Guys and Gals, what is the right etiquette in describing the juicy details of a session?

Should it be a play by play with all the acronyms: BBBJ, CBJ, MISS, CG, RCG, K9, etc etc. I have read some reviews that feels like an erotic novel. I have written one or two this way myself when the session was really good  ( makes me feel like I am reliving it).  

Or just write a brief summary to let other hobbyist know weather it was worth it or not. Kind of like a kiss and tell thing, more like kiss and don't tell.

The reason I asked is because I have seen some providers are asking on their website not to give reviews or not to give specific details about the session in the review. So if I want to see her & going through her screening process. She sees one of my play by play erotic reviews, she might not even want to see me afterwards!!

I know what the guys want......But I really want to know what the gals think? Is this a privacy issue? Is this a I will do some things with one client but not with another ( so do not tell the world about what we did ). What are you gals taking away with you when you read a potential client's review of another provider......

The first thing I asker her, regarding reviews, is if it's okay if I write a review on TER.  Most are appreciative of reviews, others prefer not to have them.  If the provider says she'd appreciate a review I'll ask her if there is anything in particular in the narrative section of the review that she would like me to leave out.  Of the three reviews I've written the providers gave me the green light to tell all.

I've had two providers when I asked if they would like a review they told me sure, as long as it's a 10/10.  Needless to say I didn't even consider writing a review at that point.  Ironically one of them would have been a 10/10 and the other probably a 9/10, but when I feel I'm being strong armed into providing what is essentially a courteous referral my good nature reaches an abrupt halt.

Back to the OP's question, my advice is to ask the provider about whether she would like a review as the session is wrapping up.  That way there are no misunderstandings or misgivings.

Just tell it as you experienced it.

I agree.  Let others know how things went starting with scheduling the time, confirming it and then the details.  Give the details as they happened while you were there, not how they happened in your mind (every now and then some hobbyists will get carried away and exaggerate things).   Let us know any little tips as well (if any)

I Never thought about asking a provider if it's ok to review them.

D.

Ask if it's ok to write a review ! I never understood it until a couple guys said some girls don't want "too many reviews" (idk what would be classified as too many, but ok!)
And my answer is always "oh no no go ahead write it, I'll read it!"  
Cause I like "reliving" it like some say!

As for his reviews of other girls - I don't read them! I like to "go with the flow" I don't want to have any presumptions (I think that's the word?) yea

If it was a privacy issue they would not get reviews.  

Unless the reviews on here are trashy enough, they get rejected. A respectful review without a blow by blow commentary but with the pertinent details(punctual, looks like images, service rendered with enthusiasm etc), most likely will not get approved.  

Some guys are so clueless that they think what a hooker did with 6 other guys she HAS to do with them regardless of size, hygiene etc. That is one of the main reasons I don't have reviews.

...and if she does I will review her as accurately as I can. If the review isn't juicy enough it will be rejected. I try to be as classy as I can while reporting a sex romp.Since my sexual needs are different than most other hobbyists, the only useful parts of other hobbyists reviews are the non VIP part, which usually deals with the non sexual aspects like her communication, promptness, location/parking issues, etc.

it should be no problem to do this in a respectful, gentlemanly way.  Even when an appointment does not go exactly the way I would have liked, I try to find a respectful way to inform my fellow hobbyists who may be interested in seeing this provider about the session in my review, while considering the feelings of the provider.

Like you, when the provider is simply amazing, I try to articulate that in the review.

On the contrary, when things do not pan out quite as well, I still try to paint a picture of the event while also considering my role in the outcome.  Yes, she IS getting paid, but I may have been the reason we did not hit it off exactly right.

Being objective and fair has always led me down the best path.  Just one man's opinion

But I do rarely ask what she does or does not want in the review, unless it is her first review. Then I write the review with enough detail and acronyms to satisfy my fellow members here and the TER mods, some sense of what being with her was like (businesslike, quick and out, any discussion and if so, what did she talk about, etc.) But in general, the less detail the better, and do not include anything she does not advertise offering, or any personal details she might have shared.

