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I would like to see Nick go medieval on me.. :D

Angel is cute chic.. Hot too..But she gotta slow down when she gets behind the keyboard...

In my short time as a hobbyist. (Less than 5 years)

MANY but not ALL Providers near the age of 40 that have been doing this a while no longer
enjoy it nor do they appreciate hobbyist. They have turned into the "Walking Dead"

They are mean and very opinionated.

I have no problems with opinions but why so mean and disrespectful to hobbyists?

Your thoughts if any

hotplants1099 reads

In my long time as a human (considerably more than 5 yrs), MANY but not ALL hobbyist, near any age, that have been doing this a while no longer enjoy it nor do they appreciate they are actually fucking other humans. They have turned into the "Walking Dead"  
 
They are mean and very opinionated.  
 
I have no problems with opinions but why so mean and disrespectful to providers?  
 
Your thoughts if any?

You say "they have turned into the "Walking Dead.'" But I submit most of them were already that way.  Their disrespect for providers springs from a deep disrespect for women in general.  So they crave sex but feel an overpowering hatred and disgust for the women who provide it to them.
Then there are nice guys, like me, for example.

hotplants948 reads

other than a little wickedly turn-around fuckary with the OP.  

yep. Good guys. Bad guys. Even nice guys out there...or so you tell me.....lol...

Now go talk to curly

At least, that's what you said.  And I always do what you tell me.  Don't I? LOL!  I like you, plants, even though sometimes you think I don't.

hotplants943 reads

I was just hoping someone might give young curly some guidance. He seems to have strayed off the reality path.

with funny makeup and dress.  The caption read:
"We're Polish lesbians.  We like men!"
Sorry to all you Polish folks out there, but it's funny.  And my great grandfather came from Poland.

Crisis251062 reads

People will get burned out doing anything for too long. I've been the walking dead for a long time now.

and we have no tolerance.  Many of us in our 40's are not desperate for money and we don't have to see everyone who contacts us.  We enjoy the men we CHOOSE to enjoy.  You are not one of those men in Boston or anywhere, WAAAAAA you big baby.

BTW, I realize I am responding to a recognized LAME ass idiot.

are top notch; they make me feel like a king for the time I spend with them.

Maybe you need to re-evaluate your search methods?

I sometimes end up seeing a 40-45 yr old hags and quickly go back to fucking 25-30 yr old...

I totally hear you on this one..  The thing is for many of them, life didn't turn out to be a fairy tale, and they were not swept off their feet by Prince Charming  riding on a white horse...

They are just going through the motions of sucking cock and not really working towards anything more meaningful, and are too lazy or stupid or somethings both to have a real job.. Bless their heart as they say somewhere in south, but you don't have to see them..

Go find yourself a Pretty Young Thing...

We don't really listen to you.  We realize the HUGE smiley face you usually put on your posts is just like the big tires men put on trucks.  Totally compensating for lack of dick.

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
I sometimes end up seeing a 40-45 yr old hags and quickly go back to fucking 25-30 yr old...  
   
 I totally hear you on this one..  The thing is for many of them, life didn't turn out to be a fairy tale, and they were not swept off their feet by Prince Charming  riding on a white horse...  
   
 They are just going through the motions of sucking cock and not really working towards anything more meaningful, and are too lazy or stupid or somethings both to have a real job.. Bless their heart as they say somewhere in south, but you don't have to see them..  
   
 Go find yourself a Pretty Young Thing...

Nope.  Never lied about my age.  Got the 8.92 average rating so if I am really 54 instead of my stated 44 then that is truly remarkable.  Keep on with the compensating smiley face.  Whatever works.

Good edge to be on.  Just dislike you so will always reply to any stupid shit you post.  Gives you a chance to put up a BIG, JUICY smiley face so you can feel like you have a real dick.

hotplants945 reads

Have you 'ended up' having your dick sucked by every women over 30?  

That would be how you know every one is "just going through the motions of sucking cock and not really working towards anything more meaningful, and are too lazy or stupid or somethings both to have a real job"  

right?

That has got_to_suck. Bless yer heart.

