc.  Hell, probably a real charmer with ladies as well....."I am all that and more.  You are so lucky to be with me..."

Comparing women I know who are providers to single woman on the civilian market, I'd go with a professional anyday.  That "civie" you picked up in the bar last night - she's been picked up every night this week and doesn't use protection....

Time to find a new hobby....

Happy end of summer everyone!

As had been said before - trolls have to eat too!    So here goes...

I agree with the other responses from the panel. Personally speaking, DATY for me is a big part of the whole experience for me. I enjoy it and if the lady I'm with enjoys it all the better! I'm not just there for her to "service" me. The experience during a visit is more that just the old in and out, it's an exchange between two people.

C_K

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for the use of his meat locker for an hour and have a go at a big side of beef and get just as much pleasure from that. that's apparently how you view a provider, rather than as a beautiful, wonderful lady. But that's just me. And I'm off (in more ways than one).
jhb

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The only small amount of credit you get for your assinine and tremendously pathetic post is that you did not use an Alias...perhaps this would have been an appropriate time to use one.

First, what any hobbyist enjoys or does not enjoy during a session is absolutely NO concern of yours. It's his cash and how he chooses to spend it is his business. If the hobbyist chooses to DATY for an hour; his choice. If his session is complete by making a provider cum multiple times with his tongue, his business and choice. Everyone knows the inherent risks involved in the hobby and we all act according to our comfort levels. Every session is different; as long as the hobbyist and provider are comfortable with the acts they are engaging in, it’s their business. You do not have to "understand anything". Just as it’s your cash when you see a provider, you and that provider get to decide what will and will not happen during a session. You don't want to make her cum; don't make her cum. You may engage in something I find utterly offensive. But it’s your choice, and as long as you are not harming the lady, I don’t care to comment on what you do. When it’s another hobbyists' cash, keep your mouth closed on what someone chooses to do during a session.

What's more troubling is your attitude towards providers in general. To equate ANY provider in the same sentence and context "as licking a toilet", really shows what a total piece of crap you are. Why are you even involved in the hobby in the first place? It's idiots like you that really give hobbyists a bad name.

Look, I treat this hobby as purely business. I pay my donation, enjoy the session, and then am immediately back to the reality of my own life. I do not see any providers "off the clock", I do not have one provider who I would classify as my friend, and I do not contact a provider unless I am prepared to make an appointment. It’s about as business an approach as one could have.

BUT the one thing I do have is a professional attitude and appreciation towards the ladies I see. I have a tremendous level of respect for what they do and for their overall comfort and well being during a session. I would NEVER even remotely equate a provider to a toilet. It's beyond demeaning.  

You really need to grow up fast.  

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eat drink and be merry a little advice

Ok so you said you are new to this ,shocking really lol.Ahem, You said who's paying who as long as there is no confusion there I'm happy actually . you said you would rather lick a toilet seat. I have to say if you are licking toilet seats I am glad you aren't all that interested in licking me at least we are on the same page here
Some girls see 8 guys a day some see 8 guys a month or yup even a year . I work 2-5 days a month almost exclusivley regulars . I do not have a So I never ever go to a bar never mind pick someone up in one lol. I most likey am less sexually active than most people you know here or in civie world.Not to justify or  prove any point really just to enlighten. I am just one of many.I would if I were you ,in the interest of getting laid use an alias next time if you value your ability to get a booking. Here's one of the things you should be aware of as a new guy. Say for  single moment you contacted someone here and asked for an appointment. She can easily go and search this board for your postings and see what you have said to date . She reads demeaning things like this and I would imagine valuing herself much more than you do is going to say  umm no thanks I'll pass I am too good for this type of $hit.I wont see anyone without reviews, references, and their name here on TER so I can search there postings , their reviews and get a feel for their style. If you don't give me that I don't meet you . Not to say I am your dream girl . What I am saying is I am not the only one.  Careful what you say . It isn't Karma it's just  a search engine. Don't hate the players hate the game.Good luck to you I do hope you lose some of the opinions you have going forward . I do hope you find a way to be good to the girls who are willing to see you.Kendall

I'm just happy I knew you didn't mean that for me but for the OP!! Or I'd think I might NEVER get an appointment with a lady!!

