You're paying them to do nothing - what's not to like?
There is nothing more satisfying then quality time spent with a provider who is the "perfect" package...performance, looks, and conversation. But once in a while, rather than asking for the full menu, I actually find it erotic and stimulating to satisfy myself while the lady watches. There is something about a woman watching me masturbate that turns me on. But my question is....is this boring for the lady or do most women like watching the guy perform on his own? And do most guys enjoy going "solo" once in awhile infront of a beautiful woman?
I find it very erotic myself. I enjoy watching a man please themselves, just like most men like watching a woman play with a toy by herself.
Tasha
My experience has been yes! You may not be so lucky with a non GFE one-and-done type but a good provider who enjoys the encounter will usually be happy to watch...maybe even join in!
I can't say that I book an appointment solely for the purpose of whacking-off in front of a beautiful lady but, as age has taken it's toll on me, "holding my own" through part of the session is definitely on the menu so the lady can catch her breath.
Honestly, It felt weird the first time I did it but the gal was very encouraging and....helpful....
Bet there isn't a provider out there who would pass you up-- easy money.
I don't think it has anything to do with "an easy client." Who said that was the first release? Or that there isn't one after that? I think it's seriously erotic either way, but that's just my opinion.
Tasha
Didn't say it wasn't erotic for some providers. I'm sure there are many a lady that may even prefer it.
You gotta admit, if the guy is going to jerk himself off while you lay there and watch- whether it's one or two pops, it's still a lot easier for the girl than doing the full service, bj, cg, reverse cg, 69, mish, doggie thing once or twice in the course of an hour. All things being equal, the former sure seems like easy money compared to the latter.
...who would love nothing more than to file their nails while the guy jerks off but that's not what the OP was about.
I think responses from the ladies here would indicate that they seem to enjoy it when we sometimes take matters into our own hands!
But either way, it's still easy money- relatively speaking.
I had a boyfriend who did. Sometimes, I would lay beside him and kiss him... very hot. I like watching.
You're paying them to do nothing - what's not to like? ![]()
I love to watch a man take care of himself. Especially if I am laying under him catching his gift.
As for it being easy money - If all I thought about when I was with a man was the money, neither one of us would have a good time. When I meet a man, it's about him and I enjoying each other as much as possible. Hell, most of the time I forget it's a job!
I think most of the providers on here feel the same. We enjoy what we do and it shows.
Kari~~
If we were just some money hungry people then I'm sure you would be able to tell. I know there has been times when I've walked out forgetting my envelope or having to have the guy remind me. Why, because I enjoyed myself beyond the money. If this was all about money then I'm sure most of us wouldn't have reviews like we do. Some might say, I should have stayed home, she just laid there like a robot, or wasn't worth my time. To each their own though.
I have a super sexy friend who absolutely loves to watch me and my lover play. My lover, of course, decides if he wants to have me lick him, touch him, do various positions, ect... But i recently saw a guy who requested i bring my voyeur friend, and he wanted to just masterbate and watch 2 beautiful women get turned-on by watching him. It was such a turn-on and thrill for my friend and I to see him getting so excited, and moaning and saying over and over how much we excited him.
Sex can be subconscious and finding eroticism in the mind can sometimes be more sexy then actually having a partner touch, stimulate, or have sex with you.
In the summertime, I often go to a nudest beach, and I am a naturalist who loves sun, ocean waves, and seagulls flying overhead, but within minutes of setting down my beach-towel, I have gatherers, with their erections, getting off at the sight of me. Yes, it turns me on. I wont go home with any of them, or jump in any beach-brush, but I like the idea that they see me with no makeup, hair all wind-blown, getting a bit sun-burnt on my ass, and they are close to cumming from the sight of me being natural.
Never be ashamed or question your fantasies. Humans are amazing and creative sexual beings. Enjoy your sexual liberation and remember that the mind is also a sexual organ.
kisses, flora
-- Modified on 12/30/2007 8:33:54 PM
"In the summertime, I often go to a nudest beach, and I am a naturalist who loves sun, ocean waves, and seagulls flying overhead, but within minutes of setting down my beach-towel, I have gatherers, with their erections, getting off at the sight of me. Yes, it turns me on. I wont go home with any of them, or jump in any beach-brush, but I like the idea that they see me with no makeup, hair all wind-blown, getting a bit sun-burnt on my ass, and they are close to cumming from the sight of me being natural."
That's kinda odd, and they say nudists don't do it for sexual reasons, I am to understand guys just start masturbating in front of you? Very strange. I'd at least put out a tip jar heh ![]()
-m
We are naturally sexual animals. To be natural is to be natural...
To answer mmin's posts about being a naturalist and dealing with masterbation on the beach:
i know it doesnt happen to all visitors to a nude beach, but yes, no matter which country or beach i visit, the men gather and masterbate by watching me. Im reading a book or beading a necklace and try to pretend i dont see them. In the beginning, when I first started going to nude beaches, I was angry that i wasnt left alone, but i finally accepted i was either going to have to get used to it or get away from it. And i love being naked outside, so my decision was to deal with it, but also learn to understand and even like it.
Im flattered that I'm found attractive, being my natural self, I also am amazed that even when i hide in the quite hidden dunes they find my hiding spot. I think its funny when they ask "do u have the time?" just to ger a closer look.
Im comfortable in my skin, aware of my sexual self, and open minded to see things as they are presented day to day.
As for a tip jar, i might do that if i bring my guitar and play some tunes for them while they wenk.
The original question was if i enjoyed watching a man wenk, and my answer is yes.
you're welcome to pm me if u have further questions about my naturalist thoughts.
x flora
-- Modified on 12/31/2007 4:29:57 PM
YES!!!
I have been a voyeur since I can remember. I was not sure if it was the interaction that I enjoyed watching, or if watching anyone solo was a turn on for me as well.
Until...
I was dancing in a club that also had "Booths", me in one side, guy in the other, glass in between. I soon realized that I REALLY liked watching the guy pleasure himself, and especially liked watching the finale!
I of course, was not bored at all, I had the opportunity to do the same!
Kisses~
Crysta