I guess if you look like this, you don't want any reviews or website attached to your moniker..

Gimme some!  If that's plants, honey, please PM me!

hotplants1082 reads

I am your mother. I am your sister. I am your girlfriend. I am your colleague. I'm your next door neighbor. Your teacher, your doctor, your accountant, your insurance agent, your boss.......

Just because I am also a sex worker (or, because you assume I am) does not make talking down to me "OK". Or you, any more of a man.  

Grow a pair and grow up

My problem is not with those who are legit sex workers.. Heck.. That would be hypocritical, as I have been frequenting them for good 10+ yrs.. My problem is with those who are jaded and have become man haters and then those like you, who tell he whole world that they are hookers but have nothing to show for it.. No Reviews, No Website and  No One to vouch for you.

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hotplants828 reads

No, really? Tell me.  

You have no problem with 'legit' sex workers? Hypocritical back-peddling, indeed.

".... The thing is for many of them, life didn't turn out to be a fairy tale, and they were not swept off their feet by Prince Charming  riding on a white horse...  
 
They are just going through the motions of sucking cock and not really working towards anything more meaningful, and are too lazy or stupid or somethings both to have a real job.. Bless their heart as they say somewhere in south, but you don't have to see them.."

You lumped every single provider over 25 into a pathetic loser bucket. Would me having reviews and a website make this, somehow, less obnoxious

hotplants860 reads

Curly, I have gone out of my way many, many times, to be very clear about who I am.

But, what the hell does that have to do with anything? Even if I WAS a hooker, my responses to you would have been the same.

some obtuse way in circa 1515?  Good fuckin' lord..  No I assumed you were a hooker. I think that's a fair assumption for 99% of females on this board, no? Sue me... :D

hotplants948 reads

But again, so what?

If you wanna categorize every single provider over 30 as a hag. Fine. I think it's an asshole thing to say, and I called you on it.  

But if you really believe that, then fucking own it. Stop back-peddling, and stop trying to make this about whether I am, or am not, a hooker.

Secondly, my observation has been that most of the gals that I have observed were jaded hags have been the ones over 40.. Just the attitude they bring to the boards is the one that would want me to throw up and stay in the bathroom throwing up....

So tell me if you are not a hooker.. What are you? A brothel owner, an agency owner.

Hotplants has been on the boards as long as you and has never once claimed to be a hooker! She has numerous times said exactly who she is! What fucking rock have you been under? She is a lesbian hobbyist. Geez I could see some newbie poster having your silly argument with her, but as much time as you spend on this board how the fuck do you not know this

If she would have provided a damn link that would have settled the matter then and there.  

But if you say so, I do trust you.

That said, ps is right.  I don't recall when she made that clear and Curly clearly can't be required to have studied up on every poster.  But I've been aware for a long time (and I think she's posted about it herself) that plants is a lesbian hobbyist.  While she and I have "crossed swords" (LOL!) on occasion, personally I have no problem with her lifestyle and like the idea of having a lesbian perspective on the board.

hotplants829 reads

Whew....glad we got that irrelevant matter settled. Again....lol...

I don't mind fellow lesbian hobbyists at all.. You could have said that you were Jane, and we could have never had the argument.. (That's John's counterpart..) A while back we had Saturnsky who claimed to be a fellow hooker but had nothing to show for and even after asking her a dozen of times she didn't want to give her site or any more info..That's fine by me if you want to remain private, but don't force me to believe that you are a legit hooker. I thought you were just like her..

hotplants833 reads

I AM just like SS. SS was a poster on this board, who happened to be a provider. I am a poster on this board who is not. In that sense, neither of us are any different than you.  

I didn't force you to believe anything. Truth is: I don't owe you an explanation; although I have provided clarification about myself many times. Part of that is to lower the odds of this very kind of predictable silliness in which some guy goes out of his way to be a dick because he 'thinks' I'm a provider with the audacity not to share my website or reviews.  And, then realizes I'm not.  

Why this seems to bring out the worst in some of you guys is beyond me.  

But, you are not "owed" access to any providers information. If a provider chooses to participate on this board, without her provider persona, that is not an open invitation to go on the attack. Honestly, I wish more providers would do that---'cause some of you guys could really use a more regular reality check.  