Some ladies read reviews, but most do not, IMO. The ones who read them may get back to you with a complaint or comment if you say something they do not like (I called one little honey voluptuous, which was completely true but the boys here translate that as fat, so she was not happy with me). I have edited a couple of reviews over the years, apologized a couple more times. A few thanked me, or said they wanted to meet the woman I reviewed, etc.

Anyway, keeping it as short as you can and still get it approved is always the best plan, not that I follow it.

zig

I'll chime in

I completely agree with at least offering the courtesy of asking the provider if she minds reviews-- especially graphic reviews!

Unless your experience with her was terrible, of course, which would IMHO, be in the best interest of your fellow hobbyists to spill the beans and if the provider is savvy enough, she'll learn from the review and make an effort to better herself and improve her business model, which in turn will be a benefit to her as well.  
It's only fair...

Also, on the topic of reviews:  There are "reviewers" out there who can be "malicious" with the ladies (i.e., hobbyist couldn't handle rejection or a jealous ex, etc.) or "promotional" of  the ladies (i.e., hobbyist has been offered generous incentives, is seeking brownie points, or is over-inflating in order to satisfy his own ego, etc.), which is unfair and an injustice to both parties.  

I wish there was a way to combat that on this forum, honestly.
I've seen so many over the top reviews that I KNEW were fake as well as reviews that falsely maligned ladies' reputations here and left the ladies in question no room to dispute them.

If there was some way to implement an opt-in/opt-out "White List" system of ladies for the gents, with a way to PM the white listing hobbyist directly to ask for details on their experience with the provider (much the same way providers do), I guess that would make many gals (myself included) a little more comfortable...
But that could also present loopholes and no system is perfect.  So, C'est La Vie, right? :/

I prefer NOT to have reviews-- obviously I do have plenty, but most gents have respected my request when asking me, thankfully.
On certain review boards like this one, respectively, and a few other review boards, they can be far too graphic, defeating the purpose of priding myself on being a low-volume, low key courtesan.  
I'm sure I'm not the only lady who feels this way.

Great topic, btw.
The feedback is quite interesting.

Cheers,
Gypsy

I would agree with you that, if the details are not explicit enough the reviews go unapproved.  Which is why I am not keen on writing them.  

Regarding your statement about expectations guys have after reading reviews written by others and the "services", you are so correct.  That is primarily the reason I don't read the details.  I'm more interested in the general description.  I prefer to just kind of go with the moment and just enjoy the time together. I've seen a few ladies who may enjoy one activity on one occasion and not the next.  I'm OK with that.

That's my right and I don't need anyone's permission.  That said, I will make sure that she's OK with my describing any YMMV-type stuff that went on, and if she's not I'll leave that out.  I also never mention anything that went on OTC.

if you know the history of TER and the purpose of the site why ask. Of course I don't see 10/10 providers, nor "no review policy" providers. And as nick mentioned, off the menu services and any otc time is not mentioned.

What was the first meeting like?  Are her pictures real? Did she offer what was expected.  Any cautions?  Nothing wrong with acronyms.  There's really no reason to be graphic.   Did you have a good time?  
What do you really need to know, if you are considering meeting her?

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I am happy for you to put whatever you want in the review of me. I do understand why someone wouldn't want all the juicy details there though, because every session is a unique experience. If you share what you did with her and it is something she may not want to do with someone else it could cause a problem.  

But, I am all for honesty in reviews. I personally think that a lot of guys inflate or aren't honest in what they say because they fear a backlash from the girl. I don't think that is fair. I think you should be able to write what really happened and how you really feel about it. The only thing you shouldn't do is lie about anything.  

And, always keep in mind that our reviews HUGELY effect our business. So, if you are giving her a bad review for reasons other than her deserving it- then that isn't fair.  

But - I say - be honest. But, if she doesn't want you to share ALL the juicy stuff, just be brief and vague. You do have to include some of the juicy stuff or TER wont post it. But, make sure it is tasteful.

Of course, there are exceptions, like if a friend has seen her and recommends.  But as a general rule, she must have a few reviews.

I don't have reviews and that is how I roll. We both get to see who suits us best and get our needs met.