Why would you give her a second chance if she didn't show the first time ?
Because you are a groveler.
 
She gets off on your groveling like Lucy gets off moving the ball.

Reminds me of groveling husbands. There are  reasons why their wives are fucking me and not them .

If you have tried 4 times to see a particular girl to no avail. Well, all I can say is you struck out and move on. Too much red tape, unprofessionalism and possibly some obsessiveness on your part.

disrespect deserves reproach

you don't know me from Schitt. Jack would never call anyone dear to him such a name

GFY!

i usually just give 2 myself.

but I think you can name names on the RO board, if you have access.

Seriously next time, after giving a person one extra chance, just end it there.

life's too short for that kind of BS.

Why? For being a 3x idiot?

Time #1 you can be pissed, then you gotta decide what to do. But if you go for time #2 it'a all on you,

Time #3 and #4??? Well at that point you're just being a self-abusing asshole and the only person you MIGHT be able to be pissed at is your mamma for not smacking that shit outa you when you were a kid.


HH

That sums it up pretty well.  I've never given a second chance to a provider who NCNS'd on our first meeting.  If you choose to roll the dice like that you are enabling a pattern of bad behavior on the gal's part.

There are plenty of good providers out there who answer their phones, return emails and show up for their appointments. No reason to give second,third or fourth chances to women who simply don't have their act together.

I've tried to see this lady (who will remain un-named for the time being) 4 times.  We have made four appointments and every time I've tried to call to verify the incall location she won't answer her damned phone.  I feel like I'm Charlie Brown and she's Lucy.  A couple of time she's called back and apologized for missing the appointment, but then she blows off the next damned session.  She wants reviews, but she may not get what she desires.

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I've had it happen...  and she will not get another opportunity with me.  It is extreemly rude...  basic good behavior is a base requirement.  I'd not be able to have a good time if she did come through...   Move on.
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With all due respect unless you are willing to out her then your just huffing and puffing so to speak. I could understand reluctance after one time and even after the second but if she truly has blown you off four times then you have every right to call her out here.

She has to know that what she is doing is unacceptable. Especially to the same person 4x's. I'll be pissed. I don't know how u can tolerate that. I can understand being blown off twice. But, the 3rd and 4th time is absolutely ludicrous.

She has to learn that its her job, and within her job, there r certain guidelines & professionalism to follow. If you don't write the review & state her flaws, then many more other hobbyist will have to experience what u experience. Its only right if u post the review. Especially with 4 turn-downs.

Hopefully, she will reflect on her review if she wants to be successful.

and actually I usually only give them two.

I gave her a mulligan for the first time since it was short notice, but then she kept calling me back for a reschedule...also she offered greek in her ads, which was probably why I gave her a couple of extra opportunities.  Stupid, stupid of me.

bash the weatherman for getting your shirt wet when you keep pissing upwind?

Move on.  Life is hard sometimes.  Big deal.  Bashing solves nothing.  Just go forward, on to something better.

I agree with not bashing. But, he should take some initiatives to deter her from doing this in the future. He could write a review, and hopefully she will reflect on her behavior.

If, he doesn't do so, then others might experience his turmoil.

Nobody has to bash anyone.  But don't guys who might want to date this provider be warned she's a flake?  Isn't that part of the purpose of TER, to give us information about the performance of providers, both good and bad? I sure don't want to book a session with a provider who'd behave like this.

He states he has tried to see her four times. Sounds like no session has taken place. Even if he has seen her in the past these No Shows can't be reviewed as they weren't part of that session.

Four times, I think I'd have to say who she is.

You might post on your local board...  but MR Fisher has it correct.  Unless a meeting took place, you can not write a review.   Really frustrating, unprofessional, etc.  If she does much of this, she'll be out of business.  
I might give a second chance with an appology...  emergencies happen on both sides...  but the meeting had better take place without a hitch the next time.  4X...  she's not taking this seriously or she has a different business model.

However, be advised there is a certain provider business model...  where the provider advertizes she's available NOW!  She accepts every proposal.  The first guy to arrive is given entrance.   She turns off her phone or some such until she is available again.  Repeat as often as possible.  
I absolutely will not see such a girl.  I'm not going to drop everything to get to her location, and risk a No Pickup.  It might work fine for the locals...  
I will point out there is little to no chance for screening.

skb

Then move on. So many other girls are out there who take your and their time seriously.

to Bash her.....If you allow her bad behavior to annoy you then she is in control of the situation...I would erase her number from you contact list and move on to one of many other proverbial fish in the sea.

Just a thought.

If I found a provider that looked like this, I'll probably say, "Damn baby, now, u blew me off 12x's, is the 13th time the magic number?".

Does that mean "go fuck yourself"? I've done it once today and should probably be doing it right now, too. I'll let you watch.

And, then move on.

Sounds like OP might have been scheduling with a provider who does not have a solid history of reviews. His choice. And, one 'no-show' without forewarning? Scheduling a second time doesn't seem crazy. To schedule 4 times and have the same outcome? And, then get on a public board and ask when "she" should be bashed?

No one can successfully operate any business if they have pattern of no-showing their commitments. If this provider is as unreliable with others as she has been with the OP, it won't be long before she feels that pain without intervention (or "bashing") from anyone.

As far as anyone who might schedule with her more than once, only to have her keep 'flaking'?

OP: "doc, it hurts when I do this"
Doc: "Don't do that"

You gave her four times to blow you off? I can see twice (just in case the first time was a true fluke), but 4x?!

What's the saying? "Fool me once, shame on you..."

As for bashing, this is my spin on this. OK, so (like an idiot) you decide to let her NCNS you 4x. You want to do SOMETHING...

Ladies & gentlemen. Don't bash because of bad behavior. At least on the public boards. It never does anybody any good. If you feel the need to warn the public at large about bad behavior, do one or both of the following:
   - The worse the offense and the more pissed off you are, the more matter-of-fact you should be in your review/post.
   - Vent in a more private forum. Either the RO/PO board (yes, the RO board leaks like a sieve - effing white knights!), or if you have a circle of "hobby/provider friends" keep it to your personal back channels.

Didn't think I'd see you here again. After....

It's not perfect, but it has it's purpose.

Don't take it too seriously. Yeah, I know....

Gotta song for you when you're in that warm tub, lol...!

I didn't actually get into your reviews, but you seem like a guy that's hard to please. Not saying you should expect less for your hard earned money. The thought just crossed my mind she doesn't want a 6/7 when she typically gets 8/9 or more.

Maybe when she screened you, she asked these other ladies about you and they told her not to bother. They busted their ass with you, and thought you were unappreciative.

Fuck, just the fact you said 'She wants reviews, but she may not get what she desires' tells me you already made up your mind what she's gonna get no matter what she does to try and make it up to you, know what I mean?

Just move on, and do both of you a favor.

I have no problem bashing ANYONE what-so-fucking-ever if they piss me off enough!

It just so happens I give the fairer sex more leeway than you fucktards!....

Why bother? Find someone else to fuck your brains out. Bashing, trying to bash someone, going back and forth with “he said, she said” crap is waste of time you should be using as fuck time.

Fucking is the object of game here, not provider bashing.

and have a great time.  Why waste your time after the first NS?  Did you send her an email asking what happened?  Was her response believable?  If not, move on.