WHEW!

LOL

C_K

he had never done it, tried it, then shot himself for not doing it sooner!

Seriously:  DATY is a big, big thrill and just a part of the love making.

To each his own. I am not into doing DATY with a provider either, when with my gf thats a different story. I just want to get there, get off and leave, even if I still have time left on the clock. I don't want to talk about my life, job, family or know anything about hers. I don't want to be friends either. I am there for one reason, to get off. I don't get all this GFE BS myself.

Its just a business transaction, that's all.

As others have said, feel safer with a provider
than a civvie girl. This guy obviously doesn't
know how well this hobby works if a person is
careful and reads reviews.

Hey, the day is not over yet but you've set the bar pretty high!  I don't think anybody will top your idiotic and insulting post...

I'd like to get the OP's thoughts on Trannys...

Clearly, we all here really enjoy DATY, really appreciate and trust the ladies we see, and particularly treasure any pleasure we can give them. DATY can result in disease transmission;it is only under very special circumstances (inflamed gums or open sores and an infected provider with inflamed or interrupted mucosa) that it can result in the transmission of AIDS.  

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So you don't like DATY with providers huh? Now that's downright boring.

Sorry, but that is just my opinion!

Swim

Is that this idiot will never know how much more fun he could be having...

The reason I hobby, is that it gives me a chance to MAKE LOVE to a variety of beautiful, sensual women. I can stroke myself off anytime if I just want a release. I've been hobbying all around the world for 35 years. I never, ever get tired of pleasing a lady. It's a shame for you, because with your attitude, you will never know the satisfaction of knowing that a beautiful woman that is excited to know that you will be visiting her, knowing the pleasure that she will enjoy with you as well as give you.

"Mynjguy, 8/29/2008 11:02:03 AM

I'm sort of new to all this - but one thing I don't get:  So many guys in their reviews are into DATY.  Geez - this is so wrong on so many levels!"


I'm not new to the woman experience..I couldn't imagine putting my Dick in something I didn't like licking  first..
The truth will set you Free


 

"Posted by little phil..I'd like to get the OP's thoughts on Trannys..."


Forget Lacinta ..She's rough and a serious 11 am shadow..

My Moto is....."No Muff To Tuff"!.....are you kidding me dude!....You don't know what your missing by not going down on one of these beautiful ladies.....The way the ladies make it sound.....you won't be!.....Maybe unless you apologize!....I could go for a little MUFF right now...it would taste good with my morning coffee!
                                     Yummy!

If you think you are making love to an escort, prostitute, provider, hooker or whatever you want to call them then you are delusional. They are doing it for the money and no other reason. I for one like to keep it real.

I enjoy DATY with a person I am involved with, not with a "provider" so your statement is not 100% accurate.

Keep it real?
What do you know about why myself or any other Lady gets into this business?
Believe me, there are a great deal or things we all could be doing, for the money alone. There has to be more of an appeal than just the $$$.
For the most part woman in this biz are very passionate free spirits, along with this $$ comes so many sweet connections. Passion Intimacy and some extremely interesting Gentlemen, who some I would never have had the pleasure of meeting.  They say, who ever "they" are, this business changes you, and I believe they are right. Yet how and to what degree is in question...I feel I have grown and learned so much about myself here. I am different now than before but all in a very good way.
Don't assume for one moment you know what brings any given Lady here, aside from the $$ and the freedom it all entitles you to, there is so much more to this than most of you will ever know.

Have a sweet holiday everyone!!!

Nicole

Why do I get the feeling you are LE, or a MADD Dog type?  Please do us a favor...leave us alone to enjoy the hobby, and take your bullshit elsewhere.  We are aware of the risks involved...the biggest, and most annoying of which, is dealing with judgmental know-it-all's like you...

Crazy Diamond.....my sentiments exactly!....I think he would rather go down on one of us!(yikes)!

Happy holiday weekend to you also Nicole!

This guy has to be a young punk. The feedback I get from some of my Mature lady friends is that they much more enjoy the middle aged to older clients than the younger set. Seems that the young uns are only interested in their own pleasures and don't give a damn for anyone else. We older, more experienced types seem have gotten past that macho, egotistical, BS and find that giving pleasure is just as much fun as recieving it. I for one love DATY as long as it is fresh and clean.