If the only reason you were being such an ass is because you thought I was a 'hooker', you should be apologizing to hookers, not me

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There are a few exceptional ladies over 40-45 who look or at least work very hard to look 10-15 years younger with great
slim bellies.

excuse me but some of us 40 year old hags are not stupid and lazy and have a real job as well.  i happen to be a paralegal full time during the day.

And you know god damn it that you are one of the most favorite posters of the entire TER..

They are sobbing like you died or something when you don't post here...

You are anything but jaded

He said it was only the 40 somethings that were mean and opinionated...I will be 32 soon, and got them all beat in that department.

If you know it you have yet to push it. Does it involve Rasha?

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I would like to see Nick go medieval on me.. :D

Angel is cute chic.. Hot too..But she gotta slow down when she gets behind the keyboard...

Second, the only one I jump on when he posts under angel is The Dungbeetle.  And I also jump on him the rest of the time, too.  So go ahead and try pushing that button any time, you bitch! LOL!

-- Modified on 11/9/2013 3:41:39 PM

None of them were jaded, nasty or dialing it in.  It's called doing your homework, rarely TOFTTing and using back channel.  In fact, I recall  the OP PMing me about a girl I'd seen and I gave him my best opinion even though he's grammatically challenged. I figured, "well, at least he uses a real handle and has some reviews, why not?" I think he had a good time.  And she was only 19, which I guess proves his point.
Talk about "truth in advertising," she used to use the tag line, "tall, tattoed teen." And she stopped using it when she turned twenty.  What a good, honest, sexy kid.

diligence in selecting who to see, I have had many great experiences with all age ranges. Some of the young 20 somethings lack some of the social skills (not bedroom skills) to converse in a meaningful manner with older gents. However, I have found some young gals that are very intelligent and have good worldly knowledge.

MILF's, for me 35+, are not only experienced between the sheets but know how to completely please a man. These ladies I consider as true courtesans.

When I started hobbying, I was only 22 yrs old. I'm 33 now..  

And although, my tastes in music, media, sports and politics have evolved, I don't find it hard to relate to the younger crowd...

It's true, nice people always finish last.  I wouldn't have half the problems I have if I learned how to say no and not feel guilty about it.

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I guess I'm your male counterpart. Way too nice.

If you like I can have my ex give you lessons. ;)

Come to Florida for a week lol. I can work miracles. :)

Take a good look.  

Mean? Find a provider post (link please) that specifically insults hobbyists over 40 (or, find any other specific group singled out).  

Disrespectful?  Try "Your thoughts, IF ANY?"

Opinionated? I guess the "Walking Dead" can't really care.

Look hard in that glass.  

Respect and kindness are earned, and I shit you not, your post ain't cutting it. Maybe try "owning" the quality of your interactions rather than leaving it to a provider alone, just so you can blame them when it isn't what you want.  

Getting some opinions and meanness? Disrespect? Look in the mirror. What goes around, comes around.

Did not take that long to find. LOL

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Good edge to be on.  Just dislike you so will always reply to any stupid shit you post.  Gives you a chance to put up a BIG, JUICY smiley face so you can feel like you have a real dick.  

Like

but short drunk version

We are opinionated and mean cause you fucking deserve it.

Come one dude, you are paying us to get your dick sucked.  You want us to respect and like you as well?  Afraid its gonna be extra.

The ladies I have seen nearvand over 40 have been very pleasant to be with and very good in bed.

Don’t book them. A sure fire solution.

Because you're obviously way too consumed with writing stupid shit...like this...

You're too young to understand ....anything.
Let alone to find a provider who enjoys sex, period.

Did you ever think you're the reason they behave that way around you.

You're so brilliant you just alerted all the ladies to your problem..

I am not disputing your findings at all.  However, I've found the exact opposite; most of the ones I've seen who are approaching 40 or beyond seem to enjoy it the most. So I agree with the other person who suggested it's due to your search criteria.  Whatever it is that you're doing differently than I am is giving you less than satisfactory results, whereas I am having a fantastic time!

