It's beyond bad taste though...not good pillow talk.
Steph XOAfter FOSTA-SESTA, like everybody else I became more active on twitter to see providers schedule and I noticed a lot of "Do as I say, not as I do" tweets.
- Saw former very active TER provider and now she is very ANTI-TER. She hated her reviews on TER because they degraded her, but she had many pictures on her twitter that displayed her with facials. How is client writing "I cummed on her face" anymore degrading than a facial picture? This provider removed these pictures after all the providers got paranoid that twitter might shut their accounts.
- High-end provider tweeted that she hated potential clients asking about her "MENU" and somebody commented on her tweet about how she had a page on her website called "MENU"
- Saw bunch of providers tweet that they hated clients asking "are you available today" and they never did same day appointments, but these same providers later tweeted saying "Last day in the [insert city] get in touch fast before I leave".
- Providers tweet about being "HIGH-END" and they only deal with "Classy GENTELMAN" in both worlds. Saw a "HIGH-END" provider tweet about how she hooked up with a random guy at a bar and the guy kicked her out of the apartment without even calling an UBER. One provider said she was "giggly and blushing" because a father and son sent her a $10 drink at a bar trying to tag team her, but she was horrible at flirting back. How are you "HIGH-END" when you are open to 3some with a random father and son that bought you a $10 drink?
- Saw interaction between "HIGH-END" girls and their only "HIGH-END CLIENTS" on the comments for tweets. Some of the clients are anything and everything, but they are not "HIGH-END". Saw a client that had XXX pictures and also posted pictures with family couple of tweets later. Saw a client that only posted dick pics or tough guy pics and still trying to figure out how this client is "HIGH-END".
Any of you guys passed on a provider because of what you saw or read on social media?
On a lady that had pictures of jizz on her face. A client that would post these types of pictures would be anything but " high end" in my opinion. I wouldn't think it was the lady's fault, but the image would stick. Many others may not feel that way.
I don't care what happens between a lady and her other clients. And I don't care to hear about not see the details of those interactions.
I think that some providers define " high end" as meaning deep pockets, rather than having class, dignity, taste, and concern for the lady. I steer clear of following the social media of these ladies. Just in seeing some of the posts on here by ladies, I have been turned off by their attitudes towards clients, and even men in general. But, you know...I can't really fault a lady for having a general dislike for men when they have had to endure meeting the type of men that would post degrading pictures of her anywhere on the internet. Unfortunately, there are some really bad examples of the human race...from both genders.
She actually posted the picture on her own twitter account herself. Obviously the client took the picture with her phone, but it was her that posted the picture on her twitter feed.
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And she considers herself "high end"?
I couldn't see posting pics of her coated in jizz being considered a positive marketing strategy. Except for the most deviant of clientele...
Yes, there are plenty of contradictions on twitter, however, I just either mute these or unfollow them. That way I can focus on the many wonderful ladies who keep it 100 percent real. 
Your clit got wood? I don't have one, but I also got the wood. LOL
It can mean anything a person wants it to mean.
I don't do much SM, but I have definitely put some gals on my DNS list on account of their posts here on TER that lead me to believe that we would not be a good fit.
For the record, I love to do COF, and love to see photos of same. (Though it's not a deal breaker if you don't.)
I know lots of guys like to do it. Just didn't think many would find the site of another guys jizz splashed across a woman's face appealing. But, I guess I stand corrected as to such pictures being a good marketing ploy.
to COF. If I posted a picture of my face looking like a glazed donut after an extended DATY, would that turn HER on? I doubt it.
A couple of the ladies that I enjoy, make a big deal of licking their juices off my face right as I come up for air. It's freaking exciting as anything.
But, I'm not so sure about a photo being a turn on for them.
Some women get turned on by visual stimuli and some only by the action.
It's like anything to do with sexual matters , the only rule is that there are no rules.
do the face-licking after DATY too, but that's fresh and in the moment. I was wondering if just seeing a photo of it would be a turn-on for them or not. Not a photo of the licking, just the guy with a crusty face covered in pussy juice.
With the possible exception of a picture of you "making it rain" with hundred dollar bills of course.
59-1/2 now, but I'm not starting the countdown until 100 days left. I'm thinking a proper celebration would be a 60/40/20 sportsman's double (mother/daughter). What do you think?
I would rather do 20 year old triplets, or maybe an 19/20/21 year old trio.
I don't want to celebrate being old by fucking an "old woman" of 40 years old. lol
a 40-yeear-old Asian woman usually looks about 30, but with the SKILLS that go with 40. Its the best of both worlds.
But the 19/20/21 triple sounds interesting, since that also adds up to YOUR age. You should practice being ambidextrous before you go. You need to be a good multi-tasker, because its likely your tongue, dick and hands will all be doing something independent of each other. Lol
I can't say that about a foursome. There is only so much "me" to go around. lol and if the girls aren't into each other someone is going to be left out of the fun.