Pay the Price for some realy good "STUFF" and you will want to eat it all day long.

As far as rimming when  I so desire, its a sure bet providers are as clean, or cleaner than civvies.

Oh, honey! I understand why you may have your quams (so to speak) about DATY. We all have some worries in this business. However, if you have been hobbying long enough, you would realize that many providers who are well reviewed and are particular about who they see will be very clean. And, please do not assume that all of us see two to eight men a day. Some of us are low-volume providers.

I would bet that a young, hot woman who parties all the time might have more dick in a week than I do, but I could be wrong.

You have every right not to do DATY if you are uncomfortable with it. Remember, we are not asking for it.

Hugs,
Ciara

Yeah OK. I would write more but I cant stop laughing right now. Maybe later when my chest stops hurting from laughing so hard.

Interesting- in the Civie world I've found that DATY is a bit nasty due to lack of hygene.  Providers appearently take great care to make certain their honey pot is clean.

I'll bet there isn't a civie or provider out there that can't say Dick has been visiting recently; it's really about how the house has been cleaned and maintained, not about when Dick left the building.

...from pleasing others.  I know that sending a man to transcendent heights of ecstacy makes me feel absolutely amazing, so I can imagine that some men may enjoy making me feel good, too.

However, if it makes you uncomfortable, then you are by no means required to do it!  It's all about enjoying another's presence.

Hmmm...where do I start?   How about some food for thought?  I figure there is a bit of residual urine in the penis and this would keep me from sucking a dick. And if you are going to stick it there, it better be squeeky clean! No kissing please!  Is STD an acronym for Stupid Twit Disease? Kiddo, join the chess by mail club with federal inmates club.  It would suit you better.

Of course "providers" make sure their honey pot is clean, they make their living with it.

"Don't assume for one moment you know what brings any given Lady here, aside from the $$ and the freedom it all entitles you to, there is so much more to this than most of you will ever know."

That about says it all.

It seems you've been playing in a pool that was pissed in.  Try another one, maybe you'll be able to open your eyes.

oh yeah, what's that other one called?????....AIDS!!!

Uhm...I am seriously sitting here with my mouth gaping wide open.  THAT is hilarious!!!

Looks like you need a new hobby.  

Of course it's a business transaction, but if someone else is getting more out of it, or even thinking that they are then why do you have to try and ruin it.

Some guys like to "blow and go" some others like more intimacy. why is it so important to you that others don't get anymore out of it than you?

Someone mentioned anger management....I think they hit the bulls eye by suggesting it. Wonder how many toilets he's stuck himself in and what the wifey would say if she found out about just one of them??? Some people just have no respect and even less class.

Ok, the tone of this was a bit off and the comment about STDs is a bit ridiculous, but I have to agree with some part of this post.  I'm also not a fan of DATY, mostly because I don't see the point and I suspect most providers tolerate rather than enjoy it (and, of course, no provider would ever admit that on this board).

You have to be realistic about what you're doing when you hobby.  If you don't have some level of suspension of disbelief coupled with a willingness to ignore the obvious, then you might have some trouble with this hobby.

A woman who does this successfully fucks lots of men, sucks lots of cocks and most likely takes a lot of cum in her mouth (given how common and popular BBBJ and CIM are these days).

I'd be more freaked out about DFK or kissing in general, frankly, if you're going to get upset about this sort of thing.

Give me a smelly babysitter,anyday!....i would just have to lick her clean!(lol).

because you have never had a business session turn into a love making session & with your attitude, probably never will. But it has happened to some of us & if you read some of the provider blogs it's real.

I can get myself off anytime - but to give pleasure to a beautiful woman. I'd pay good money to do that - Oh, I do! lol

Amen, Butterflydust!

I can’t see any delusion by gregory12.  The phase “making love” just refers to have sexual intercourse in which DATY is just one element. Unless one is confusing sex with true love theirs is no delusion. Yes, SOME ladies are doing just for the money and I see nothing wrong with that! Other ladies have other reason some are very noble and altruistic in addition to the money.  They are the Holy Grail in this hobby.