I think the main reason they would be that at they have had a more then a few bad experiences and it has left a bad taste in there mouth it does not make it right to act in that manner to the rest of the gentlemen  because at the end of the day we are providing a unforgettable experience for you to remember ....... So please don't hold it against them all you can do is be a gentleman and treat them the best that you can so that the two of you can have a amazing connection while spending time together as for the individuals that want to act in a manner that causes them to not be comfortable well you will be treated how you treat your provider .... At the end of the day its all about respect you will always get more with honey than You will vinegar that goes for both hobbyist and provider    
Xoxo kayden love

Since you always wonder ,  

I am wondering are you talking about being mean and very opinionated
in person or on the boards ?
but either way ,  

Your statement is like saying -  "Many , but not ALL providers are on drugs"

What does age have to do with anything ??.  
I have been very opinionated since I was 8 years old.

At the age of 8 I told my parents they should get divorced .  
What 8 year old says something like that ??? but I had an opinion and I was never afraid to speak my mind.

Mean people come in all shapes , sizes and AGES.
Regardless my age , I was never a mean person BUT I will treat people the way they treat me.
So if someone needs to be put in their place , I may  (  actually most likely  ;) come across mean while doing so ......also something I have been doing since I was 8 years old .

Like if someone uses the phrase  ( I know not you ) - "40 year old hag" ........
do you think that is respectful ?
that person is being mean , maybe he deserves the meanness and disrespect that he gets .
Not to worry , no nerve hit here .......Even when I was 20 years old I felt that such a statement was disrespectful,......because it is , regardless ones age.

   
or saying that someone that has been doing this for awhile no longer enjoys it nor do they appreciate hobbyist  
Seriously ?? I know plenty of  "younger ladies" or ladies who have been doing this for a short time  who do not enjoy what they are doing and don't appreciate hobbyist and even think that their  
Sh*t don't stink .  

Age has nothing to do with it ........ didn't I read on some other thread about a young lady who thinks about her nails while getting nailed ;-) ;-) ;-) Is she 40's ???
Geez , talk about not really being in the moment with the hobbyist and just going through the motions .

SEE- what does age have to do with it ?  
Maybe if hobbyist would do better homework and be less judgmental , they will end up having way more fun ,  be respected and appreciated.

Treat people the way you want to be treated.
Respect isn't a given , it is to be earned.  

I don't post much here , as I don't always have the time .and also because usually London Rayne posts my thoughts exactly  ( girl I think you were my twin sister in another life LOL LOL  ;)  
but I skim this board from time to time .
mostly to get a good chuckle and to see if anything worth while knowing .

So do you mean - providers are mean because a provider asked if you have 1000 questions that you have folded up in to a hat and you pick one a day?  

No disrespect to you , but I fell off my ass laughing . That post sure brightened up my day.
and makes me smile every time I think of it . Because it was a funny , witty come back .
That doesn't make the lady a mean person . It makes her funny and witty .

Because lets be honest , some of your posts ( not all )  are just like ....... wow where are these  
questions and thoughts coming from ??  
You have 30 plus reviews and still asks stuff like some newbie ......... sometimes makes one just wonder ...... things that make you go hmmmmm  

Everyone knows that is how discussion boards are .  
No matter what type of board it is ( hooker board or not )  
When one posts , they open themselves to other people's criticism or support.  
and yes there is a very fine line between just being honest ,telling it like it is or straight up being an Ass . or being flat out mean .
If one can't handle the heat , they should get out of the kitchen ;-)  

but at the end of the day , sorry age has nothing to do with it .
Well you asked for our thoughts ,
and you got it !!  

xoxo CindySpice  
   

 

Posted By: escalade1964
In my short time as a hobbyist. (Less than 5 years)  
   
 MANY but not ALL Providers near the age of 40 that have been doing this a while no longer  
 enjoy it nor do they appreciate hobbyist. They have turned into the "Walking Dead"  
   
 They are mean and very opinionated.  
   
 I have no problems with opinions but why so mean and disrespectful to hobbyists?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?  
   
 

actually none of them like it unless they have some mental issues..all they like is the easy money

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