I've only done one foursome in my life, one lesbian, one bi-curious (my GF at the time) and one pro, (to keep me entertained while my GF was busy with our lesbian friend) It was kind of like a MFMF, but with only one dick in the bed. (mine) lol
I did entertain the thought of doing an 18-18-18/54 foursome on my 54 th birthday, but I ended up in Vegas where the logistics didn't really work out instead in Costa Rica where it would have been much easier to arrange. Who knows, maybe I will try an 19-20-21 trio on my sixtieth birthday which is a lot closer than I care to admit, but like you is still quite a bit over 100 days away.
You guys sure do know how to celebrate.
you'll realize that half the fun is pushing the envelope once in awhile, because the "been there, done that" list keeps getting longer and longer. Lol
I'll only be 58 in about 13 days. And I'm going to celebrate by playing with a 34 year old, a 57, a 44,a 47,a 49 year old and a 47 year old that week, before I go to Australia.
I guess when I'm old like you guys, i might want to start playing with younguns.
my real life GF since January is 47. But for my regular hobbying, I'm happy to go as low as 30. I have a steady supply of 30yo's because GaG sends over the girls who have gotten TOO OLD for him. When the first number in their age is a 3, he loses interest, although sometimes when the 2 is followed by a 3, that's too old as well. It depends on whether he's been drinking the good tequila or the cheap stuff. Lol
Drink cheap tequila that is. lol
As for 20 somethings being too old for me, I will confess I've seen a lot of chicas who were most definitely burnt out and "too old" well before their 30th birthday. Back in the day the Del Rey for example there were basically three "shifts" of putas working there, morning/daytime chicas, afternoon/evening chicas and nighttime chicas. For most of the morning/daytime and even the afternoon/evening chicas it was just a job, they'd go to the Del Rey for a few hours each day, make their money and then go home to their families, but the late night chicas were a completely different breed of ho, they were usually the party animals and that lifestyle will age anyone quickly.
I remember meeting some of these chicas when they were fresh faced young women in their late teens, bright eyed, full of life and eager to play. Fast forward three or four years and these women who were chronologically still young would be barely recognizable, I honestly believe being a "late night ho" makes these girls age at a rate about five times as fast as normal.
Now where it comes to K-Girls, it's rare to see K-Girl who "looks" old until well into her forties. Part of it is genetic I am sure, part of it is the fact that most of these girls take pretty good care of themselves and the ones that do burn the candle at both ends usually blow out and are gone well before we ever get a chance to see them at their worst.
I still like the experience and skills I get from girls over 30. As for Latina girls, I had a long-term FWB arrangement during my first five years as a single "fucker" (I know you abhor the term, "hobbyist" - lol) with a Latina girl (a former secretary at my office who had left BEFORE we started screwing) who was absolutely gorgeous in her 20's, but as soon as she crossed the bridge to her 30's, she started to look 40. I think that's why I'm partial to Asian women. They don't go "sour" until, as you point out, "well into their 40's." As for the tequila crack, it was a "cheap" joke, but maybe somebody smiled when they read it. I wouldn't doubt it if your tequila standards were higher than your hooker standards. Lol
I am no more likely to drink a shot of "Jose Cuervo" than I am to fuck a $80 BP ho, but OTOH, I am also about as likely to buy a bottle of Clase Azul Extra Anejo at $1,700 as I am to pay a hooker $1,000 to fuck me.
Hookers in the $3-500 range are just fine with me as are tequilas in the $50-100 range. That is my "sweet spot" TYVM. lol
As for Latinas, I have seen some that age well into their thirties, but I will concede the percentages of Asian women still "fuckable" well into their forties are probably several times higher than chicas.
Well, gentlemen I just celebrated my 59th with my ATF in Vancouver and she brought along two other providers. It was a blast. It was a night of entertainment a ladies trio girls group the harmony was wonderful. It was great they had no idea that my trio was made up of providers.
I was then treated to one of the ladies stripping for me, then the three of them in bed with me. I ended the night with my ATF spending the night.
For me, I like women in their late 30's or 40's. 20 somethings can play roles but I do not see myself taking them for dinner or traveling with them unless they play my personal assistants or interns. I have had a few play my daughter.
To each his own but I prefer tall blondes or redheads of Northern European ancestry.
We are the same age and I don't mind at all "dating" or appearing to date women in their twenties. I am sure at some point I am going to start looking out of place with the younger women, but I'll deal with that when it happens. I will admit I have finally accepted the fact that when I am out with an 18 year old, I am sure we don't exactly look like a couple. lol
As for race and hair color, I tend to be a lot more biased about age and weight than race, height, or hair color
Wonderful GaGambler,
I am big into fantasy and dream fulfilling experiences and I find it hard with younger ladies as I like us to look like a couple. I find that they have a hard time staying in character. So as I got older I gravitate to more mature providers. Most of my present providers in Europe and North America are in their late 30's to late 40's. That is what works for me.
