I think it would be great to also have the ladies talk a bit about various kinds of orgasms we experience. This will, I'm sure, also be very informative to the gentlmen, letting them know a little more about the female's complex orgasmic experiences, and maybe how to bring us to the various types that we can experience.
I am facinated everytime I orgasm, finding Im sometimes in control of them, sometimes I have no control, but also it's so interesting how each time can be a little different then another.
Various kinds I've personally experienced are: Little bucking orgasms; shaking or shivering; very emotional ones where I cry; I have a kind that makes me very happy and I LAUGH!; there is a spiritual kind, where I feel a white light fill my head, starting from my toes, and a wave of light runs up thru my chakras, and explodes in a brilliant white light in my head; Sometimes I "squirt" out; there are also the forced ones, when a man is rubbing the clit really hard or fingering really hard, and the body has no choice but to cum; some have drained all my energy out of me, and yet some have given me an amazing burst of energy!
Ladies, Thankyou for sharing your intimate moments here, and Im sure it will really inform alot of both genlemen and other ladies.
Thankyou for sharing, Flora

...and gentlemen, you may take this as a personal challenge, and hopefully not an insult, but I primarily, something close to 95% of the time am only brought to orgasm with clitoral stimulation. I have a pretty big clit, and it seems that most of my nerve endings reside in it, I am guessing! And my gods, do they make me laugh! I usually shake a little, if done right, but regardless I laugh... each time... I cant help it, it tickles something awful!

There has been a few times where I am able to come to completion whilst on top, but usually that takes a while, and a certain positioning when up there. And even less than that is the completely vaginal one... not that many havent tried, and done a very good job with itm in fact! It just doesnt often happen... I can count on both hands, how many times, in my entire life that has happened! AND, I have been working since I was 18! So, go figure, huh?

Dani

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A very different feeling each time.

My list or "orgasm" points include:

1. Vaginal Penetration orgasms, or, for those who have watched the new Ben Stiller movie, the "cock me" orgasm.

2. G-Spot orgasm. This is pretty self explanatory. When you're fingering me just right on that sweet spot.

3. Clitoral orgasm. This is the easiest for me to achieve orgasm from but not necessarily my favorite.

4. Anal orgasm. Especially good when you're with someone who has some experience with it. Very intense.

5. Sensory Orgasm. This is achieved with either tantric sex, touching my external sweet spots in such a way that it just makes me gush (usually only achieved with someone I have been intimate with for some time).

There are, of course, various combinations of those but those are MY basic 5 ways to orgasm and I honestly do not know how I could ever describe how they make me feel. Kind of akin to being able to go to a shoe store and get every single pair I try on all at the same time. Simply Out of this World.


~Alyssa

Im glad someone finally started a topic on this...because I thought I was the only one who has "levels" of "O's"..lol

I have ones where they are mild enough yet still enjoyable to where I can keep on without missing a beat.

I have big ones where I need a breather in between to let that little "button" get back to normal so I can focus on the gentleman and his needs.

Then, I have the big kahona!  Once I get to that one....if you havent got yours, you are SOL...lol  Once I peak, at the highest point of the peak, once the 1st downward heart beat, I literally have no desire what so ever to have anything sexual near me...dont breath on me, get off me, Im ready to clean house, what ever....if you want me to help you achieve yours...too bad so sad...aint happnin!  I give every warning in the world it's about to happen and hopefully they pay attention because when I hit, Im done.

Ive gotten a little miffed at a few people who KNOW how I am and they let me get there and act like ..what about me"...uhm, if youve been with me when I peak those...then you KNOW and then tell me they knew that, but "it felt so good, I didnt want to stop.  Well, guess what......stop.  

Im worse than a guy after those...Im ready for n'nite..almost imediately and could care less what your doing over there...lol

How tacky is THAT  lol  I cant help it...that's just me.

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I'll do anything for Louis Vuitton shoes and I'm a squirter.

You know me and my BFF were talking about the "Big O" 2 days ago!...I had just went shoe shopping and I told her the rush that I get from a pair of Christian Louboutins is just as intense as an orgasm!

But there are definitely 5 ways to orgasm... The easiest to achieve is the clitoral orgasm I believe. I had a client who had this old back massager and when he put it on my clit...within 30 seconds I was screaming like a banchee! I did it 4 times...On the fourth my pussy went extra wild and squirted for like the 3rd time in my life! To this day I haven't had  another climax like that...I've actually been looking at the Sharper Image site ISO of back massager with a strong vibration similar to it!
Vaginal varies from woman to woman and by position. I can obtain a vaginal orgasm by doing cow girl...but my partner has to talk to me really dirty!

The "Big O" is still a mystery to me. Call me a young blood or whatever but I did google it and found an interesting article. Link is below...

Apparently, I've been going about this wrong all along.  Instead of spending $300 x 2 hours + Wine + Hotel Room = ~$850 ...

... I should have just bought her a few pairs of shoes.  Then I wouldn't have to hobby.

But I would have to add a new closet on the house.

shall I leave them on?

I used to have a lady friend that orgasmed while giving me a BJ.  Due to it have our meetings in a small car and being fully clothed there was no way I could reach around and stimulate her clit or vagina. She is the only women that I ever met that orgasmed during a BJ.

Thanks Sophie. Now, that seems to explain what I experienced with my ex-wife. She would literally throw me off and that was that. Never said it was because she O'd. She never could talk much about what she was experiencing. I just assumed it had to do with some possible sexual trauma in the past. BTW, we didn't get divorced because of the sex.

I have little orgasms while I give a good BJ. I like starting out a session with a good BJ because it gets me soooooooooooo wet. Normally though I don't find too many who last long enough for me to really get wet it's always on round 2.

I've discovered a unique type of orgasm. Im not sure if anyone knows of it or not... I'll name it the "Tactile Orgasm". Basically, I put 200 or more count cotton sheets on the bed, or satin sheets, and make it very tight on the bed, so there are no wrinkles. Making sure there is no lint, or bits of hair, ect. So on my back I feel this lovely soft fabric like a 2nd skin. Then I take another type of fabric, possibly a fur scarve, and once I even had my cat sitting on the bed and I pet him while I was "being dealt with". I had 2 or 3 different textures that are pleasing and soft to feel. Then as Im "being dealt with missionarily" I wiggle around on all this soft fabric, feeling it under my feet and toes, against my cheek, the palms of my fingers and fingertips. Tho I do missionary, I need a bit of space. So the man doesnt put all weight on me. In this way, I have the most intense orgasm! When it fills me, I have the feeling of total tranquility.  And if Im connected emotionally to the lover im with, then I have the most intense lovemaking experience imaginable.
So, go ahead, if you havnt already, and try having a "Tactile Orgasm".