Yes, from years of reading post by needy, clingy, clueless Johns, I have to admit I find your post very believable and a bit sad at the same time.

 
As for "what to do?" the only answer if for you to live your life and either he will figure it out or he won't.  

 
I know we area supposed to be a "community of like minded people" but some guys are so fucking lame I honestly can't believe I have a thing in common with them, much less consider myself "like minded" with them. I suppose you could direct him to the "search reviews" for Atlanta, but if he is THAT clueless, why even bother?

Have a nice trip and don't even concern yourself with guys that needy.

except that I can get ahold of them easily, and we can set up sessions quickly when I do. They have referred me to other girls before, including when they were unavailable. But I'd never demand it. Why would I, when it's so easy to find alternatives on my own?

U always put things into perspective

U always seems to say the things others don't want to say and I love it! Thank u!

Give him the address to a sheep farm and tell him to go there two days after you leave and ask for Bahbara.  When he gets there, it should be a learning moment about how lame his request was, and I bet he figures out how to find a temporary replacement on his own.  A little tough-love is sometimes necessary with clueless johns.  

I don't know if you should tell him that, if you'd like to have his business when you return. That strikes me as a bit bizarre. Doesn't he know about this place? Asking for a referal is one thing, but expecting you to find someone and make contact with her for him? Goofball.

I understand things get in the way at the last minute. I've had my favorite girls cancel on me for whatever reason. It's happened to me. I get it. But I would never go into a hissy fit about it. I'll ask when can I reschedule to see you. This pay to play hobby we're into isn't life and death.  

You don't need to find your client another provider to see. That's his problem. He'll live through you going on vacation.

Since when did it become YOUR responsibility for him to get his rocks off?  His enjoyment is his own responsibility and his alone.  You're not his girlfriend or property or anything.   Sheesh.  

I wouldn't let it rub you the wrong way, MM...

many ladies have friends in the biz and are fine with referring their clients to a friend. If you don't have any, then simply telling him so seems like plenty of effort on your part.

As for the guy asking you for a friend referral... if you said you don't have a recommendation and he is whining about that being your fault - he is a lazy-ass putz. He has plenty of options I'm sure, he just has to get off his lazy ass and find someone. As someone else mentioned, going to TER "Search reviews" is pretty damn easy - even for the laziest of us.

This client sounds like he has issues. GIve him the phone number for a psychiatrist, or maybe the suicide hotline.

Maybe, he was embarrassed to ask for a referral and it came out blatantly and poorly. Or, maybe he is just a needy demanding prick. Or somewhere in between.  

Like someone said in many different threads, everyone's orgasm is their own responsibility.  

Wow, this is p4p. In the internet age there are limitless resources to find ladies to play with.  

OP, for your own sanity it's not your ffing problem.  

Have a great holiday!

another provider while you are gone.

This is one of those situations why I don't only see one provider. If the one is either retiring or taking a brake for a while, then you are like a newbie again.

Thank you guys. Your brutal honestys, sheet frankness and down right truth.. sit well with me. I appreciate each and everyone of you thank you and I hope you guys have a great day .  
If your in the area before mid August .., I'm here baby

Is a moron. He is a big boy, he can find another friend. If he treats you like this then it's time for you to no longer see him.  

Do you need him more or does he need you more? Time he grows up and time to remove the hobby titty  from his mouth. What an asshole.

Don't waste your time.  If he is wise he will straighten himself  out. What..he can't go a month without seeing You? The time away will do him sone good and be refreshing for you no doubt.

He needs to find his own ladies, don't do it for him, or direct his attention to xvideos.com or pornhub.

Take care!!!

-- Modified on 7/27/2017 9:57:00 PM

Just kidding, The easiest way is to lie. Tell him that you really want to cancel your trip to be with him but.... (use your imagination and fill in the blank).

I'd be cautious about finding a prostitute for someone else.  That can technically be considered procuring, and the penalties can be more severe for that than for just hooking.

With apologies.  She had had a family emergency.  Now, I had never asked nor expected her to send a replacement.  An emergency is just that. The fact that she did (and the girl she sent was both a knockout and a great lay (UTR only gal) went a long way to showing she cared to keep my business.
  But see, I never expected it and would never ask it of a regular to do that.  It was just a nice gesture on her part.  She even wanted to give me a discount in our next session but i paid her in full anyway.

This guy gets upset that she isn't going to be available and comes across in a demanding tone, expecting her to find his substitute for him?  

Needy? Sounds more like an entitled ass who's is pouting because he isn't getting what he wants.  

email him the link to TER and wish him well.

Meaning my regulars home are often left high an dry when I'm out of town. I've never had a problem givin him the names of 1 or 2 girls out here I think he would be compatible with and that I know will be easy to get him screened. It's a nice gesture, not at all necessary and he definitely shouldnt be mad!!!

I've experienced this too..I also know very few ladies in the biz in my town so I end up recommending providers they likely have no chance of seeing (due to 24 hours notice requirements).  I just returned from NYC and the entire time I was there a regular was blowing up my phone demanding that I answer him back.

and it pissed me off to no end. On top of asking to find another provider, he demanded I start giving him numbers to other porn stars who don't actively advertise. I think a lot of it has more to do with the pimp aspect to it than some sort of ego wound. I just don't wanna feel like I'm running some other girl, I don't really know why. Im more than willing to give recommendations for the small group of people I'll work with, but beyond that, the searching is his/her own responsibility.