The kind of abusive client that makes a lady scream that she wishes she was hardcore. (the day I do, I quit) I'm no baby, nor am I that naive, but jeez.  All I can say is, Friedrich Nietzsche lives!

Guess I'd better strike first before he decides to write a nasty review, hmmm?   I'm livid, and would usually deal with this another way (blame myself..), but that IS b.s., and I am sick and tired of hurting when this type of thing happens, fortunately these days it's rarely.

Staff How do I let ladies know about this nasty hombre? I am also sending you an email about this, and posting on LA board as well...I vented to a couple of client/friends who said I should speak out and not hold this in as I usually do....

this man caused me a lot of distress. and obviously had an agenda.

is there a ripoff board just for providers here?   can we arrange to do that?  I know that some of the providers have a board, and if I knew about it i probably could have avoided this guy, but there is only so much a girl can do ....I just want to let the other, ladies now about him, his identifying signs, regardless if he changes his name, you will know who he is






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Dearest Felicia, it is so unfortunate that a wonderful treasure like yourself has to through such ugliness.  If you would welcome a little brightness in your day, please let me know.

Hmm, what to do.  I've seen a few providers who can combat such nastiness by keeping a menacing-looking pet around.  The fear of being mauled on by a rotweiler or a bull mastif can weigh alot in a man's mind, Nietsche include.  Now, if you could only feed Jpeg some hormones and put him on a strignant program of weights and chewy toys...alright, may be jpeg isn't the solution.

You could try what Susie on the SanDiego board did when she was almost raped by a "client."  She described his profile without going into anything personal.  However, that can lead to stereotypes.  A reasonable method is to suggest that TER add on a section where providers rate the reviewers.  It's only fair. Likewise, the person being review has the opportunity to say otherwise.  And don't worry about a negative review.  We believe in your character and talent, and your track record is outstanding, bordering on perfection.

I am sorry to hear you had a bad date. I wish WE could do something to help you get that deap rooted revenge that we all wish we could unleash on those terrible people in the world without conscience. But being as civilized as WE are, we may ting it, but rarely ever act upon those thoughts. I prefer to believe that what comes around definately goes around, and that by doing nothing bad to him, you will still get your revenge at the hand of G-d. Karma is real, and just watch. In time you'll know. In the meantime, try this site: http://badclientlist.com/menu.html They allow you to post bad news about him for all those needing to know. I hope you are ok, and that you use some Tantric Healing to rid yourxself of thaty negative imprint, before it stains your good natuire, character, and being. Sincerely wishing I could help. DateAMan eom

thank you... Mr. Hung. and do you really need an invitation;->  

unfortunately my building managers have decided all doggies out!!!  Hence no jpeg. where I do incall.  Then there are  some clients who are not dog people (check reviews), so I had already decided to accommodate.  Clients, contrary to jpeg's understanding, do NOT come here to pay a lot to play ball with him!!!!

heheh.

well I would never betray something like a name on a board as this, which is why I am hunting for the right place to do this....and again, giving myself the time to correct my own perception...

thank you...
Jpeg says arrrrrgh!

Luv thank you. I understand the visceral and primal instinct for revenge, but I have no desire for revenge, although I experienced the gamut of anger, rage, compassion, & empathy rather quickly in this situation.  And always witholding, in order  to assess my perception and any actions that I might regret. (Tantra of emotions?)  some of you may be famliar with my "venting" tho. .  My honest, yet harmless bark.  Learned from Jpeg. Keeps my character "unstained", lol

thanks....I appreciate referral to that board but never to be vengeful.  Yes, bad karma, indeed...another topic of vibrant discussion which has, over and over proved its profundity in my life!

xoxo

ff

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You say you wouldn't betray a name on a board like this, but personally it wouldn't bother me.

I am assuming this was something serious and not just some sort of personality thing where you two didn't click. If this guy is dangerous or really malicious in some way, I wouldn't care if you put the word out here.

Perhaps it would be good if TER set up a board just for providers to communicate. I mean, while it wouldn't bother me if you identified someone to protect other ladies, I really don't have any need to know who it was (not like I will be seeing him) and there is the danger in posting something in public when he knows where you live/work and you know little about him.

Oh well, hope some of this makes sense, and maybe Staff will help with a private board for you guys to share info like this.

I haven't met you, but I am glad you are ok in any case.

Falicia,

There is a new site out that has a place for girls to post about men hurting them.  you will need to contact them and go through a registration to be able to post in the room.

www.SweetInterlude.com

Hope this helps.

Steami

I hope you are doing fine, dear FF. I can't believe anyone would think of hurting you in any way, shape or form. Maybe I'm being inordinately dense, but I didn't get a sense from your post of what kind of threat you faced be it mental, physical or emotional (not that the type matters at all...) but take heart that fr every one of him, there seems to be 5+ that adore you...

wishing you the best,

Shortstuff

I've only hadda coupla bad experiences in my short career (3 years), but those experiences had me gaggin' for awhile!  Sorry you've experienced any mental, pshchological, physical or psychic miseries in any way.  We all love ya!  That doesn't take away the unpleasant encounter... but at least you know you have our vote of confidence and love!  XO Faye Desiree

Would you mind privatley emailing me the details I have already experienced two bad clients this year alone and the first one cost me a lot of money and bad feelings about the business if I could avaiod this one it would go along way to healing some bad feeling I have been harboring.  ANy info would be appreciated.
email is    ( [email protected] )
Thanks be safe
Sasha

Dear Ladies and Gents.

Thank you so much!  I was touched by your kind thoughts, and helpful info (G2 and Steami).  Yes I am fine...I needed yesterday to calm down,  "clear" and get perspective.

And for the ladies who emailed me I will be posting on the two sites that these fine people mentioned within the next day or so.  I am also putting everything into a word document so I can answer the private emails quickly.

I dont believe this scamming "client" is at the point where he will damage anyone, but then again, I can't say what path he is on, or how long it will be if he should revert to a stronger agenda.  It's enough that he spreads a negativity and is abusive in his manners. He should and can be avoided.

What struck me,  He couldnt figure out why i didnt let him run into the hallway half naked after  I caught his scam...i told him sternly and quietly to put on his clothes and leave with dignity...something I believe he rarely experiences. The lok in his eye when he turned the wrong way going down the hall and I softly called out "other way"...told me that he wasn't sure if the machine guns were waiting for him.

Again, as someone said to me once, felicia why don't you post a good experience, I would love to. But I dont want to seem like I am starting some kind of bragging contest.  I also know that other ladies go through the good bad and ugly.   And yes, shortstuff,U r right, and, more than not I experience the better, not the worse.


In fact Basque happens to be one of those gents who is a verrrry lovely experience.  And a womdrful human being, Hi!

Bondbroker, you didn't leave your email addy, but you know mine...

Thank you!

xoxo

FF

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Reear Felicia

Dear Lady,  I too am sorry about your experience.  would you pleae email me privately? I could understand your trepidation for posting...we all need to assess the most enlightened and yet beneficial actions to all involved.

I thank you for your good energy, Liz.  Do count me in your efforts; I am glad you can facilitate this, I will do whatever I can to help.
xoxo

felicia foxx




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