If you get a chance, pickup a bottle of Fortaleza Blanco or Gran Dovejo Blanco High Proof (it's 98 proof). I'd put them about on-par with the best of the blancos I've had, but they're right around 60-70 bucks for a 750ml, which is a good sweet spot for a "this is not a time to be fancy" tequila.
I agree with you and CDL, though, being ~30 myself, I tend to see younger women. I've found if they can at least drink they're probably good-to-go, but if they're about my age they either really know what they're doing in bed, or they're fantastically boring and unwilling to take advice. In my experience, a 21 year old is almost always willing to take instructions to heart, and it doesn't get more "fuckable" than that.
but there is one other kind of woman in that age group that I have found quite a few times in the Sugar Bowl lately, and that is women in their late twenties/early thirties who have been trapped in bad relationships. I have never encountered such "hunger" than from women who have been sexually active for over a decade, but who haven't been properly fucked for almost all of that time.
There is nothing more gratifying than having some women still in her twenties who has a decade of sexual frustration that she needs to take out on "somebody" you have to be very careful when giving DATY to these women as they will buck so hard as to fatten your lip. lol.
bucking by women who have been sexually repressed and are experiencing major O's for the first time. I've had several instances where a girl bucked so hard it impaled my upper lip onto one of my front teeth. The day at work, I have had employees ask me if I joined "fight club." However, so far, knock on wood, no teeth have been loosened or knocked out. Lol
FYI, 90 or 100 proof spirits will dull the pain and prevent infection while it heals (If you drink enough). Lol
So much variation about what is classy, sexy, appropriate or inappropriate.
What I enjoy, you may not.
I stick with the ones that are fun for me. I have a very open and broad definition for myself. You may have a very narrow one.
As to the hookers who participated in the review business, but claim that they didn't like it. It's a shame that they needed to be involved to make a living. It's all marketing decisions made for their sex work business. I'm glad that they have had the choice taken away from them.
I will say that the smartest, most successful women that i know, seem to not broach topics like that in public forums.
Have fun.
How many advertise...low volume....and you know they probably see as many guys as they can...can't blame them.. its about the dollars...but still a turn off when you feel something under you in bed and its a vibrator left over from the last session...lol..
I saw a woman who told me she was UTR... low volume...she told me she had 7 appointments that day..
For me, I HAVE to be. I do agree that some use it when it's not true thou. And I can't imagine a lady telling you how many other men they had "done" before you that day would be a good thing...but that's just me!
Steph XO
It's not "Just you", I can't imagine a lady telling him she had "done" seven guys that day either.
Even as a paying customer I don't like to tell providers how many women I have already "done" in any particular day. I remember one night in Las Vegas several years ago I was having a hard time "finishing" with a young woman despite her best efforts to get me over the finish line. After about 45 minutes she flat out asked me if I had been with anyone else that day and like a dummy I told her the truth that I had seen four other women before her that day. The words were barely out of my mouth before she was out of my bed. I would have objected, but I was really too tired to put up much of a fuss. lol
It's beyond bad taste though...not good pillow talk.
Steph XO
the important thing is that she makes you feel like your her one and only when you are with her.
Back in April ladies were posting more tame pics and tweets, along with some changing what they call themselves. Using less "escort like" terms out of fear of being kicked off Twitter. While there were some kicked off for various things, not all FOSTA/SESTA related, I'm seeing boobs and more P-shots and of course the dick in your mouth type pics again.
Still laffing at those who did their mass unfollowing of anyone not conforming to THEIR way of doing things and wide spread hysteria some people spread. Of course it was smart to make some changes but OMG some really took things too far.
So here we are at the end of June and ladies in the biz are still on Twitter. I never went the Switter route because after things leveled off Twitter it still going strong IMO. And I never saw it necessary to start calling myself something like a "Happy Mood Consultant" or some such name. I had some unfollow me because they thought "dinner companion" sounded too escort like, LOL. Umkay bye.
Steph XO 
I had it with negative hits on social media. Just like on a number of boards. I want to talk to the people I want to talk to not ones who want to judge what I do and how I do it!
I like high-end ladies. Yet I have hired ladies who are anything but high end. However, I do love hiring a fashion stylist to take her shopping to get her the clothes to take her to the next level. Then hire a hair stylist and makeup artist to bring out her inner beauty. Then hire a photographer to take high-end photos of her. Getting her in the mindset of being high end. Nothing better to look at over a nice dinner and see how others now view her.
Now it does not always work. Some ladies inner damage is beyond my capabilities but when it works and you see them beam it is pure magic! I have learned that classy is relative. Each man's idea of classy or high end is like seeing beauty in a provider. Just MHO